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100% agree with you @TruthBTold. While I agree with most of this definition of a DILF (has to have kids), it's evident that it was written by a straight woman. Only a woman would fantasize with this "magical thinking" that her attractive husband won't respond to approaches of other women. There is a reason why Ashley Madison exists and why even the DILF term itself was coined. While I'm usually attracted to young muscled men, I have a weakness for straight DILFs with a dad-bod. I suppose this comes from the fact that a real straight dad will have less time to take care of his body cause he has to take care of his home/kids. I've had quite a few strokes of luck with straight DILFs in my life, that would not be incredibly attractive for most but are incredibly attractive to me.

Thanks for the stories. I've been told several times that from my interaction I don't come across as gay. But I really wish, either straight or bi, that this masseur sees himself being on the "insertive" side of things.

After talking to my pillow all night I think everyone who suggested this is right. If there is something that characterizes the straight male mindset is that they are in control and they take the lead. I will be in the lookout to see if he does something "more interesting" today and respond "accordingly".

If he ever pushes his semi-hard against my elbow again I will say "that feels good" or "yes, right there" I think I'm learning from you guys.

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I wonder if this is the reason why there are more straight guys on Mintboys. Without reviews, they know they can get away with shit better.

I will follow your advice. Hopefully he will think of it as a 2nd sign after my longer session booking today. At least it will let me know sooner (if he does "more things" tomorrow) that taking my pants off was the right thing to do. He will know right away that my pants are off because the sheets are light and semi-transparent.

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Yes, if I knew he was going to flirt this way I would have booked a longer time from the beginning, which I did for my session tomorrow. Pain in shoulders and upper back down to the middle back. No lower back involved. Deep tissue but the last 15 min he has very sensual with the moaning. Or perhaps it was all in my mind, I don't know. No restrictions of movement. My pelvis is fine. I would definitely love if he "pulls my glutes" I just don't want to make up anything that he'll know it's fake and then he'd stop seeing me.

You guys are telling me not to be creepy.

Cause I think it would be too weird to take my pants off tomorrow making an excuse that something happened in my leg since yesterday, but next week I can say "Oh ... this happened during the weekend and now I need some work on my legs". I don't know ...

Yes, we only discussed upper back. Yes, and yes. This is now my plan! What would be a credible reason for him to expect me to take my pants off for the last 3 sessions?

Yes, he gets out of the room. What do you mean by asking that? Sorry, I'm really naive as I've never been in this situation before.

We were completely separated from the rest of the staff. We could not even hear them, and once I was on the table he closed the door of his "room".

I won't do it tomorrow, but I already disclosed today that I will have follow-up massages every week, for the next 4 weeks. What would be a credible excuse for me to take my pants off, let's say, for the next 3 sessions?

I believe he's a partner or at least one of the main masseurs. When I walked in I saw many tables on the main floor with many girls walking around but he asked me to come with him to another area of the studio with a separate room where he serviced me, behind closed doors. He also has his own separate desk from the rest of the staff.

I do get fully naked when I hire someone from Rentmasseur. No but I thought it was the appropriate thing since I was going for a legit back massage. If I knew this before! Unfortunately, I had previously discussed and specified in the intake form that the problem was located in my upper back.

I don't have the courage and my forearms were on the table, below the sheet, which kind of worked as a wrap around my arms. I don't think I'd have the courage to let my arm hang out of the table to grab anything. He was rubbing his semi-hard c*ck on my elbow. I don't remember a word of whatever he was saying. I hope he didn't interpret my silence as disgust. I did my best and tried to keep the conversation going. When he came back to the right side where he was previously rubbing his tool against me, he rubbed his thighs instead. I hope he takes my rebooking for a longer time tomorrow as a sign that I would like to "feel" more.

I'm going for back pain. My pants were/will be on tomorrow, and my lower half fully covered with a blanket. I don't have the courage to change my booking to a fully naked deep tissue massage tomorrow. That'd be too obvious. I'll do that with much pleasure ?

How long should I wait to make a decision? What would be a definitive sign to know I have to make a move?

Thanks for the advice. I literally went with zero expectations for just a 30 min massage as I was really looking for legit therapeutic massage, but then THIS happened. I would say his c*ck was engorged enough (about 50%) to feel it was BIG and THICK and it was THERE, pushing against my elbow. I don't think he would dare to push a full hard-on on my elbow. Right when he was doing this, he made some comments I didn't react to out of surprise. I kept silent. Then when he moved to the other side and moaned I kept silent, probably that was my fault. I'm so bad at this! Needless to say, I booked again with him for tomorrow, and a longer time. If this is just his strategy to profit from me it's working, but I also don't want to waste my hopes/money in vain.

width=243pxhttps://media.tenor.com/images/c543748d9d2d9225dfeb0a888df08a37/tenor.gif[/img] I know there are a couple of threads with similar topics but this one is about a very specific situation. I apologize in advance if advice on how to score in this situation has been already provided but I NEED TO KNOW the HOW TO. I went for a therapeutic massage with a legit RMT who happens (as far as I know) to be straight (I stalked him on Social Media). Everything ok but he was chatty from the beginning and at some point he clearly pushed his c*ck against my elbow for longer than a minute, which felt nice. ? Then he moved to the other side of the table to apply more pressure on my back but started moaning with every thrust, which felt nice too! ? Question for Experienced Massage Clients: How to know if he's doing it only for the tip (which he got from me of course) and just to keep me wanting more but with likely nothing happening in the end? What's the best way to discover, let's say, he's bi and he's really flirting with me, and he would be open to doing more than just massage, outside of the studio? What kind of "pick up phrase", "keywords", or "expression" should I use to suggest my intention in a discreet but ambiguous way so I don't get banned from the studio? What kind of answer from him should I look for to confirm he would consider my proposal, I suppose with things happening at my place? Many many thanks to everyone for any positive piece of advice. Have a happy weekend! ?

Question for Escorts: When you HAD TO disclose, or it was accidentally discovered, that you are an escort and they started giving you the lecture in morals... What's been your best answer?

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Most of what I see in that gallery are muscle silver foxes/wolves. I agree with @Woofiecmh definition of a Daddy. It can have kids (or not) but it has to have white/grey hair. DILF would be any male with some sort of dad-bod and kids, more commonly know on the streets as "stroller meat".