MysticMenace

He looks familiar. I most likely swiped right on Tinder and Scruff and no match. Lol.

Most of us have learned a lot of lessons from when we started hiring providers or when some have started providing services to clients. Much of them are interspersed through various threads across multiple forums. For someone who is new to this, getting started might be overwhelming, so hopefully this thread can be a good go-to resource for someone to reference. The prompt is, what advice would you give your newbie client or provider self to get started? For me, here are some things that I learned in my 10 months that I would like to share to my newbie client self in January: Know your worth, so you can ground yourself on how much you are willing to invest in the experience. Do your due diligence. Read the comments within review sites, direct feedback from previous clients, related threads within the forum, and answers from the forum members to make an informed decision prior to taking a plunge with a provider. Be concise and direct with the provider when making initial contact. Unless instructions are provided by the provider within the ad, at the least, include where you found them (would give them a preliminary indication if the request is for escorting or massage), what city you are in, (incall/outcall) rate (if stated in ad, still confirm the rate), accepted payment method(s), proposed day and time availability, and duration. It could be as simple as, "Welcome to (city), (provider)! Found your ad on (site ad). Would like to confirm the $250 incall rate and whether you accept Venmo or PayPal. If so, are you available on (day), (date) at (time) for (duration)? Thanks!" Be clear on what your non-negotiable minimum requirements are for the experience, and make sure that those are aligned with the provider. Be clear and aligned with the provider on payment methods and logistics. Be upfront and specific with the provider on existing disabilities, skin condition, or other circumstances of which the provider should be made aware. Come excited and with an open mind during the appointment. Enjoy the experience. If the experience is not going as intended (e.g., your non-negotiable minimum requirements are not met), depending on the situation (safety, appetite for repeating the experience) and comfort-level, discuss the feedback with the provider during the session. As well intended the communications might have been, there could have still been disconnects, and being upfront gives the provider the opportunity to course-correct or agree with the feedback. Depending on the preference of the provider in receiving feedback or rating on the review site, provide an honest and objective feedback. I understand that there may be different or dissenting opinions or thoughts as we all have different experiences and insights. Feel free to voice your advice.

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My imaginary perfect boyfriends, Dante Colle and Carter Woods, are doing me right now.

I wish I could attribute my general disinterest in sports with the paternal interactions as I was growing up. I am the 3rd of 4 brothers, all lived under the same roof, same detached treatment from the father, but for some reason my 3 brothers were into basketball and actually into watching and enjoying sports, like football, basketball, and soccer. I, on the other hand, prefer watching Project Runway or ANTM. If I were to be interested in sports, it would be in the form of sexy and shirtless athlete compilations on Youtube. *sigh* Nevertheless, I have started to enjoy watching tennis, especially when the players lift their shirts to wipe off their sweat, and also enjoy watching male swimming and diving. I guess I am growing into liking sports

Welp, I am now committed - just bought myself a ticket Looking forward to meeting and enjoying the party with everyone this Saturday!

Just sent an email to Tim. I guess I shall see if there is still a ticket available. *crossing fingers*

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Based on the really hot clip below under this thread, he probably prefers to be on the receiving end of the massage more so than giving it.

Other Spanish terms that might be helpful for that specific trip - Mas fuerte - Harder Mas adentro - Deeper (Eso) se siente bien - (That) feels good Follame (pronounced, fo-yea-meh) - Fuck me Come mi culo - Eat my ass Or if you hear those similar words, you can say "Si" (yes) or "No" (no). Let's just say when I met a provider that could only converse in Spanish, those other basic words made up for enhancing the experience . Buena suerte, amigo!

Is there a 100 day trial on this massage? I do have a picture when I was 15 and 25, so if I do not look like who I was when I was 15 or 25, do I get a full refund? He did say "literally," not "figuratively," not "metaphorically." If I only feel like I am 26 (less than 10 years), then I should still get a refund, per his ad (and don't see any small text warnings like you see in TV commercials). If I may say so myself, the 1 review of this masseur looks just as bizarre as the ad itself (beta brain waves?). My spidey senses tell me to move on.

Whew, thank God! ? I might check it out to see if I can still buy a ticket and potentially meet up with some esteemed forum members and the entertainers.

That thick vein on pic 12 of 13 though...?

This may sound like (probably is) a stupid question, and perhaps I'll need to read the emails from the mailing list, but does the in-person nude party apply to everyone in attendance (or optional), or more for the entertainers?

Wow, I am learning a lot. If response is preferred via DM, more than happy to receive that there, but have some newbie questions: What is the third ring? I have heard of first and second holes, but no idea what a third ring is (is that essentially the colon?) Is there a link you can provide as to what "taken around the world" looks like? I am guessing that is not the same as helicopter.

Awesome - perhaps you can let this thread or me (via DM) know how those new positions worked and felt.

For a second there I thought that was Shawn Mendes. It's not Shawn Mendes, is it?

Thank you everyone for the thoughts, experiences, and insights. My friend is enlightened .