John Doe II

could you pm me their Instagram?

I'm all about sucking cock - not into fucking.

I often felt like that after hiring. It was a high followed by an even more intense low. This was the norm until I met the person who would become my first regular. I saw him for many years. Overnights, weekends, even longer. I would probably still be seeing him today if circumstances wouldn't have made that impossible. But the important thing in this, was that I finally met someone who didn't make me feel bad about myself afterwards, and that made all the difference.
After, I still saw escorts.. but less frequently. Again those bad feelings about myself afterwards returned. Just when I was about to give up, I met the escort that would become my second regular. We have progressed from an hour to overnight to full weekends. Once again I never feel bad about myself after seeing him.
 
Here are few important things to keep in mind though.
Do not allow seeing escorts to replace your real life experiences of making real friends and dating. To do so will definitely reinforce those negative feelings and self-worth doubts because you will not experience friendship and affection without paying for it. Unfortunately, it's way too easy to fall into this trap.
 
While escorts and clients can develop deep relationships of some sort, always remember that its almost always transactional based. You can be friendly, your companion may actually enjoy your company... but It's a job for your companion. When the $ stops so does the "friendship & affection".
*There are a VERY few exceptions to this (but it's so extremely rare) and should never be expected.
 
You don't pay people to be your real friends.
 
Most importantly, if the net effect on you is negative, definitely stop seeing escorts.

Does he bottom? Has anyone had any experience with him as a bottom? PM me if you prefer.

Thanks! I appreciate your advice. I really didn't have any intention to bring up his ad if I contacted him via insta/fb. At first, I thought about calling him up as soon as his ad came up again but decided against it because I didn't want to make him uncomfortable if/when he'd recognize me at the door.

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towel, please!

Thanks! I appreciate your advice. I really didn't have any intention to bring up his ad if I contacted him via insta/fb. At first, I thought about calling him up as soon as his ad came up again but decided against it because I didn't want to make him uncomfortable if/when he'd recognize me at the door.

I like seeing a provider midweek so I'm not competing against other clients for space during his weekend. Luckily when I see him on a Tue / Wed he's physically recovered and his balls reloaded ?

i like wednesdays "hump day".

I'd probably sign up...

What’s a nude beach like while wearing a mask? ?

My suggestion would be to get in touch through Facebook and let him know you're gay. It gives a reason for getting in touch and can be a bonding experience.
 
If things go along OK, then ask him if he's on Insta (even though you already know that) or mention that you follow him there. This would give him an opportunity to share his sexier side, but would also allow him to put up a boundary if he's not wanting to go there.
 
I would not mention you'd seen the Rentmen ad. Different guys have different ways of compartmentalizing these things and it's hard to know what kind of reaction there could be, but it could be bad. Having been an escort and having done porn myself, there were a few instances where people from college told me they'd seen my videos. In one instance it was OK and we laughed about it (and then he invited me to a sex party at his house!), but with another the way he approached it was unnerving. I'd like to think I'm level-headed and knew what I was signing up for, but was surprised how I felt in the one instance.

I would say we where more acquaintances since we had a just few classes together. We never actually hung out. He is not discreet about his sexuallity and it doesn't seem from his FB posts that he is discreet about his "side business." He doesn't advertise in fb but there are very subtle hints about sex work via comments posts.

I feel if someone just compiled all the bits of advice @@Benjamin_Nicholas has posted throughout the years, you'd actually have a very good start to an ad-hoc beginner's male escort manual.

Start a casual chat catching up with an old friend and drive the conversation to what you want. Tell him he is better looking than hs, ask him how is work, money etc. I would bring up the ad as a last resort.

He stated that he does not meet men. Take him at his word and move on. You don't want to fall into the "stalker" category.

and if that statement was delivered in a heterosexual forum saying, "that's gay porn, this is a straight forum .... i dont want to even know about that much less watch it." all hell would break loose from gays calling them homophobes, racists, misogynists and trump backers. you guys on here never cease to amaze me that you are EXACTLY in reverse what you scream about being whats wrong in the world!

Inquiring minds would like to know.

Start investing NOW my young friend! You will be glad when you reach my age! ?
 
(I was lucky to have a great mentor that guided me onto the “right track” early in life - now I am paying it forward as best I can.)