So what exactly do you do?

[+ Lefty82]

First of all — my apologies if this belongs in another forum, but it does seem appropriate enough.

 

When you hire an escort for multiple hours, or overnight (or even weekend for purposes of this question), what do you do the entire time? I know the obvious that is usually done, but that can be in an hour or 2.

 

I’m more curious what y’all normally do on multiple day or multiple hour hires. I’ve thought about hiring for longer than a couple hours, but I am always conscious of whether the escort would be having a good time also. Like would they enjoy going to a game or something like that? . How long is a typical “overnight” and what do you usually do, besides the obvious? I know I am the one spending money on them to hang out with me, but it’s almost like it won’t be fun for me if it’s not fun for them.

 

For you experienced hirers (and hirees), I appreciate any insight. I’ve got a free weekend coming up and I’m thinking about spending it chasing my dreams

 

~Lefty

[+ azdr0710]

first, make sure you and the guy already get along in person (previous meet).....though several here have done fine with it, most will say don't hire a provider for the first time for an overnight or a weekend meet ......

 

ask the provider what he likes to do and make plans around that, though you don't have to do something you utterly dislike......don't tightly schedule the weekend hour-by-hour.....hang out like good buddies......read the paper, have coffee, grab a meal, watch a movie on the TV, ask him to help with that chore that needs an extra hand......

 

always give the guy three or four hours off each day to be entirely by himself (completely away from you)....he'll need to check emails and texts, maybe hit the gym, make some private phone calls, other errands.....

 

are you comfortable sleeping with somebody else in your bed or in the same room?.....

 

don't feel the need to keep him entertained at all hours.....meet with an experienced, well-reviewed guy and communicate the plan with each other ahead of time......he'll probably say "let's just go with the flow": a good idea.....

 

you may also want to consider a long meet, but during daylight hours only......I have a seven- or eight-hour meet coming up next week, but it'll go from about noon to early evening.....allows us to hang out by the pool, go grab a bite, walk around, relax....I usually don't like other people in my bed or room while I sleep, so this works out - and I'm awake the entire time!

Edited June 14, 2018 by azdr0710

[BluDay]

Unless you and the escort can go like rabbits for the whole time, I suggest multiple hours with someone where there is a mutual connection. Do two hours, and if you have interests in common: movies, music, something. You'll have time to fill, and it's much easier on you, and you will get better results from him if you have something to talk about. If all you have in common is his body, time will drag.

 

You mentioned a few ranges. If it's multiple hours (which I presume is more than 3) decide on a place to eat, a movie you would both like, or something. That's not a time range I'd ever done, but if I did, I'd have some sex, move/meal/whatever, than a bit more fooling around.

 

If you go for an overnight, it's about the same, but you will be in bed sleeping. A lot of escorts sleep late: their business can easily run to the early hours. Prepare for that. I've done that. A bit of time in bed, dinner, a movie, more fun in bed, sleep. Messing around when we get up, and it's over.

 

If you go longer, a weekend, for example, as @azdr0710 says, you need to give him time completely away for him to do business and "re-charge". He's only human (a hot human, but still human). He needs to keep his business going. And the reality is even close friends can't do days on end with each other. And the chances are you have had limited interaction outside of the bedroom before.

 

I think the biggest thing in compatibility. Can you be with the man that long? The better escorts could be miserable and you would never know it - they are just that skilled. You wisely want him to have fun. Find a guy you know, you like, and will be able to honestly tell you he doesn't want to watch whatever movie you propose (if he doesn't). It will be better for both of you.

 

If you get to do this - I hope you have a blast!

[+ harey]

I agree with the other replies above. If you have a particular dream-guy in mind and time is short, I would go for it. Otherwise, you might want to build up to an overnight/weekend with increasingly longer meetings. That builds trust and will give you an idea about your own feelings of spending time outside of bed and if you enjoy other interactions. It's great to find a provider you have both physical and emotional chemistry with. And if you're a little uncertain beforehand, just remember it won't be so bad.

 

I guess we all have different ideas about extended stays...

 

[InterestingGuy]

It sounds like a lot of work and planning for multi-hour appointments, overnights and weekends.

 

I believe in the old adage: "You're not just paying for the fun; you're paying for him to leave when you're done."