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There are a few escorts I am considering to hire. They have been around for a while but have very few reviews. I reached out to them and they responded with their availability so I don't think it is due to them turning down potential clients. Perhaps their clients just do not provide reviews? Maybe I find them attractive but not many others? I am trying to determine if the low number of reviews may be a red flag. Any thoughts on this topic?

Pictures are not recent. Exactly the same photos were used by him a few years ago

I tried contacting him to get some details. His responses are very short. He doesn't seem to like to answer basic questions such as "what part of the city are you in?" If these are the type of responses he provides to prospective clients, I can't even imagine how he would treat a client in person. Hard pass.

He is much more (many many times more) attractive in person than in his photos. Very masculine and smiles a lot. I didn’t hire him for anything but we did meet thru other means. Had a great time. Very sweet guy. I would say worth a booking.

I had my first escort experience and want to share it with this group. I want to provide a detailed account of my experience without identifying the actual escort. Would this constitute as a review? The want to post it here instead of the actual review website because I want to get your thoughts on the experience.

Uriel is an instagay ‘urielfit’ who lives in LA. It’s his name and pictures but I don’t think he’s ever lived in NYC and he has posted just today from LA. I’ve hit him up on grindr before and he seemed open to the idea but laughed at my offer of 300hr.

He has hundreds of thousands of followers on Instagram. However, I don't find him sexually attractive but I can see why others would. Isn't it fascinating how our brain works?

Anyone have any experience with https://rent.men/ADAMARABINXXL

How are spa operating in NYC during covid? I'd imagine there will be tons of restrictions.

? Can anyone see the pvt pics?

 

He has a rentmen too where you can see even more.

Anyone have any info on this guy:

https://rentmasseur.com/AliThani

Looks like his profile was created in March of this year.

I had a session with Rob. The massage was on the bed where he has a head attachment. He is a pretty beefy guy and is well equipped for his profession. Got an extra nice deep massage for a bit - felt great. Would book again.

OK. Please provide links to the scientific research studies, professor. I'm ears (and eyes).

If you actually care about the topic of racism you would do the research on your own. Otherwise you're just being complacent - which really was already established with your previously response.

Well, a person can not be sexually attracted to someone and that doesn't mean he dislikes members of the group in general. I can't find any women the least bit attractive. That doesn't mean I hate women or am misogynist, or sexist or anything else except extremely gay. I have somewhat of a preference for caramel-colored skin, so I probably hire Latin men more often. I also like mixed-race. It doesn't mean I think Latin men are inherently better people. They just tend to get me off more easily and intensely. Other things get me more aroused, such as large nipples or a muscular physique. It's just a sexual preference, not something based on deep-rooted stereotypes.

I think you need to do a little more research on the topic before you continue to dangerously enable and disseminate racist ideology.

I’m actually entertained by your deflection.

That is usually the tactic used by those who have been cornered.

Having preferences is not racism. My best friend adores Asians to the point we make fun at him. Another friend likes BBC. I do not like sexually either. Same as I do not like hairy. Does this make me a racist? It is just a sexual preference. Same as If I say that I am 100% btm does not make me a racist.

 

Escorts are people and have their sexual preferences as all of us. It is better to communicate before and find a good match than having a bad experience.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001

"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

Reached out to a few for Friday night and they all seem to be fully booked. Curious to know what days escorts have the most and least bookings during the week?

I saw him when I was in Vegas. He likes to continuously talk. He had his underwear on the entire time. The massage was alright. He did offer a HE. I wouldn't repeat.

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.

However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?

1. Yes.

2. Physical stats are ok to ask and provide. If they ask a pic, don't send anything and move on.

3. Good escorts don't cut the time sharp. They would give you 15 to 30 min more. More if there is good chemistry.

4. Always communicate what you want to happen, either him, you, or both.

5. If he showed up, was not high on something, and tried hard, you should pay what was agreed. Otherwise (PNP) pay half or a bit less, given that since he can't perform, you won't spend the full hr with him.

Thank you! This is good information.

I have a follow up question. You mentioned that if they don't make an attempt to perform or was under the influence you would still pay them but not the full amount. Would you be prorating the initial agreed upon payment amount based on the time they were spent with you? What if you come to this realization within 10 minutes of meeting them which is a very short period of time?

This isn't so much a budget issue, it is more about getting the agreed upon services. While I understand if an honest attempt was made and it just didn't work out then compensation full compensation should be made. I am not sure how I feel about paying them if they do not make an effort.

Piling on to say I agree with almost all of the advice here, and underscore DTB's comment that nonperformance situations are tricky. Its an awkward conversation to have, and can lead to excuse, argument or other kinds of drama. There are anecdotal reports here about conversations of nonperformance even leading to threats, though I hope that's rare -- its not happened to me. What I have experienced twice is a person who showed up with no intention to perform. There are scammers, and for me that's a reason for just scheduling an hour the first time. If that happens, I'd say something neutral like "we don't seem to be connecting," end the meeting early, pay the hour but no tip, and show him the door.

Can you please elaborate on "no intention to perform"? Are they simply showing up and not doing anything or do they not make an effort to perform the agreed upon services? I know I can't prepare for all scenarios but would be great to understand what to do under the more common situations of non-performance.

Markus Kage escorts unless he recently stopped.

I haven't been able to locate him.

Tim Kruger

Markus Kage

Alex James

Maybe on day they'll do escorting.

I've had several massages sessions before. I never initiate anything during the massages. I just lay down with my arms to my side and let the masseur drive the situation. They usually start as massages and progress into other full on good activities. I think this is great. However, there are times when I just want the time spent on the non-massage good times. This has lead me to consider escorts.

I have never engaged an escort before. I had a few questions I was hoping to get some inputs on from those with experience. I'd imagine some of these answers would vary based on the escort but was hoping to get general answers or what the general etiquettes are.

1. Is it common to book an escort for just an hour?

2. Do the escorts usually require you to send them you physical stats and/or photos before agreeing to meet up?

3. If you tell them you want just an hour do they keep track of the time or would they just charge you based on when the session is considered over?

4. Is the goal to have both parties finish or just the customer?

5. What happens if they cannot "perform"?

Thanks in advance for your responses!

Really interested in booking some of his time. He seems really new. Anyone had any experience with him?

https://rent.men/CraigGTexasBeef

https://rentmasseur.com/CraigG/reviews/