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He can definitely work with men but probably with limitations. Otherwise, he would've never had an ad on RM, but he probably removed it because most guys are looking for more than just worship or oral. Same as the guys who advertise on Mintboys and other sites with a number of "straight" providers, their orientation magically changes for the right amount, so in a way it's a "scam". He's likely heteroflexible or bi and his rejection doesn't necessarily mean he could never work with men (he already did for a season on RM). It's likely a tease to see if you come back with a higher offer, which is not worthy because of all the advice you have already received. And on top of that if the session happens it can be poor quality because of course he will always have "limitations". There's Plenty in the sea, with one fish better than the other, get over it.

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Speak for yourself. My mind and my right hand get very active while binge-watching, especially porn ☺

this is unacceptable!

Interesting Keith. I normally visit Pornhub, Xvideos, Xnxx, and Xtube. Any new website or porn genre that you consider a good new find?

"And", all of it. This is not a cheap hobby. I only hire Tops, so especially if I'm paying a high rate, I make sure to clear with the provider that I'm going to get "Full Service". Obviously, I get fewer engagements than other clients who don't mind not having all of it, but I get what I want.

Binge-watching and gaining weight, no explanation needed ?

@muscmtl I liked your comments on that thread. While I somewhat disagree with your absolute definition of "basic sex" I like people who have an opinion and no fear of expressing it. Perhaps the best title for your thread could've been "Why can't Escorts offer Porn Sex?" I say this as someone who is not into worshipping (only) either and I consider that sex without bj, rimming, penetration and cum, is not sex. PC has dramatically changed how tolerant we must be to others but we can avoid those bad experiences with incompatible sex partners by using RM search filters and always ask the escort to confirm what he does/does not do on bed. I'm appalled by the number of amateur princesses who claim to be "top", yet they reply they don't rim, fuck or cum.

Why do I feel this was the equivalent of asking a client: "Are you a cop?"

Gay or straight, I believe RM will take down any bad review if an escort has an impeccable record and history with the website. After all, RM has to take good care of their core bu$ine$$: the escorts. Either if the discussed guy was into the dissatisfied client here or not, just the fact that he came back after leaving, stretched things out in a bad way. It set the client to expect over-delivery and made the escort feel he could do the opposite, because "Hey, after all, he came back for me!". It was probably best to call it off after leaving and never come back. Why forcing things? What doesn't start well, doesn't end well. I have never waited beyond 10-15 min with no communication with a provider if I'm already waiting outside his place, no matter how pretty, muscled, or hung he is. It is such disrespect for my time that I never try or come back again.

What a nice physique. I hope at 21 he's not using steroids, later on it would be a disaster. I saw what appeared to be some gynecomastia in one of his photos and his beautiful hair seems to be thinning?

Thank you! This is the best value I get from this forum. It helps me to spot fakes / scammers and block them.

OMG, I just laughed so much with this one. Thank you so much, you really made my day! ?

Haven't met with the guy and to each their own but I concur with @Gar1eth Unless he has some health condition he needs to have healthier habits. As per his ad which indicates he's 5'11", at 125 lbs he's certainly under the normal weight range of 146-184 lbs for his height. I'm as tall and my sister who is shorter and skinnier weighs 145 lbs.

First, I have to say that I HATE YOU. Second, I'm going to address your doubts and concerns with just one expression: WHY NOT?! I mean, life is short! This summer is short! How many years of (sex) life do we have left? There is even the chance that we will have a Covid 2nd wave and we'll need to come back to lockdown, so LIVE IT UP NOW! However, I don't want to leave without saying that you should also exercise some caution, and not only because of Covid. Now you might be known in the hood as the guy who hosts pool orgies. There are always downers who will try to ruin the party, file a complaint, or whatever. Now you have the orgy experience under your belt but you certainly seem to have felt overwhelmed. Rest assured that you will still see the Brazilian guy (enjoy him while you can cause those tend to eventually disappear as well) so perhaps for now you can tone it down to 3somes and 4somes but be more cautious about the orgies. Next time when you feel the urge to have another one you can organize it yourself with your newly built reputation by changing your Grindr bio to something suggestive (i.e. "I have a BIG BIG ... pool") and only inviting guys who you've already met with in those more controlled 3somes and 4somes, instead of random guys invited by a guy that you've only known for a short period of time.

The stats of an escort are always a turn on ?

It's very rare and unfortunate if you meet a provider for the 1st time and things don't work. What I gave was a recommendation of good faith but you are the client and as such you are free to use your own discretion to determine how much you wanna pay before leaving. I have been very disappointed myself when this has happened but as I said, it's very rare. In my opinion a provider should be ready for this scenario and always have viagra, trimix or vitaros at hand, so he has 15 to 30 mins to recover and provide you with good service despite the setback. You can't determine performance in the first 10 mins. Unless they already applied trimix (which is not as common as viagra), some guys will need foreplay and more than 10min to warm up. If you see the guy did his best, wasn't under the influence, and you want to call it off (assuming the rate is $300) you can pay $100-200 and leave. This happened once with one of my favourites (the only time he failed me) and I asked him to give me erotic massage for the whole duration of our session. There was lots of foreplay, anal play, without penetration obviously but he used his hand, and I got a fantastic replacement for what I was initially looking for, and I paid him his full rate. I see you are into receiving massages so perhaps you can prospect masseurs who are also good tops, so if one day you see the guy won't perform as expected you will still have a backup plan with erotic massage. The only scenario I consider unacceptable is PNP, when they are under the influence. Even though the right thing would be to leave without paying, the best is to give something. I'm not sure how much since I always try to avoid providers who PNP or show signs of it, perhaps 25%? I don't know. It's not best practice to leave without giving something because you could get into an argument with someone whose senses are already altered. This could easily escalate and you want to avoid all jeopardy and drama.

1. Yes. 2. Physical stats are ok to ask and provide. If they ask a pic, don't send anything and move on. 3. Good escorts don't cut the time sharp. They would give you 15 to 30 min extra at no additional charge. More if there is good chemistry. 4. Always communicate what you want to happen, either him, you, or both. 5. If he showed up, was not high on something, tried hard, and you don't want to pay what was agreed, pay a fraction at your own discretion. Otherwise (PNP) pay half or less, given that since he can't perform, you won't spend the full hr with him.

He's a musician too ?

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He's probably not wondering. Those guys tend to not care losing business. Their privacy comes first.

On top of the already existing superficial culture, during the last few months Covid has increased the influx of amateurs playing to be escorts. These guys come with a distorted idea of what escorting is about. Those who change their attitude will have more business, those who don't are kicked out of the market sooner or later. Others are just ass-holes and they don't deserve your frustration, so move on.

You clearly have no idea what makes a good escort. Hint: It's not a pretty face, 4% body-fat, or big muscles. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOvB9wghBqo:177

I don't know why I tend to forgive this one. It might be that he's too hot, my desperation, or the fact that I know some of them take some time to prepare as if it's a date with me. I love when they treat me like that even if they are unpunctual. I prefer that over a muscle guy showing up on t-shirt and sweatpants at my door just looking to hook up ON TIME, finishing ON TIME, and leaving ON TIME. If a guy gives me a little more time than expected, either if he showed up on time or not, I will be more willing to tip and treat him nicely.