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Recently I got into a lengthy argument with a straight friend who couldn’t fathom why “cocksucker” was a homophobic insult.

If someone wanted to lob an insult at a gay guy it would have been “f*g” or “homo” not “queer”

When I was in high school, “gay” was used as the default term for anyone or anything you didn’t like. I didn’t even hear “queer” as a kid so for me it doesn’t really have baggage. I’m a cis gay man, but I’m part of the queer community which includes a lot of different subsets of people. The same way I’m of both Irish and European ancestry.

I had a great experience with thick_machotop. Hot, huge dick, friendly, great time.

I feel like it's 98% to get the boys to stick around rather than leaving for lunch.

And "the fact remains that they are the laws of the land" sounds weird to me when sex work in general is against the laws of the land in many places and I think a lot of people (me included) would say that doesn't mean it's wrong.

@misterhumphries I guess what would your preferred outcome be? That anyone who's a sex worker doesn't advertise that they provide massage?

I feel like masseurfinder is pretty strict about not implying anything sexual in their ads. Rentmasseur is definitely not.

Responding to the original question, there are a few reasons I tend to hire masseurs rather than escorts. I have a lot of anxiety around social interactions, and a massage is a nice way for me to ease into the situation, knowing what's going to happen, without having to deal with a lot of small talk and awkwardness. In addition to the massage itself being very relaxing, a good erotic masseur can naturally up the sensuality of the experience as it goes along and transition it into sex, which I really enjoy and appreciate. The anticipation of when that's going to happen, when he removes his clothes, where he touches me, when he invites me to touch him, all of that is very enjoyable to me. It can be pretty anticlimactic and disappointing to me when I hire a "masseur" and the "massage" lasts 10 min before he shoves his dick in my face.

Nevermind, I have Covid so I will be spending the rest of my trip in my hotel room.

Yep the sign for BoyBar is still there but the building behind it is gone 😂

I’m in Mexico City right now! I checked out Tom’s Leather Bar last night. (Tuesdays are their busiest day for some reason.) They had nude hard dancers up on the bar. There are several bars in Zona Rosa that have strippers, and I’m planning to check out a few of them. Gigolo Bar seems like one of the newer options. I’ll let you know more once I’ve tried some places out.

Just want to clarify, Camp-It is not clothing optional. There is a cruising area in the woods, and there is a midnight unofficial nude swim in the pool, but generally public nudity is not allowed.

Ah, Timothy said it’s going out soon

Have the location details gone out yet? I paid but I haven’t received anything yet.

Everything happens in the steam room but a lot happens in the steam room. Unfortunately they are currently closed for renovations (as I found out after traveling 90 minutes to get here).

If Fairytale Lounge is still going I would say that's a good bet.

I'll be in town for April's nude party, very excited

There is definitely some overlap with Spunk. I'd estimate 12-2 is probably the busiest time with the most dancers.

It's always the last saturday of the month.

Me too. Haven't found anything yet Hope Adonis expands to Chicago next!

I would try out Spunk at Pieces.

I loved Urge so much.

Sometimes Powerhouse has dancers or guys in a shower depending on the event.

I do agree that I wish there were some bigger bodybuilder types. There were a couple guys like that but not many.