Imathrill

Avoid at all costs. Just went through the motions. Concentrated on my shoulders for forever, when I never asked for attention there. Half-assed the whole thing. Left me so oily, I felt like a piece of bacon. Completely reliant on his looks, has no skills. Immediately regretted reaching out. 

Thank you all! Sounds like El is the one to go with.

Does anyone have any recommendations of great masseurs in the Long Beach area?

I have experienced him. DM me for deets

I have experienced him. DM me for deets

With several pics of a good cock and plump ass, the boundaries are wide!

Damn, not a Premium Member here lol.

This guy is just my type!

https://rentmasseur.com/Sean_Desantos

Does anyone have any info on him? Please reach out!

I'm not a paid member at the moment, but my recollection is that it seemed to happen if the escort uploaded more than 3 or 4 videos. The older uploads read "RentMen User Video" while the more recent ones were under his name.

Oh that’s disappointing. Lol. I I figured if a client was uploading vids, that could be the best kind of review of what they’re really like with a client.

When an escort has videos on their rent.men profile, what does it mean when they read “RentMen User Video”? Does this mean a client has submitted a video with this escort?

Any recommendations? It’s slim pickins on RM

Very informative for a former exclusive top now enjoying versatility. What do you do if you don’t know you’re going to have sex and bottom? Do you excuse yourself to the bathroom and douche? Doesn’t that kill the moment and spontaneity?

Curious to hear your response. Thx.

This has happened to me a handful of times...met at a bar, spontaneous moment with a date, etc. I just excuse myself and make sure nothing’s coming out. Didn’t kill the mood for us. I have been very lucky in these scenarios...except for one time. We had agreed to just do oral, we were in the middle of the act, and he started to beg to let him top. I told him that I did not know that situation down there and he didn’t care, he wrapped it up and after about 5 minutes in he stopped and said “Oh...you were right, we should stop.” I don’t count that one because he had full knowledge of the situation beforehand.

I’m having trouble with prepping for anal sex. About 2-3 hours before an appointment, I’d start cleaning up with a disposable enema bottle. It’d get to the point where the water comes out clear so I figure I’m done. I’d test every 15 minutes or so and only some mucosa comes out.

 

For several times now, I’ve had accidents when being topped. It’s very embarrassing and frustrating. The providers say they may have gone too deep. But I’ve had “big” providers going deep without any accidents. What could be the problem here?

I hope that almost a year later you found the right method for you, but here’s mine, just in case. I remember when I first started bottoming I didn’t even douche! Just made sure I didn’t have to go and a quick shower, never had an accident (oh to be young and healthy!) In my late 20s my eating habits worsened and I had my gallbladder removed, my bowel movements became completely inconsistent. I started douching and still after a lengthy session with a well endowed partner I had my first accident. It scarred me. I would douche for almost an hour sometimes. I finally got sick of that, especially when the act lasted 2 minutes. I finally have a fool proof system down. I, too, am on Pure pills, that, and a lot of water everyday, keep me pretty consistent. If I’m going to be with a big partner or I know they have amazing stamina, two hours before a session I pop two Imodiums and douche about an hour before. If not, then I just douche an hour before. I just use warm water and about 4-8oz (more than that will cause it to sit further up the rectum as mentioned a lot here) about 3-4 times. Then, I take a nice long shower, move around a lot, and at the end stick a soapy finger up there and squat to get any excess water out, rinse n’ repeat, and make sure it’s clear water! Never had an accident since. Fuck, the things we do for a couple of minutes of pleasure!

Imathrill, you'll need to open the webpage via an offshore VPN. Many on this site, including me, use hide me

 

https://hide.me/en/proxy

 

Simply copy and past the RM address for XavierZane into the the hide me website. When it pulls up his webpage, you will see the narrative in the review section

So helpful!

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/how-to-see-the-full-rm-reviews.158881/#post-1946809

Thank you!

FWIW, the narrative reviews on RM are very positive. Below is a copy and paste of one.

 

"RM - First time I met Xavier Zane - never had a sweetest guy as him. Very cute, handsome, nice - but very aggressive in intimacy. Can’t wait to have him again. He is HIGHLY RECOMMEND!!! "

Where can you find narrative reviews?

I’ve seen all his SeanCody vids and onlyfan teasers on Twitter, but I’m curious to see if anyone has experience with him as a client? DM me if need be.

https://rent.men/XavierZane

I’ve noticed that a lot of guys here mention their providers don’t advertise. How did you find them? I’d like to find a provider that has a smaller circle of clients.

I think he would be insulted and I cannot risk that in terms of his feelings. He insists that i don't pay but of course I do. He asks me to stay longer to snuggle with him afterwards.

He genuinely feels a connection with me. Btw, this is going on for at least 7 years and I am attracted to him as well. It has really become complicated. But, as i mentioned, I go a lot less often because all i really want is an erotic massage.

7 years?! I think you just have sex with him for free and find a new masseur for erotic massages.

Its happened to me and I'm not 100% thrilled about it because his massages were amazingly erotic and that is, for the most part, all i want.

Now it is never just a massage. The bottom line is that i now go a lot less. I know....a lot of people reading this are saying what's wrong with me. But my "thing" is erotic massages.

Can’t you just communicate to him that you’re not looking for more?

Why do most guys on here give little to no details on the “good parts” or cut the story off when it’s about to get good with some cheesy line. It’s infuriating! I just read through this long ass post just so that I can use my imagination?! Why even bother posting?!

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

“We were just made to have sex with women.” Sorry, I don’t have a vagina!

How irritating!

Actually, I met with him about 4 years ago. His pics are the same as then. I didn’t realize he was bisexual but he continued to exclaim how wonderful sex with a woman is. “We were just made to have sex with women.” Sorry, I don’t have a vagina!

He actually sent me a recent picture after I discovered a time stamp on one pic from 2016! He looked very weathered, I was very disappointed.

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

I’m very curious to hear from the the escorts on here...