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No, he isn't. In fact he said "twinks, including Asians" will be all over it. Nothing about that statement even implies that all twinks are like this, and stating that "twinks" includes some Asians is just a statement of fact.

By experiences I meant "gay hookups" not overall life experiences. I would tell you what I was doing in Tokyo other than that particular night and the importance of it (not to mention the life experiences I've had there) but I don't think you (or anyone else) are interested. This forum seems to have a pretty specific purpose. Thanks for all of the advice from everyone!

Fem can be cool, boyish and masculine is good. I am vers but with a younger "twink" type I'd be looking to top. So I guess I'm looking for more of those ads you are seeing. I did figure out one error I was - I was searching for bot and bot/vers but it was not finding the guys who listed themselves as versatile and didn't check the other boxes. I did manage to find a few more that way. But still not many.

Thanks!

Thanks for the advice and info. I didn't mean to imply anything about disease (or rather, about the relative likelihood of catching it various place) and in fact I agree that the true pros are probably more careful than the mystery men on Grindr. I do dislike tattoos and facial hair, though a little wouldn't be a deal killer. I did what you suggested and searched RM for NYC, Bottom or bot/vers, under 5'10" and under 160 pounds (in other words, up to my size). I get five results: one is a trans, and two are mixed-race guys with moustaches that do not appeal. That leaves two: one 24 year old white guy with a massive tattoo across his chest (who still is pretty attractive) and one other 20 year-old that looks really hot. Not one Asian and only two that remotely fit the "smooth twink" phenotype. That in a metro area of 22 million. There are over 1,000,000 Asians in Queens alone, plus an almost equal number of Latinos and quite a few white guys and immigrants from various places. Well over 2 million people in both Queens and Brooklyn. Surely I'm missing something.

I had this guy come to my hotel room once and it was literally one of the best experiences of my life, not just paid. Sorry you had a bad experience.

Hi, Very new to this - only place I ever hired was legally, in Tokyo. There, you can go to a brothel/escort service and choose from dozens of 18-21 year-olds. Some of them are muscular guys and advertise as tops, but most of them are slim little twinks, many of whom are absolutely adorable. So I was checking out the NYC scene - I am stranded there for the time being. There is certainly no shortage of choices on any of the sites I've found (besides RM, Mintboys and Friendboy - big city, hundreds of escorts. But it certainly seems that the main market here is for top cock - it's all about size and "endurance." The number of young, slim, non-hairy (possibly Asian) escorts is close to zero. Am I missing something? I know there is a market for this type of escort - am I looking in the wrong places? I have no idea if I will actually hire here and if I do it will be a very limited thing - maybe even just one guy if he's worth returning to. I am still getting it for free here and there, I'm a nice guy (I wouldn't treat an escort any different than a date), and I am squeaky clean and want to stay that way. But I could be tempted by the right guy, especially if he was in Queens and could host. Any and all advice welcome, here or in PM. And no need to ask: yes, when the pandemic is truly over, you really must visit Tokyo. 😉 It's 10 out of 10 (or perhaps better).