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Also I didn't have any issue with communication. Very responsive via text, in person we chatted a bit at the beginning but I'm not much of a talker during massage so he followed suit.

I just saw him today, and it's hands-down the best massage I've gotten in Chicago. He is so incredibly hot, and it was an extremely relaxing, real massage that seamlessly blended into sensual. I'll be back.

Man he's my biggest fantasy. Wish he was still working.

I am one of the crossovers but I agree there aren't a ton. There did used to be more IML parties at bars where there'd be strippers/sex shows (e.g. Pig Daddy with Rocco Steele) but there haven't been as many of those lately.

It's hard to take you seriously when you use terms like alphabet mafia. Do you use the term feminazi too?

Never said it was. The Black community has generally come to a different decision about it than the queer community has. Doesn't mean my decision is any less valid.

Similarly, the word "homosexual" is by definition a clinical term and an accurate descriptor of who I am. But 90% of the time when I hear that word outside of the clinical setting, it is being used as a pejorative by people who hate me. Words don't literally only mean what the dictionary says they do, especially when it comes to how minority communities use those words (generally they're not the ones who get to decide the definitions).

It's weird to me that you bring up "gay" being used as an insult here and don't realize it's hurting your argument. "Gay" is both used as an insult and as a self-identification. "Queer" is both used as an insult and as a self-identification. Lots of words can be used both as an insult and as a source of pride. Or used in a spirit of defiance in the face of oppression. I have personally had the word "gay" used more to insult me than "queer," does that mean I'm allowing myself to be defined by an insult when I call myself gay? No one is being willfully ignorant of the fact that queer can be and is used as an insult. You're the one being willfully ignorant of the fact that many people are well aware of that fact and still make the well-educated decision to use that term for themselves.

That was exactly how it went. It got a bit busier as the night went on, but none of the guys were very my type. (I tend to like built or bear-adjacent dudes and they were all slim or twinky.) they advertise a drag race watch party on Fridays so I came back tonight and there were 5 people there for drag race lol. Followed by a drag show for an hour and then the same 4 guys came back out as gogos

Several years ago the NYC government made the decision to deprioritize enforcement of nudity/sexual activity laws w/r/t gay bars. Without naming any names, there are NYC gay bars that advertise having play spaces, there are events held at bars that openly advertise as play parties, and there are even gay naked happy hour events that travel around between non-gay bars.

Atmosphere has no lap dances at all. I don’t think there’s anything that could be called a “strip club” in Chicago at the moment.

I’m at Karamba half an hour before the show and there are 10 women and one other guy here. This doesn’t bode well lol.

I was recently there on a Wednesday night and there was a crowd of 40 dudes fooling around in the corner and they didn’t break it up. Very different from when I used to go there when I lived in NY

I also had a great experience with Armagan. Super friendly, very sexy, very powerful and sensual massage, great extras. He’s also super friendly. Only caveat is that my theory that you have to subtract two inches from listed height proved to be correct yet again lol. His ad said 6’ but I’m 5’10” and he was my height if not slightly shorter.

I just saw Jordan and I agree with Kensington on 100%. Had a much better experience than I often do with more expensive masseurs. The blending of sensual and relaxing was so smooth compared to a lot of experiences I’ve had, and he’s just super friendly to boot. We had discussed a 90 min a few days ahead and he forgot and did a 60 min - I was so satisfied when I left that I didn’t even notice, but he messaged me to let me know I overpaid him, which I really appreciate. Excited to see him again next time I’m in NYC.