lonely_john

I can imagine why

I have to say the same. Kudos to the new community (whoever they are) in charge of establishing the new guidelines with a focus on self-moderation. I have noticed a lot less conflicts on the forum since we moved to this new platform. And you guys made me google Kankakee while I was reading the Club guidelines. For a split second I thought there would be a Club for a new kind of dirty fetish 🤣

Are those the ones you hire for $200 or less? 🤣

He's highly focused on collecting reviews from Premium RM Clients with accounts created in 2015 or earlier. I doubt that he's fake or cares a lot about reviews elsewhere.

Of course there are scammers who charge $300 and don't deliver. It happens in every industry. I never said that $300 is Premium but, nowadays, the normal. If you consider it to be Premium that's different and I respect it. I talked about established providers in big metropolitan areas, then prices should be looked at in the context of the provider's attributes and REVIEWS.

Thanks for the warning for the community. His face definitely looks botched. Body looks nice though, hopefully real?

I suppose you mean that there are providers who choose to charge $200 because they want, even if they could charge $300? I'm talking about guys who have limitations (worship only, no kiss, no anal, etc) or don't have the goods (6" or less). Other than that, I've only seen rates lower than $300/h for multi-hour or "regular client rate".

New post on the NYC Twink Ho's Facebook Group: "Hey guys, I found a new client who pays $300 + $100 Tip. Go get him! 😜 "

It's the same in every city. Here in Toronto the gay hub is Good-Life Fitness and I avoid it. I go to a low-cost gym because after all I do very little, and I can watch more of the straight (working class) beefcake. 😍

Unless you look like this, nada.

I hope you get lucky @Luv2play! 🤞

$300 has been normal for a long time, for established providers in big metropolitan areas. Providers who ask $250 or less know they don't have (or can't deliver) what's necessary for a higher rate. You can find cheaper in and out of RM but Covid has inflated the cost of living across the board. $400+ is definitely on the higher end.

Getting back to the original topic, and responding with a possible solution to @jtmick: Start on Rentmen. Use the Search feature to filter by 'Preference: Bears'. Browse the list and pick providers. Then look if they also have a profile on Rentmasseur. Depending on your city, you should end up with a decent list of prospects.

Curiously, this doesn't exist for them. In their mindset, a straight guy never bottoms. If a guy bottoms, even for money, he's no longer masculine or straight as per their standards, and he's automatically deemed gay or bisexual as only they would be able to perform those duties without feeling extreme pain, shame, or mental rape. I also think the myth of the straight (or top) guy who bottoms for money, is just that.

Challenge, or a boost to their egos. I like visiting Latin America because in their culture there is this widespread conception that a straight man (with girlfriend, or wife, and kids) doesn't become gay for fucking another guy when he's being paid, under the influence, or just wants to get off and go. In North America the concept of masculinity is so fragile that if anyone hears that you exchanged hand jobs, or fucked a guy once even if you were drunk, they don't even think you are bisexual. They automatically think you are gay. I remember from my meetings with some married men down there that the saying goes: "A real macho has in his life a wife, a girlfriend, a slut, and a gay". The caveat is that he provides economically for the wife, girlfriend, and the slut; but the gay guy is the one who provides for him.

It reminds me of a straight provider who doesn't mind bears and chubby men because their "big chests" and "big butts" remind him those of women.

If anything improves it won't be his behaviour or mindset, but his skills at pretending that he doesn't hate you.

Thanks for the comment @EZEtoGRU. I also think that I misunderstood what this hot Paraguayan told me in his broken English when explaining the route we took to cross into Paraguay evading passport control.

Lol, I don't know what to tell you. This happened in 2007 or 2008 so I don't clearly remember everything and except for some roads with lights, everything was completely dark so I don't know exactly if the bridge we crossed was over water or land. All I know is that I had no passport with me in that moment, maybe I wasn't in Argentina but Brazil? And some minutes later after leaving the bar, we crossed to Paraguay, without crossing any passport control. Also, I doubt the route he took, which is almost exclusively used by locals, is publicized by tourism or government agents.

Fully awake, no drugs, we crossed a bridge, never passport control. This was in the middle of the night so I don't know if that made a difference. The motel was located in Ciudad del Este.

They are in my bucket list but I still haven't grown up the balls to travel to India or the African Continent which I think hold some of the most shocking destinations in the world, to no say "surprising". Ironically, I had my most surprising trip while visiting Iguazu. I planned my itinerary with the 3-border that Brazil, Argentina, and Paraguay share in that area. I had already visited the Brazilian side which was "meh". During my 1st night on the Argentinian side I logged into Grindr to browse the locals. A blank profile sent me a message along with a picture and a firm intention to meet up. It was a 6' tall muscular Paraguayan who was horny to fuck a gringo. If someone asks me to describe him, he looked like https://rent.men/rennehubbard but tanned, all body hair trimmed, no beard, and same thick eyebrows but nicely threaded. He picked me up outside my hotel and we went to a bar for drinks before doing anything (safety first). I also wanted to make sure that he was family and not a thief or scammer. He said he couldn't host so we went to a motel. While driving, he told me that we were no longer in Argentina or Brazil, but in Paraguay. At first I thought he was joking because we didn't cross any passport control and Paraguay is considered unsafe by Brazilians and Argentinians and they recommended to visit only by day, but then I saw the street signs. We had in fact, crossed to Paraguay. While laughing (I don't know what expression I had in my face) he explained that there are some streets shared by both countries that locals use as a shortcut to avoid passport control, and cross from Argentina to Paraguay, by car, in a few minutes. It was one of the dreamiest sex experiences I had in my life, for FREE.

I loved Iguazu! Next time, visit the Argentinian side which is better in every sense. Don't miss hoping on a boat and taking a selfie with the waterfalls as background. Plus Argentinian providers are much more affordable, yet HUNG AND HANDSOME!

If I wanted Literature, Philosophy, Creativity, and Arts I would go to an Art Gallery or Museum. I'm on Rentmen to find a Hung Stud to fuck me silly.