Overnights

[oboeadam]

Hi all,

 

I realize this can vary by escort, but what is the general expectation with an overnight hire? I've only done by the hour and couldn't really find anything in the forum that talks about this (there was a post on extended visits, but it talked more about entire weekends and longer). I'm guessing you'd meet later in the evening (e.g. 7 or later), have a session, sleep through the night, have a morning session and then part ways - is that what those of you who have done overnight hires have experienced in general?

[marylander1940]

Hi all,

 

I realize this can vary by escort, but what is the general expectation with an overnight hire? I've only done by the hour and couldn't really find anything in the forum that talks about this (there was a post on extended visits, but it talked more about entire weekends and longer). I'm guessing you'd meet later in the evening (e.g. 7 or later), have a session, sleep through the night, have a morning session and then part ways - is that what those of you who have done overnight hires have experienced in general?

 

It's all negotiable, fun, dinner, more fun, sleep time, fun, breakfast, etc. The only thing I would recommend you is to meet the guy first and do an overnight after you know there's chemistry.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

As has been said over and over again: Ask the escort you want to see and realize that there is no such thing as 'normal expectation.'

 

Communicate and the two of you can figure things out.

 

The only thing you'll get here is a wide variety of opinion/speculation

[oboeadam]

As has been said over and over again: Ask the escort you want to see and realize that there is no such thing as 'normal expectation.'

 

Communicate and the two of you can figure things out.

 

The only thing you'll get here is a wide variety of opinion/speculation

 

I would venture to say the thing I would get here would be what people's experiences have been doing overnights - as I stated in my post, I know it varies by escort, but I don't think it's a bad thing for me to understand what others have experienced when they've had overnights in the past. I appreciate your opinion though.

[MrMattBig]

I would venture to say the thing I would get here would be what people's experiences have been doing overnights - as I stated in my post, I know it varies by escort, but I don't think it's a bad thing for me to understand what others have experienced when they've had overnights in the past. I appreciate your opinion though.

A good professional escort will stay up and give you the experience you vocalize and vibe that you are expecting.

All nighters no matter the.situation are not uncommon, I think it's important that you vocalize what you are expecting to get the most out of the replies on this forum to judge.

[HotWhiteThirties]

I personally prefer overnights. It does vary by provider, but the providers who specialize and excel in the “Boyfriend Experience” (also a relative and highly debatable term), would be the type of person whom I would consider an overnight engagement with. I have never had a bad experience with an overnight so far - in every case my companion was well-reviewed, interested in more than just the physical, but the emotional and mental as well. It gives an opportunity take things at a relaxed pace, grab dinner and drinks, enjoy breakfast and of course lots of fun in between. In my experiences there hasn’t been a lot of “sleeping,” though it’s nice to drift off for spells between the interaction. I don’t think I would ever return to hiring for only an hour. I’d rather spend a little more less often and make the event a total experience. Overnights are perfect for that in my view.

 

As an aside, if an overnight seems too long, consider a 4 to 6 hour engagement instead. This would allow you to have some play, possibly go to dinner and a show, and rap up the evening with more play before you go your separate ways. The issue with this is, depending on the provider’s pricing, it may not be that much more to upgrade to the overnight anyway, but cost is not the only consideration in this decision, of course - some people actually do want to sleep and don’t share a bed well, amongst other considerations.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

The overnights I've had do vary. In most cases, dinner has been included and usually breakfast. In some cases, there are a couple of play sessions in the evening with nothing in the morning. Other times an evening session with a morning wake up call with the provider's head under the sheets.

 

One item to discuss before hand is sleeping. Is sleepwear expected or nudity? Is body contact (such as spooning) during the night good or does either client or provider need to be untouched to get sleep? How many hours of actual sleeping is a minimum.

[liubit]

I did quite a lot of overnights in my early hiring years, and I enjoyed them, but I came to realize that it was a bit expensive to pay for the “privilege” of seeing somebody sleep next to you. I now prefer extended daytime hires: I find that I get “more fuck for my buck”