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I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.
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8 hours ago, DanteV said:
Phone calls are cool! I like phone calls. I just don't like them unannounced. Consider sending a text saying "hi, I'm x, looking for y, would love to chat on the phone to discuss further".
Yes! This right here!
Not everybody is free to talk at any given moment. A heads up would be awesome!
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1 minute ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:
this is me 100%I actually carry a designated “client bag”, but have gone thru a few over the years. Recently I decided not to carry a “client bag” when I’m traveling because it just adds to my bags.
In addition to the things you mentioned, I also may have to pack a bottle of wine and change of clothes. It’s been hard to find a sturdy bag that won’t be too heavy or fall apart.
I see a lot of bags at the discount stores that look great, but they just fall flat because some are packed with tissues.
You said WINE?! COUNT ME IN!
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5 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:
I walk in to high end hotels with my massage table! I have my backpack on my back (containing oils, lube, condoms various sizes, massage tools like feathers etc, a change of underwear, viagra, wipes, mouthwash, toothpaste and toothbrush, nail clippers - an essential for a masseur!). I’ve never been questioned. I always walk in with confidence as if I own the place.
If it’s a hotel I’ve not visited previously I might have done a reconnaissance visit beforehand if convenient. It’s useful to check out things like locations of lifts, reception, the doorman etc.If the client wants a massage on the bed then it’s easier as I don’t have to drag the table around. But a table massage is much better than the bed. Often though they just want a more sensual massage with more focus on sex than massage do the bed is fine for that.
I always dress smart; trousers, jacket etc. I still take my kit in the backpack though because it’s easier to carry. It’s dark and discreet.
Wow! Totally understandable though, some people get treatments done in their room such as hair and makeup. I supposed that hotel employees just ignore. That being said, I feel like male providers can get away with it; more than female providers.
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2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:
Condoms (that now in the era of PrEP are no longer an absolute must have) and lubricant. I don't know how many bottoms walk around with a douche but I'm sure some do.
poppers... if the client likes them he could have them at home or bring them on a trip himself.
Walking around with a douche! LMAO, that's funny! I'm sure some people do. Thanks
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4 hours ago, Alexphilly said:
Well I try to carry a positive optimistic friendly cautious attitude when I'm going on outcalls, but mostly I carry condoms,lube,smell goods,phone charger,mints,sometimes massage oils
Gotchya!
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4 hours ago, Pnklemonade said:
A backpack might make you look like a tourist or just too young, I’d recommend a nice handbag, cold and neutral colors like indigo, oxford blue, classic blue, black, gray, or browns like wood or mocha, leather is always a nice touch and no brand logos or patterns. Now everything in your bag must be travel size so you can take your bag on a flight too. What I always have in my bag is: a charger, lube (put it on a ziploc in case it drips), poppers, mints, a pen, ID and some cash, condoms (regulars and large size), napkins, mouth wash, tooth paste and brush, viagra pills, and maybe coconut or baby oil for massages (on that ziploc too), deodorant and cologne are optional in case you sweat too much so up to you lol sorry if too long just wanted to be descriptive and helpful
Right, I mean if you're going to someones actual residence I'd still prefer a backpack. Hotels or upscale settings maybe a side bag? Not sure, lol.
Thanks again
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2 hours ago, DynamicUno said:
Hmm, not a provider here, but I'd be a bit wierded out if a guy showed up at my door with sex toys unless we'd discussed it previously. A jockstap or sexy underwear isn't out of line though. Cologne is something best applied at home before showing up, though if it's an extended date with dinner or other public activities it might be good to cover the smell of sex on you if you can't shower. A towel isn't usually I'd think would be required, but if you're seeing a guy in a hotel room it might be nice to be prepared since sometimes the places are skimpy on the towels these days.
I always appreciate it if a guy brings his preferred lube, condoms, and poppers if he uses them.
How do you plan to carry your go-bag? A backpack usually doesn't stand out when going through a lobby.
Good question, most likely a backpack; a side bag could also work.
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Hi everyone,
What does one need when going to an outcall?
For me, I'd probably bring wipes, water bottle, cologne, deodorant, towel(s) and a jockstrap.
Does anyone bring sex toys?
I'd love to hear what everyone brings to outcalls, if applicable that is
Cheers!
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36 minutes ago, asdsrfr said:
Thats what he wants. Someone to pay for his leased BMW (which I advised him against) , and nice clothes etc.
Oh man, well good-luck to him. If I was him, I wouldn't bother getting all of those expensive things; investment is the gift that keeps on giving.
Did you eventually stop seeing him?
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On 6/17/2021 at 10:20 PM, asdsrfr said:
I have seen a college age guy from time to time as an escort. He is not really the kind of escort who advertises or has a lot of clients but sees people he meets off Grindr from time to time. He and I also chat from time to time outside of meeting up and in fact I helped him write his grad school essays. Recently he said he wanted to double his rate from the what I had been paying for a couple of years. He has fancy tastes in cars and expensive clothing and I suspect he has had a few people who pay a rather inflated rate for his time. Recently he has been texting me to get together(at the new rate) because he has gotten into some heavy debt and is kind of desperate.
Anyway I find the whole idea of paying someone twice the rate that you've had going on for years somewhat a turnoff. It's not like I gained a lot of weight or asked him to do anything wacko. Would you guys be turned off by this?
Good for you! Stand your ground, no offence why doesn't he just get a sugar daddy?
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1 hour ago, HoleTrainer said:
I get almost all of my new clients from Rentmen right now, but it’s also the only paid ad that I’m currently running. I do occasionally get a new client from Recon... although it’s a bit rare for it to happen, I’ve also noticed that all of them turned into solid regulars.
I’ve gotten clients off grindr in the past. When they delete(d) my profiles, I just make/made a new one with a new email address. I often use(d) the exact same headline and photo as all of my previous profiles so that whoever had been chatting with me previously would be able to find me again pretty easily. For some reason grindr never IP-banned me, so I was able to continuously do this account cycling for some period of time when I was getting clients off of there.
I’ve seriously considered posting on RentMasseur since my service is very similar to a massage in vibe and isn’t full service. However I’m about as busy as I can handle right now between my regular clients and RentMen. I’ll probably pop an ad on there and give it a try once business hits a lull, which it is bound to eventually.
Awesome! Love that for you
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17 hours ago, Jamie21 said:
I had a client who wanted to be tickled. For the whole session. I just tickled him all over.
It was ok at first, I thought he’d tire of it and want sex but no…he asked for more tickling each time I tried to get more erotic or do some traditional massage. “Tickle me more” he’d ask. I’d tied him to the table just by his wrists and ankles so he couldn’t resist, which was his request.
If I’m doing a firm massage or I’m fucking for ages I’ve usually got the stamina but tickling a guy is something else! I got really tired in my hands and forearms. The tickling became less and less vigorous.
I was kind of hoping he’d cum from the tickling, which would have been intriguing to see. However, although he got hard (and I kept stroking his cock every so often) it was basically the only part of his body that wasn’t ticklish and he didn’t seem to want touched.
Our time ended and he’d not cum (nor had I but that’s not unusual) so I asked him if he was happy and he said it was fantastic. My hands were so tired I could barely undo the knots to release his binding.
It’s definitely a request I wish I’d declined because it’s not really my thing. Either that or I’ll double my rate.I actually laughed out loud for once! I guess different strokes for different folks haha!
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On 6/15/2021 at 6:34 AM, Alexphilly said:
Mines varies from Friendboy,to Rm, to Rent masseur I use to post on megapersonals but to me it’s pretty trash a lot of scoundrels posting because it’s free I’d rather pay for my Ads .
RM and FB seem the most popular!
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On 6/16/2021 at 3:15 PM, Shawn Monroe said:
Race play…
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7 hours ago, Francis said:
Wearing a full body pantyhose and letting the client slash the pantyhose with a razor. Told me he wouldnt cut the skin but i didnt meet up to find out if he was telling the truth
That sounds super sketchy and dangerous! I'm glad you declined, totally unacceptable!
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5 hours ago, italianboyph said:
Honestly I think the most out there one had to be scat
Oh my! I forgot about that! BIG NO! lol
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2 hours ago, Storm4U said:
A client offered me a ton of money to do cocaine with him. I declined and got in my car and left. I don’t even drink alcohol, and I live an extremely clean, organic, non-toxic lifestyle, so that was definitely not happening.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK, KING!
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6 hours ago, Jamie21 said:
I often get asked to do surprise visits to client’s partners. It’s always a “no”. The person I’m seeing must always know the nature of the booking. Surprises just don’t work unfortunately.
That just sounds awkward and kind of sketchy!
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I'm just super curious, what are some strange requests clients have asked you to do?
For me anything related to cam/vid/pic or feces/urine play would be a big NO!
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34 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:
Possibly a scam on this new ad
"Due to unfortunate recent events that transpired using this platform, where an RM was beat and robbed in their Toronto apartment, I now require 3 different face pics with your thumbs up in each to confirm identity before meeting. I share my face photos in private as well. Thanks for understanding."
What? Is that even legit? I don't know what to say
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6 hours ago, twinkboylover28 said:
Canada eyeing June 22 to begin loosening restrictions at U.S. border
https://www.politico.com/news/2021/06/07/canada-us-border-restrictions-492111
THANK GOD!
I have clients reaching out from bordering states, finally some good news for business!
Overnighters... What do you do?
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Late to the party @Rick M, I would suggest not doing overnights based on what you have said in your post. I don't do overnights either, there is something exhausting about overnights. I understand you're not having sex for all those hours; however, sometimes you just feel drained and tried after a normal booking. I'm starting to get back into the industry again, after taking a break for a couple of months because of the dynamic COVID situation here in Toronto. I as well, do not offer overnights either, maybe in the future if I decide to tour.