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Unfortunately the altitude got to us and we didn’t end up going out much on the weekend because we were exhausted at the end of the day. We did go to Tom’s Leather Bar on Sunday and they did have naked hard gogos even on Sunday which surprised us. One came out every half hour on the dot. We realized they’d play a showtune every half hour and right after that ended the gogo would come out which was pretty funny.

Currently at Blow Bar. There are a couple cute dancers but I’m having a hard time enjoying myself when 60% of the crowd seems to be straight women and straight couples grinding on each other. All the girls are screaming and the dancers are definitely focusing on them. Probably not the right spot for me.

Planning on it, but I did go to Tom's on a Tuesday 11 months ago and they did have nude dancers and it was packed.

Going back to CDMX next month, I'll let you know if I come across anything good.

If that bothers you you should probably steer clear of the brand Lockwood51.

It also rubs me the wrong way when people whine about how long LGBTQIA+ etc. are getting nowadays. Like, no one’s going to yell at you for saying LGBT. People are just trying to be more thoughtful and make more people feel included, I don’t know why it’s a bad thing.

The meaning of words evolves over time. Saying it’s impossible for queer to be empowering because it means “strange” or “other” makes as much sense as saying “fa**ot” cant be an insult because it means “bundle of sticks.” Sure, these words can mean those things, in specific contexts. In the modern context “queer” means “not conforming to cis and heteronormative expectations of gender and sexuality.” In many contexts today that is used in a positive or neutral descriptive way. It’s possible to lob it as an insult or slur, depending on the intent of the speaker, the same way “gay” can be a neutral or positive term or be used as an insult or slur depending on the speaker’s intent.

The insult comes in that I've never heard a woman called a cocksucker as an insult, I've heard it lobbed at men all the time.

Recently I got into a lengthy argument with a straight friend who couldn’t fathom why “cocksucker” was a homophobic insult.

If someone wanted to lob an insult at a gay guy it would have been “f*g” or “homo” not “queer”

When I was in high school, “gay” was used as the default term for anyone or anything you didn’t like. I didn’t even hear “queer” as a kid so for me it doesn’t really have baggage. I’m a cis gay man, but I’m part of the queer community which includes a lot of different subsets of people. The same way I’m of both Irish and European ancestry.

I had a great experience with thick_machotop. Hot, huge dick, friendly, great time.

I feel like it's 98% to get the boys to stick around rather than leaving for lunch.

And "the fact remains that they are the laws of the land" sounds weird to me when sex work in general is against the laws of the land in many places and I think a lot of people (me included) would say that doesn't mean it's wrong.

@misterhumphries I guess what would your preferred outcome be? That anyone who's a sex worker doesn't advertise that they provide massage?

I feel like masseurfinder is pretty strict about not implying anything sexual in their ads. Rentmasseur is definitely not.

Responding to the original question, there are a few reasons I tend to hire masseurs rather than escorts. I have a lot of anxiety around social interactions, and a massage is a nice way for me to ease into the situation, knowing what's going to happen, without having to deal with a lot of small talk and awkwardness. In addition to the massage itself being very relaxing, a good erotic masseur can naturally up the sensuality of the experience as it goes along and transition it into sex, which I really enjoy and appreciate. The anticipation of when that's going to happen, when he removes his clothes, where he touches me, when he invites me to touch him, all of that is very enjoyable to me. It can be pretty anticlimactic and disappointing to me when I hire a "masseur" and the "massage" lasts 10 min before he shoves his dick in my face.

Nevermind, I have Covid so I will be spending the rest of my trip in my hotel room.

Yep the sign for BoyBar is still there but the building behind it is gone 😂

I’m in Mexico City right now! I checked out Tom’s Leather Bar last night. (Tuesdays are their busiest day for some reason.) They had nude hard dancers up on the bar. There are several bars in Zona Rosa that have strippers, and I’m planning to check out a few of them. Gigolo Bar seems like one of the newer options. I’ll let you know more once I’ve tried some places out.

Just want to clarify, Camp-It is not clothing optional. There is a cruising area in the woods, and there is a midnight unofficial nude swim in the pool, but generally public nudity is not allowed.

Ah, Timothy said it’s going out soon

Have the location details gone out yet? I paid but I haven’t received anything yet.

Everything happens in the steam room but a lot happens in the steam room. Unfortunately they are currently closed for renovations (as I found out after traveling 90 minutes to get here).

If Fairytale Lounge is still going I would say that's a good bet.