Mattm

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them.

 

If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service.

 

If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.

That’s for you, and that’s great. I don’t consider myself an escort, nor do I market myself as one. So for me, it’s a red flag.

When clients ask for details. I tell them a full body nude massage. If they ask “Are you nude” I respond it’s a full body nude massage. That’s the only details I give as I won’t take a risk exposing more.

 

Most guys read between the lines and some don’t.

 

My biggest pet peeve is when a client text me wanting right now. Sadly I can’t work on now schedules. I need a 1 hour notice as I have another business and I tend to be busy.

I have a client in the FBI that told me don’t say anything more.

Yes! I’m never waiting around by my table. Also, I usually get booked up in advance. Last minute request I can usually never do

I don’t about other clients, but...

Don’t post on the message board and make it all about what potential customers shouldn't do. That’s an immediate red flag. You also just ruined any income you might have had, and we're less inclined to even respond. “Will you book me?”

Well... not now. Ever.

I am completely fine with losing money if you found this post offensive in anyway. I deal with clients daily, I know what the red flags are. Something can be hot, and then other things can be annoying and a total energy kill. The clients I have are great clients and I like keeping that way.

I don’t about other masseurs, but......

Don’t text a masseur and make it all about a HE and sex. That’s an immediate red flag. You also just ruined any experience you might have had, and I’m less inclined to even respond. “Will you do _____?”

Well...not now.

Ah I used to work here haha

That sounds like heaven. Where are you based?

West Hollywood

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41047/

I wonder if the increase in no-shows has anything to do with Covid. People who want a massage but then get scared of by the potential risk? Just a thought.

That makes sense, however, you can simply text to let the massage therapist know. To just not show without any communication.....no excuse

I wish we could share the numbers. I’ve had so many last week. All scheduled in advanced, confirmed the day of, and then never showed. Two of them booked a facial, massage, and a scrub, taking 2 hours of my schedule

Whooooo boy!!!!

 

I could only imagine the topics!!!!

1.) No Shows

2.) Cheapskates

3.) Hygiene Issues

4.) Dirty Homes (for Outcalls)

5.) desperate and pushy for sex acts

6.) Creepy personalities

 

and the list goes on!!!

This would be amazing! Haha I’d have so many to share/report

Thats just RUDE!!! I totally agree with you.

 

Works on the other side too. I Have had masseurs stand me up or even give fake address (yes)

 

One texted me 5 mins before the appt and said "oh btw i switched hotels" and the new hotel was not close so no way I could have made it

I would never!

Danm 4 ? wow . No words ? ?. Did they hit u up after explaining why

No, even confirmed and just didn’t show. I keep their texts so I know not to book them in the future.

Oh, for sure!

I’ve had 4 no shows this week. Just tell me you can’t come. I spend time setting up the space, I light all my candles, I set the room with clean linen, I make hot towels....all a waste. Most of the time I also pass on other potential clients because I’m booked. It’s infuriating.

As a massage therapist, I’ve been experiencing so many no shows lately. Please just give us the courtesy of telling us you’re not coming. It’s a waste of not only our time, but our income. ❤️❤️