One of my hottest experiences from many years ago.... met a charming young African-American man in the steam room at East Side Club in Manhattan. (I am white.) We were feeling each other up and I was amazed at the huge club in my hands, invited him back to my cubicle. Definitely the biggest, hardest one I had ever seen, before or since, and I just had to have it. He entered gently at exactly the right angle from behind while cuddling me tightly and we just melted into each other... It was pure bliss. I wanted him to just stay in me, gently stirring the pot and going deep. And I remember thinking how much more peaceful the world might be if every man had this kind of experience....