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  1. On 5/6/2024 at 7:04 AM, jazeboy said:

    (humiliating topic ... please be gentle)

    I am very new to exploring my sexuality ... have been in the closet (and therefore celibate :( ) all my life. Lately I have started enjoying the replacement of intimacy by getting erotic massages.

    I love when the masseur touches my hole ... but I do not have a smooth / "flat" / tight one ... it's kind of swollen and puffy. I am not sure if it is a hemorrhoid: it's not painful or itchy and does not bother me at all ... except I'm just wondering: is it off-putting to other guys and should I be embarrassed by it?

    I had a hemorrhoid that wasn’t bothering me and didn’t even notice and one of my masseurs told me about it and I was so embarrassed because when I looked I didn’t like what I saw so I can imagine him, I went to the Dr. and had it removed and they gave me a prescription and it hasn’t been back. 

  2. On 5/8/2024 at 11:19 AM, PIKEMASTER said:

    I talked to the guy that left that review. He said it was a good time maybe not exactly 9.5 but knew how to use what he had. $400 though so I politely declined not into test driving.

    I was thinking according to the pics it doesn’t look 9.5 😂

  3. 2 hours ago, jmichaeliii said:

    That's what I have been doing.   I don't want to wreck what is already a good relationship. 

    You can always ask if he offers other services and if so what are the prices.. but if he says no he’s only a masseur then I’d let him lead and see how far it goes.. I’ve had some guys after a few appts and get more comfortable allow more to happen and I tip well to show them my appreciation and I’ve had other times where the provider doesn’t.

  4. 40 minutes ago, jmichaeliii said:

    I have a provider in my area that I see somewhat regularly for erotic massage.  The guy is a fantastic masseur and provides one of the best HE I have ever had.

    We chat quite a bit and I know he has kids, so I'm not 100% sure exactly what he's into.  He's also not your sculpted provider (maybe 15 or so pounds heavy), but I find him to be really hot.  His accent, demeanor, skills all turn me on.

    I'd love to see if there is more, but I'm struggling to get the nerve to just ask.  He is clothed during the massage until the HE nears, then the shorts come off for me to play a bit before we finish.

    I'm not saying going all the way, but I'd love more mutual contact with the guy.  Do I just ask, or try and drop some hints during the massage?  I don't want to be a grabby jerk as I believe in respecting boundaries and I feel like he has established those without coming out and saying it.

    I'm seeing him this morning again and would immensely enjoy going to a new level.

    I always let the provider take the lead, I try not to be forceful in my actions because in the event the provider says no it can make future appts feel weird and you may loose getting what you already have.. so I’d suggest letting him take the lead and see how far he’s willing to go. 

  5. 5 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

    never heard of one near posto 9 (Ipanema)......is this similar to the 202 and 117 saunas (legal brothels) or a different concept?

    more and better info:  https://www.gayguides.com/forums/    scroll to the Latin America/Brazil areas

     

    The one by the beach is not the escort one, it’s the one locals and travelers go that want a free hook up.. less likely to find the super hot guys there cause usually you have to pay for those, but I lucked out once and met a hot guy there as I was about to leave and we had a great time. I forget the name but if you ask any guy in that area that looks “gay” they most likely will know. 

  6. On 4/22/2024 at 1:00 PM, nopelo said:

    Hello, new to this exciting forum. Please let me know if my netiquette seems off. ; ) 

    I'm also new to the rent boy scene, and I travel a lot. So my question is: Where do you think I will find the best selection of monster cock tops at a reasonable price? I also want to avoid hassles (who doesn't?). 

    I have only tried RdJ so far, mostly the saunas. I was very impressed by price, convenience and quality, will not hesitate to go back or try another city in Brazil. 

    I have been to Cuba and know that generally speaking prices are cheap and guys can be really hung. But never tried any of the rent boys, only for free. 

    I know a number of African countries, but again, never tried rent boys, only guys for free. Most guys in Africa will expect something, though, like 10 usd for their taxi ride back or being taken out for dinner (or both). 

    My preference is any type of masculine guy who is exceptionally hung, except classic Caucasian. Black, Arab, Latin, Eastern European would be great, and even better if there's a variety of all that. I get on well with straight guys, as long as they kiss and enjoy fucking me. I also prefer sex without condoms. 

    I'm thinking that a Latin American country,  or African/ Middle Eastern, or Eastern European might be my next destination. Or just Spain/Portugal. 

    Please advice me, and sorry for writing this long entry. Thanks in advance! 

    Bahia in Brazil must visit 

    Dominican Republic 

    I also went to Czech Republic years ago and met some guys with really huge ones there also 

  7. 4 hours ago, Tallmenlover said:

    Sure fire way to get scammed. I wouldn't follow this advice guys.

    Again do your research, make sure the person is heavily reviewed, I for one have never been scammed. Sometimes you have to trust your provider just like we want them to trust that we will pay on the end.. it goes both ways in my opinion 

  8. On 4/25/2024 at 7:06 AM, scopitone said:

    I took the plunge - don't recommend.   Looks like his photos.  Nice demeanor, body, and thick🍆.  Staying at a midtown hotel visiting from Miami.   Not the best english, but totally able to have a conversation.  Bed massage.  While he definitely had some good technique from the limited time we had - his phone kept going off (which he had on the bed with him), after 20 minutes time to turn over and then upsell.   He had quoted me $200 but not a time length - which is my bad for not confirming, but I had assumed for an hour.  

    How long was the appt for 200?

  9. Is anyone else on here married to a woman? If so does she know about you getting massages or hiring male escorts? 
     

    In my case my wife knows but it’s not something we really go into detail about, before we had kids we used to do some Bi stuff with another couple but has changed since we became parents. We still have a great relationship and I have considered booking appts with her as a couple thing but apart of me doesn’t want to share the time as i feel it’s my time to just let go a bit, but I know she’d enjoy it. Anyone else have invited their partner to attend appts before?

  10. 5 hours ago, mystery_man said:

    I've seen him 3 times and he's one of my favorites.  Yes, he is expensive, but very upfront and business-like about it.  He is not a warm and fuzzy guy, but a nice guy and you can crack his exterior and have a decent conversation with him.   Big guy, big body, packing huge, etc.   And good technique with a nice apartment.  I've seen him more than any other massuer in NYC.   

    Still one of my favorites also, he has put on some weight since I first met him but in a bulking kinda way, still looks great and gives one of the best massages. 

  11. 11 minutes ago, edinbrooklyn said:

    A bit like restaurants. The only time I did it the guy said you don’t have to pay but I may end up being booked. It made sense. It’s not an easy gig. Especially with NYC overheads.

    Agreed.. and the reason why I don’t mind to pay a deposit is because once I booked an appt with a guy and as I was headed to his place he text me and said he had to reschedule because he received an appt from a regular that offered to pay more, I was pissed because I was literally on my way, and in my experience with the guys I paid deposit to my spot is always secure.. luckily I never had anyone run off with my deposit so to speak but I always make sure to only send to guys that are heavily reviewed and seems to be a legit provider. 

  12. 1 hour ago, EastbayMike said:

    I've never been asked for a deposit from an escort or masseur.  Wouldn't pay if asked. 

    I have by several, and if it helps for them to know I’m a serious client and if I trust the provider I don’t have an issue with paying it, their time is just as important as mine. 

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