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They do the hole, too!? 😳 Well, I do want to go all out! I know of a place near me in Chelsea, Manhattan (I've walked past it many times), they cater to the gay community here, I think they'll be a bit more experienced in that area below 😁 As for sugaring, okay ... Say no more, if there's less pain as you suggested, I'll most definitely inquire. 🙂

Wow, thanks a million @jeezifonly !! You know what, you're absolutely right, I'll be making a phone call to a different location, though, since the place I just visited will likely have a heart attack if I were to bend over spread my cheeks and ask them to go ahead and get waxing! (They're a more traditional establishment with a team of Indian women.) Oh! And uh, if the pain level is about the same as the stomach (which I handled quite well) I think I can do the crack just as admirably 🙂. Thank you for the motivation 😜 I sincerely want to make this first hire a memorable one 🥰

Thanks! I think I'd go with a careful shave (front area and balls). My only problem is getting in that hard to reach area (between the crack). I would love it if it were smooth, at least this time. (Am I over thinking it?) I just want to make sure I feel confident and he feels good looking down as he goes inside me.

I just had my first waxing yesterday, wow! One caveat: I couldn't go further south than my waistline! So, because I'm preparing for my first Rent Men experience, I love to take a little pride in making sure I'm as well-groomed as I can be. I plan on (and I love to) bottom so I want the man who will eventually top me (he will be my second experience and it will be my second time bottoming ever!) I want to make sure that he have as nice of an experience as possible, too. That said: I was able to wax my ears, armpits, chest and stomach (I can't believe how good it looks and feels [to me]!!) ... ... But I was afraid to go further south past my waistline!!! Does it hurt? Is there a particular technique? Can anyone recommend someone they've gone to here in the NYC area? Help!

Hmm, that would really be ideal. 🤔

One day, maybe I can develop long-term regulars 😩

As someone who is still trying to figure out these waters, I would definitely appreciate this. I've looked at so many profiles but just don't conjure up the nerve to contact someone. If a provider were to reach out to me, that would mean so much to me and I'd definitely hire. (Still hoping to hire soon!) I love it 🙂

And I'm still working on my first trick! 😞

I love him! Marry me please!!!!!!!!

Let us know how it goes if and/or when you visit. 😁

Thank you! This is great. Descriptions I can do! 😁 I'm really looking forward to this.

From one newbie to another — Welcome! I recently found this Forum, too, and it's an incredible resource 👍🏼

Has anyone visited Babylon Spa on 6th Ave near Bryant Park, recently? I'd like to finally make my first visit for a massage but I'm carefully reviewing my options. Help! 😁

This would be my dream come true!

I wish I were the one on his knees!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!

I would pay anything for him to top me, omg!!!!! OMG the way it bounces, yum!!!!!!

This is tough and almost an impossibility. But worth investigating. I know for me, if thinking about hiring an escort, I normally withdraw unsuspicious amounts of cash every couple/few days or so until I receive the desired amount (I'm currently married and I'm also not out) but I've always opted to using cash since it isn't traced back to anything. Not sure if this helps.

Me too! I've yet to experience a load exploding in my mouth but when I find the right guy, he's gonna be one lucky man!!!!

He's my hero. (Only kidding ... but not really — but I am.)

I honestly believe I cannot get off if a cock had not entered my mouth. In all honesty, I'd rather provide a blowjob, or play with a cock than touch myself. I sometimes forget who the person is behind the cock. Imagining cock going inside me is pretty much all I think of. I sincerely believe I fall under the cock fetish category. I'm trying to control it or be a bit more balanced. I don't know.

Wow! I would love to spend time with him but I'm in NYC 😭😭 He's perfect!

Your advice is very helpful. But what about men like myself, I'd love to add images of myself but because I'm new to exploring my sexuality (unknown to everyone in my family), I'd refrain from posting a photo but would likely include lots of information about my likes and dislikes ... ... So, would an escort ever consider profiles without photos?

So true.

Your friend is pretty interesting, I gotta say 🙂 I don't think I can contribute much but I think I understand him. Me, 100% bottom, I totally have a cock fetish, but I never used, and don't have any interest in using, fake cocks (dildos). I don't know why but it may be the same reason your friend is a bottom but does not like receiving or providing oral enjoyment ... ... One of those unexplained things I guess. 😌

This is a wonderful post, I love how the both of you connected. I long to have that kind of relationship with a provider. May I ask, is he in the New York City area?