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Hi @azdr0710 thanks for your question. As @Benjamin_Nicholas pointed out it was OBVIOUSLY an affectionate way of referring to one of the guys I liked the most for his baby face (commented on the thread, twice). Learning that in this forum there are several people that don’t come here for a friendly civil conversation but rather to pour their poison and hijack and infect with their negativity and toxicity every thread where others are having fun (just to ruin it), thus pretending to make everyone else as miserable as they are in their lives, I followed again @BSR advice and just ignored the fake wake-scolders, and I’m not interacting with them on this thread for more than they childishly and hilariously try to provoke anything.

@VictorPowers So sexy! ?

You are right. It was a smell different from weed. I smelled something chemical like burned plastic or old/rotten cinnamon but it was probably some scent or odorizer he used to cover other smell. @robear how would you describe the smell if you had to compare to something else?

Thank you sexy! Wow, $540? This shit is expensive! I must be misguided and those escorts must be doing a ton of money. And yes, you are surely right thinking there are customers who will see ads on top of the page in a different way.

Thank you! Nothing more refreshing than a professional POV.

Pumpkin, I swear to GOD that condescending was not the intent of my last response. I was just trying to reconcile the points of view. And yes, you are right my English is not the best, I don’t have a higher education degree, plus all the typos (can you imagine?) thanks for the observation, but you know what, I’m ok with that. I’m an old guy and I’ve lived a long life. A few typos won’t affect my sleep. The plain text exchange does not convey tone of voice. You seem to be in a bad mood and you read my words with a tone of voice you are imagining in your head. My honest advice: Consider this public forum a place where potential clients might read how you interact with others. Please rest assured that I have nothing against you. This is the 1st time I interact with you and I regret it ended up this way. Be well.

Sorry to hear some have been deceived. I think I’ve been naive but lucky. I never sent money upfront (in advance), but over time I observed that all escorts asked me for the money upon arrival which I obliged to, maybe trusting too much. One time I asked why this, and one of the guys told me it’s standard so from that moment every time I meet with an escort I leave the money on a visible surface and point it so I avoid the awkward situation of being asked for it or feeling like I have to hand it over. It’s up to them to take it in that moment or later. Most take it and count it there in front of me. I take no offense, probably out of hunger. Luckily for me, I’ve never been robbed. Just one time 1 guy gave me 45 mins instead of the agreed hour, but the service was « completed » so I didn’t feel aggravated. I would have appreciated a little cuddling but it wasn’t mandatory in my mind because I booked an aggressive top. I definitely avoid new guys with no reviews, I focus more on well reviewed profiles rather than their sexy pics, which let’s be honest, sometimes are outdated. I examine every single review with attention, looking for fakes, there always are! But if I find too many, no thank you. I regret to hear that some have had bad experiences. I certainly put some extra time on screening the guys, but I also think I’ve been lucky.

Thank you guys, this is very useful. Most signs you mentioned are visible only when facing the escort, so probably too late but you also mentioned inability to focus and keep the conversation topic so I will pay attention if the escort is not responsive or doesn’t follow up my questions or avoids them. I’m also thinking of asking upfront if he PNPs and saying I don’t like it. Sadly it was a handsome guy and he looked hot in the pics but he has lost a lot of muscle mass and his face looks sick. Bad side is that I felt bad for him but scared so I didn’t ask for partial refund or anything fearing a bad reaction. Lesson learned.

Honey calm down. We have no idea. I had dome questions and I truly appreciate your professional feedback. It took me put pf my ignorance but tone it down, a grumpy expression wouldn’t look good in that handsome face of you. ?

Why Why do you destroy our fantasies? ?

Wow, this is confirmation of what I’ve always thought that they qualify us too! Now I will have to submit a couple reviews to build my reputation as a client? ?

Stamina and Testosterone must be off the charts! ???

I already lost the count of how many times I’ve watched this video, mostly to see the bulge of the tallest Russian guy spinning around, and the babyface of the « Brownie » ?

I wasn’t talking about the gold ads but the white ones that say Platinum but your are the expert so you are surely right. I just assumed that no recent positive reviews means no many recently satisfied customers and more who received just average service. I probably am wrong and I honestly don’t know why the vast difference of percentages ?

Yes! That shortie blonde is hot too!

Hey thanks for educating me. What you say makes total sense. My doubt originated from the fact that these are not new guys. Their profiles were created in 2015 and 2017, and despite having platinum ads on top of the page every single day their latest reviews date mid-2019, that made me think something is off. But I’m not escort so I’m probably missing out some important factors. Is it expensive having these ads every day every week @Kurtis Wolfe @Kevin Slater ? Not having reviews makes me think they might be losing money on their advertisements efforts unless they have a generous client who agreed to pay for these permanent ads in exchange for services.

Truvada wouldn’t work against ignorance and lack of hygiene.

I liked the BROWNIE the most! ??‍? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CfT9ysdO6vc

I wouldn’t discard mental health issues.

Poor soul. I once watched the flat-earthers documentary but still couldn’t understand what made these people insist in such absurd theories.

Dilated pupils?

You are clearly one of those who come here only to antagonize just because you have too much free time. Know that I won’t engage in the stupid games of your twisted mind. You are free to feel miserable yourself, alone. Byeeeeee...

Until you are rated by someone else as that “anything with a pulse”. And that rate could easily come from a Grindr user or an escort who thinks you are not up to his standards for a client. You don’t even sound like a client. When was that common sense, compassion, respect and consideration for others became scarce human qualities?

I always see the same guys announcing their services on top of page all week, every week. In my mind I debate if this is an act of desperation (I’ve never hired escorts ’pushing’ ads), or if these ads are really profitable and the escorts are as good as they say. Lately I have been also wondering if they engage customers asking them to pay for their ads every week in exchange for services. No idea about the costs but knowing RM, it’s probably not cheap

Had my first bad experience by basically not detecting the escort is into PNP until I was already with him and he was unable to perform. He denied but there was a funny stench in his room And he wasn’t articulate in his conversation, basically just lost in this thoughts, and making excuses. It was the same person from ad pics but his physical appearance was wasted. What are the signs that one as a client should look for from first contact until the in-person meeting?