Danny-Darko

Some of us just like what we like without overanalyzing it. Call it what you will. Like any other fetish, you either get it or you don't.

Yes.

WOW!!! I.P.F.T.

I suggest you go to RM and in the search criteria mark Straight/Bi/Ask Me and pages of men will come up for anyone to sift through and make their choice. 😉 People like different things and no provider is a "one size fits all".

True. A very valid point you make. BUT, hiring is not the same thing as dating or a gay trick pick-up. I'm not delusional to think that with my looks and at my age a man gay or otherwise will be attracted to me and enjoy my body. Escorting is a service business, and one pays to enjoy the person and feigned attentions, hopefully in a mutually peasant manner.

New Delta ad. 🤣

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Sorry, but I can't agree with you. To me it seems like you've over analyzed the issue. I get your point, but for me it's just something that has always come natural for me since my first sexual awakenings. I do like and have liked other gay men and have had sex and relationships and even been in love with other gay men. What I like about men is manliness because I am a homosexual. And for a straight man manliness and masculinity isn't a show, a costume nor a subculture he belongs to like in the LGBTQ+ "community". It's just who and what he is.

It''s a movie. Quite good I must add!

Sorry, I don't follow your reasoning. Or I'm just "none of the above". I like what I like because I like men! I don't know how else to explain it. In no moment am I delusional to think that they are going to fall in love with me and ride off into the sunset with me! They are HIRES and simply that! And I'm a CLIENT and simply that to them. In another thread I explained how I came to realize that there is never (rarely?) a connection between escort/client other than financial and often a very temporary one because of their "needs" for the present moment. At least for the ones that are "straight". Yes, there are some career courtesans who are a cut above the rest and have taken their craft seriously and made it an art form that has been around since man has become civilized. There is a reason it's called the world's oldest profession. A few are even here on this forum! But not ALL are "professionals". And most aren't especially these younger generations that have very short-sighted goals. Sorry, I don't know how else to explain it, but I am none of the above you've mentioned!

Sergey Yesenin (1895-1925). The Russian poet is a classic, had stormy affairs with both men and women, committed suicide at the age of 30.

Nick Bosa

For decades now since Jeff Styker and maybe even before, Gay4Pay men have been the top selling porn stars. A gay man that says he hasn't fantasied ever in his life about a hot pop idol or movie star is lying (and yes some celebs are closeted, but most are straight as far as we know). Who didn't have crushes on the straight guys in school when we started to become sexually aware? Who hasn't wondered about a hot guy at work in a sexual way? Transvestites pride themselves on being able to pick up "straight men" too! I've never seen or heard of one going out with a flaming queen. I could go on and on with examples. Yet for some reason to admit to this reality isn't politically correct in the "all-inclusive and embracing" LGBTQ+ "community". Yes, there are some men that enjoy soft, passive and even effeminate men, and nothing wrong with that. But to asume or suggest that we that prefer our men "straight" are in a different world or category is fooling themselves. And yes, maybe some of us actually do fetishize straight men more than others do. But if you think about it, it's almost normal and natural for a homosexual to be attracted to masculinity and manliness and most things about men. And most men out there in the world are straight/heterosexual and to different degrees. Us homosexuals/gays are a minority no matter how visible we now are. And finally, if most gay men who hire weren't attracted to straight men, why would so many escorts lie about it or even state that they are straight or bi on their profiles as a marketing ploy? Just some food for thought. We all like what we like even if different than what the next guy likes!