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It’s horrible that they did that to you @VictorPowers. Perhaps you could share in case it’s something that we as clients should care about if your encounter was with dangerous people? Or describe the setup of the situation so we can be warned.

Interesting. Does this really happen? What is a Wild Goose chase?

Haha! Thank you, you are very sweet. I’ve had some though ? I just didn’t know the things that I’ve been doing wrong all this time. Thanks for your concerns ? hopefully I will be fine.

Thank you for the support. This has been revealing. I definitely need to reform and be less chatty.

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I normally dislike bushes but that cock looks beautiful with that hair around!

@keroscenefire I find myself in similar situations sometimes, but I notice you like these escorts and the feeling was mutual given that now they look for you. I would say be open about your situation and simply say you can’t repeat often. Those who are professionals will understand and will adapt if you are open about your budget, they will rather prefer to keep you as a client, those who want to keep sucking up your blood and get you broke are losers, get away from them.

Too much imagination. Most times the simplest explanation is more accurate. The guy just wanted money and is dumb at selling his service. That has happened to me and when I noticed repeated messages replied clearly stating I’m no longer interested in the service. ’Weird’ messages stopped.

That’s maybe too specific. Probably if someone does it, only reply with profiles of locals? Just a practical thought but of course probably people will keep doing as they do now.

So true! I just lost the chance to meet one guy because he was only visiting and he left! Before there was the notion that escorts were mostly local to one area, now that is very relative ?

I recently had an escort stop answering my messages after we were chatting over a week (not phone but website). I surely did or said something he deemed inappropriate but it’s the first time this happens to me and wouldn’t like it to happen again. Is there anything like a Client Etiquette or shortlist of items that Escorts and masseurs stick to (this could also include red flags) to qualify clients during first contact and sessions, that we should also be aware of?

His leg muscles look particularly weird.

I’ve noticed that posts asking for recommendations with city names in the post title have most comments and feedback and are very useful when we travel but it’s also common to find broken links, masseurs and escorts who retired even with their ads being up, or masseurs/escorts with expired ads that make impossible to reach them by phone or email, so sometimes a client facilitates a link from a website or another website. I thought that using a Nomenclature including city name and current year could be useful so when we click on them we check only the most up to date information, i.e.: ’Recommendations New York 2020’ but of course it’s up to the forum members to start using this format.

Brazil’s territory was colonized by Portugal, France and Netherlands before becoming Brazil. During the colonization many Africans were imported as slaves. Then after the new Republic was formed, immigration from several European countries (Italy and Germany for the most part) was in incentivized paying people from there to immigrate to Brazil and boost the economy. Different to British colonies where racism was more divisive, in Brazil there was a lot of crossbreeding between, colonizers, slaves, indigenous and new immigrants. After WWII, more Europeans and some Japanese fled the post-war crisis to Brazil. Later on, Racism was declared a crime, thus boosting even more the pre-existing crossbreeding. Basically, Brazilians (and Latinos in general) are product of one of the most diverse genetic pools on earth and almost everyone there has a bit of every race. That’s why they have some of the hottest men with the biggest cocks in the world. ??

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fpPw6i718Y

In the end, all these boys going OF or JFF do it because it’s beneficial for them and that is good. If I subscribe to a couple of them that I really like and they post content regularly, at $20/mo each ($40/mo) then I have completed in 5 months what I invest in a real life encounter with a good young escort. Given that I don’t hire that often I will continue preferring escorts. There will always be free porn with hot young guys and if most of these kids are creating exclusive content only with guys they really like to fuck, I don’t think they would take a meeting request from an old fart like me anyways.

I also understand PNP as all the hard drugs that are chemical and stronger than weed but still I always ask because there is always a new guy becoming an escort and they don’t always know everything and often do wrong assumptions.

I think it’s originated out of our modern times disease: Social Media. The paradox is that the more access we have to technology that facilitates faster and direct communication the more isolated we‘ve become, that’s why platforms like Facebook and Instagram have become so popular, because it’s not enough to be in touch with family and friends. Something in that technology makes people crave being « in-touch » with strangers instead of seeking out real life connections with real people there where they live. I think it’s funny how Millions of people follow up Kim Kardashian, caring so much about her celebrity lifestyle but she doesn’t even know if their followers exist. I think it’s the same for Only Fans with the difference that you pay a Premium for exclusivity and intimacy. You get to see content that the creator wont post elsewhere and also get to message directly and ask for an in person meeting. Now, as to where the demand is coming from, remember there are billions of people around the world with the biggest mobile and social media markets in Asia, so with just 100 out of a billion, at $10/mo a content creator is already making $1000/mo.

You can never go wrong with Brazil.

Am I the only one thinking this was a lot of G and if @Trick is still alive it’s a miracle? G alone can be dangerous because there is no standard dose. While for some users X amount is « normal », for others that same amount can be fatal. Now, I don’t even want to imagine mixing that with T which is a drug that by itself can destroy your life very easily. Also, if you are not careful, mixing G with alcohol (while partying) has the potential to put you to sleep ... forever. You are lucky that you felt like asking for help and counseling here. It means you haven’t lost your mind to those drugs completely, and you will immensely benefit from seeing a specialist to check if your mental sanity is ok. More important, you must STOP now. T is not like G or Coke or other hard drugs which some say they can control (I don’t think this is true either, it’s just their brains rationalizing the serotonin overdose). I like to see T as a plain death sentence or literally as a straight poison, so I stay away from it. First advice, STOP and avoid at all costs any drug consumption. It sounds like you have some predisposition just by the fact you had a hard time saying NO to that escort, then see a specialist, and after you have checked with a professional that you are safe, evaluate what can enhance your pleasure without putting you at risk. It can be just a glass of wine, or just weed, something more natural and organic. PS1: I don’t condone drug consumption but I also think if we are going to do it it’s best to use our common sense and be well informed, and always always take care of ourselves, no matter how horny we are in the moment. PS2: If a specialist tells you that given your recent history and by assessing your personality you will be better off not taking any kind of drugs permanently, follow the advice.

You mention very good points and you are mostly right. My love for latin men sometimes makes me blind ? Thanks for calling it out, everyone including me can be scammed.

I was about to say that not being English his first language he might be embarrassed by his broken written English but I can see how the points outlined by @coriolis888 can be concerning to some and considered red flags.

Sorry! Literature has never been my forte ? Anyways, I’ve been with French, Portuguese and Spanish speaking escorts and all of them have been romantic to me. Even the sounds of their words, despite I understand less than a third of what they are saying, just makes me melt in the pillow ?

I’m not going to attack you nor do I need to explain myself to you. I’m just gonna take the adult attitude and let it go. Throwing more wood and gasoline to an argument about someone that is not one of us is frankly painful and useless. I hope you do so.

Not pretending to be an expert at latinos, even though I’m close ? There is probably more than 1 issue that I list in order of importance: - Inexperience (with international markets) - Culture - Language Inexperience: With those tatoues and the pool picture it’s clear that it’s not his first rodeo but he is probably more used to deal with the stereotype of the typical gay in Latin America who likes to be enamorated when dealt with as a client. In North America we are more transactional, nsa, and upfront. Culture: Latin America is a region of the world with a strong macho culture. As per my previous points, if you read again the he text of his ad as if a straight man would say it to his girlfriend, it could probably make more sense. So the guy probably is a romantic who wants to make money on the bed. In the case of Brazil this is more prevalent in smaller cities. Sao Paulo and Rio being more cosmopolitan, have more escorts that fit better the International Standards, both in Looks and Price. Language: OMG it’s all interlinked! I’m not sure if you guys have heard of Linguistic Determinism but there is something real to it. Latin languages such as Spanish, French and Portuguese are indeed more romantic. I believe some call them « Romance Languages »? so when you are born in them they do mold your mindset. I can confirm that many Brazilian born and raised escorts can be VERY ROMANTIC and actually make you feel like you are living a love story. You couldn’t be more wrong! They still want your money ? If I was close and not so busy I would message him and invite him for coffee at a public place to test the waters and take it from there. At the 1st red flag leave, otherwise take it to the bedroom and enjoy his 8 inches ?