Hopefully I can revisit and reply to this thread in less than 2 years with an actual relationship to speak of, since all I have experienced has been the excitement side of things. Lol. Although knowing me, I would most probably be a "rooter." It may not end up being in the cards for me, but it does sound nice to grow and thrive with a partner for the long haul. But, if I'm really honest with myself, I would want both - I mean, why can't excitement be part of a stable relationship, right? But what do I know, haha.