Placidity

Literally every young guy I've met in the last 3 years or so has bemoaned how flakey guys are in NYC on Grindr, without exception. So, it's not my imagination or my old age (I'm 35). Maybe it's different in Kansas. As for drug use, I'd prefer to get a read on someone's face in a bar, sex club, cruising spot, than once I opened my door after they've made the journey.

Adventure, serendipity, and spontaneity. If people felt shame going to such places, they wouldn't mourn the loss. Most guys (yes, even the hot ones) are missing out on real connections and most of the time just end up jerking off and putting their phone down before meeting anyone. I also personally like to know if someone is a crackhead before they arrive at my door. The good news is cruising is making a massive comeback as a result of people being tired of being cooped up. It's just shame a lot of these places couldn't stay in the game long enough to see it.

It's not your imagination. Much like SF, NYC is a gay mecca where gays can grow old with dignity. The number of older gays, therefore, dwarfs the count of young twinks and makes them seem less scarce. In absolute terms, there are definitely more twinks than in other cities, but they are harder to find and are often very occupied. Your best bet is going to be to make offers on Grindr. With this approach, you need to play volume and expect a 5-10% response rate because many will think you are scammer who's going to ask for their bank account info. The rest will quote a high price or just toy with you for no reason. A small percentage will be serious. Beyond that, your best bet is going to be seeking.com. The shortage of twinks in NYC is so acute that I'm planning to move to Chicago to live right next to Northwestern and Loyola universities. Godspeed.

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