hungry4darkmeat

Agreed 💯 which is why I now only hire those who clearly care about actually making their clients happy, building their stable and continually upping their game. I’m so impressed with my current master and how he has realized his original commitment to continuous improvement over the past few years which is why I stick with him consistently now and am grateful to have him.

It’s funny how some people have a problem with me tipping my providers for what I consider to be good service but my providers seem to appreciate it cause they are always down to connect with me and often give me a nice break on the rate cause they know they’re going to get extra if they make a bitch happy and i aint remotely mad about that

I’ve had this happen with providers before as well which is why I now always have viagra and cialis on hand just in case they need it. I totally understand that it happens and isn’t a big deal as long as the provider doesn’t try to charge you full price and/or is able to make it happen eventually in one way or another that satisfies the client. Patience and a good attitude goes a long way towards helping resolve that problem

As should we all- however that’s not the world we live in unfortunately

Fair enough - you’re not wrong - doesn’t necessarily make me wrong either. There are undeniable links to the pervasive thug archetype and the prison, hip hop and street cultures that are indelibly woven into modern American culture. No need for a full sociological debate here but I stand by my point.

He put three huge loads in me

There are thugs of all races and nationalities but you aren’t wrong about the word being used as code for black and masculine and therefore sexually aggressive, dominant and “rough”. That said the phraseology falls into one of those areas that cross multiple cultural racial and ethnic boundaries including within the common black lexicon - it would be extremely rare to hear someone black use the term to refer to a white guy even if he was literally a convicted violent criminal. Typically the white equivalent would be called something else like “goons” but that’s because the words are specifically meant to include inferences to race and other personal characteristics that are commonly used as tools of oppression. see “roughneck”, “redneck”, “good ole boys”, “bros”, “homies” etc

Might actually get some of that good meat later this afternoon I’ll keep yall posted

Looks like Big Mike is in the city- might have to see him just to see if he still has it 🐷

Facts. There are hustlers and there are professionals and they’re two entirely different things. Professionals want to build their client base and provide their clients with experiences that will inspire reviews, referrals and repeat customers. Hustlers are just trying to get whatever they can in the moment because they are only there to get some money and bounce as quickly as possible while providing as little in return as possible. some are desperate and do it as a desperate effort to make some quick money. Others like their lives from one game to another and are generally not going to do anything they don’t have to do.! They will gladly rob you and try to extort or scam you if they can. my advice- good dick aint cheap and cheap dick generally aint good.

I have been with Mike many times in the past. He is very masculine, built like a football player I believe he’s a former firefighter. Anyway he’s hung like a horse and he’s verbal and dominant. The pictures are definitely from a while back but I would recommend him if you’re looking for a scene like i described above. I believe he has had several rentmen profiles / names over the last several years but he is very recognizable and I actually saved some of his pics so it’s definitely the same guy.

You can find some guys who say they are looking for jen men- in my experience most are hustlers rather than actual professionals, but I can’t deny having found some tasty dick on sniffies. Most aren’t looking for money but there are plenty who are, you just have to read between the lines

I have met a few guys who had that issue but they were able to get it fixed with minor surgery and they are happy to have kept it intact

Why would you possibly want to do something so stupid? You were born with it and it is there for a reason. I wish my family had left me intact

As a client I think that since we live in one of the largest markets we should have our own events for providers and also for both clients and providers. I’ve produced thousands of events and would be happy to work with anyone else here to create something to help organize our respective communities and give them an opportunity to meet and interact with their peers and for both groups to meet and interact with each other in person. If there’s anyone who would like to collab with me on this please let me know- I prefer to be collaborative on projects like this so a few volunteers and we could be chatting in person before the holidays.

Ad is current and live and he continues to be amazing

This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether. it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing. If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways

And learn to push out while he pushes in so you can take it

You’re not wrong. I’m a pretty reliable regular client but freely admit to having flaked on many dates both professional and not- and feel terrible about it. I’m not actually an asshole (which is what an asshole would say right) but do have some relativrly serious health issues plus I’m married and discreet so it’s not always easy for me to make everything work despite my best intentions. I’m known for sending providers a generous cancellation fee but it’s still fucked up. No excuses definitely doing better now but it’s been a long road. I probably flaked on someone here and many more out there in the universe, and sincerely apologize for being that guy. In fact let me apologize for all the other flaky clients who probably never intended to disrespect you, waste your time or lead you on, but end up doing exactly that. karma sorts it all out - having personally paid karmically and financially for my past violations, and having made substantial progress in not being flaky by being honest and upfront about my situation with potential providers and making all plans a couple days in advance (which some providers seem to hate but works better for me). When I book a date a couple days beforehand it gives me the time to get myself together without having to rush, and since my dates usually involve me getting a room, can take a couple hours to get myself ready. It’s just easier for me with a few days notice. Btw If more providers could host in the city it would be a game changer but back to the topic. Should someone build a website that allows everyone who uses hookup sites or adult services to rate their experience with other users anonymously so you can lookup their username from any site like Adam sniffies friendboy or rent men and see legit feedback from others who have been with them? Can it use photos as well so changing names won’t be like starting over? anyway sorry to all the providers for the punks like me who talk you up and then leave you hanging. Don’t take it personal cause it’s not - they feel bad but if it’s not gonna work then there’s no arguing with the truth. I’ve flaked on providers before and then subsequently hired them for multiple sessions and tipped them well for being patient or forgiving, so you never really know. Just something to consider.

So what about when you have multiple clients hiring multiple providers? Trying it out again soon and interested if anyone has any suggestions.

I’m a 6 - total sub

Def co-sign on the labeled envelopes!

Depends but if you confirm pricing beforehand it shouldn’t be an issue. I’ve always been upfront about it with providers and when there was any issue I brought the lower one up to match the more expensive one on general principle.

It’s been a long time and tbh he looks like the guy but I would not swear to it. That said if he’s the same guy I only blew him so I can’t speak to his stroke game but he was hot and I enjoyed spending an hour with him in my mouth