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And it always gives me a chuckle when guys think they make themselves more masculine by questioning the masculinity of other men. 🤣

Suddenly it's crystal clear! So if a provider's profile says "sing/dance" they potentially may be "sing OR dance" as opposed to "sing AND dance", so don't assume the latter until you get clarification...BUT they may indeed be "sing AND dance," so don't let your hopes die until you get clarification!

I didn’t even know he had a different name. I met him recently with his current name. He said no to bottoming. He was a good top so it was all good. He used to be Stephen_Top. Given he changed his name to StephenVersTop, I think it's reasonable to assume he now bottoms...but given he told you he doesn't, I think it's reasonable for all of us to be totally confused. 😉

Who?

When you search, be sure the small pull-down to the left of the magnifying glass says "Everywhere."

Even guys who could host many times prefer to go to a provider's place especially for a first encounter. Yes. And sometimes even meet the room mates under the right conditions. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge, say no more.

Sometimes it is "useful" to think about and discuss ideas and themes and memories without naming names.

Who? Links?

And do you tip your physicians and dentist, or do think their service is not exceptional?

I thought the question was about "pornSTARS." SOME content creators and SOME studio performers are pornstars.....but just because a performer has done studio porn (and even gotten their name on the video" doesn't make them a "star".

Yes, I tip all of those GENEROUSLY, But to repeat @Luv2play directly above for double emphasis: None of them make hundreds of dollars an hour.

You mean as opposed to the other two Bruce Beckhams in NYC on Rentmen?

Tip? Do you tip your doctor? lawyer? architect? At hundreds of dollars an hour, a tip is inappropriate -- unless you just like to throw money to the wind at every opportunity.

Or?

I find it off putting when a provider won't speak on the phone prior. 😉

His profile says "Versatile / Top." Maybe he's edited since you posted.

And how does one contact AlexxxNYC?

In the same way the thoughts of Socrates are known solely through the secondary source of the writings of his student Plato, future scholars will only know the thoughts of Mark007 through what others have quoted in this thread.

So you think fetishes are based on education, career, and common sense? 😉

I wish all the providers I liked were financial subs. If they were I'd be seeing a lot more providers.

Most excellent service and/or hospitality providers (lawyers, restaurants. architects, doctors, boutique hoteliers, etc.) are always looking for ways to cut out clients who are potentially difficult -- including those clients who can't stop themselves from asking questions when the "rules" of the game are stated clearly. Note I wrote excellent. If a provider is excellent, their calendar/schedule is full, and they are very busy, very selective, and simply don't need hassles.

1 in 20 what???? 1/20th of syphilis cases died c.2015 than died in 1915???? Source? What about treated cases that are resistant vs. untreated cases? I would think that would be an interesting distinction. Tens of thousands? Hundreds of thousands? Sources?

Hmmmm. Let me try to ask slightly clearer: What percentage of the people you actually have a REAL conversations with (using vocal chords and ears, not texting) flake out?

So what percentage of the people you actually have a REAL conversation with flake out?

Of course, you do speak over the phone to each person making an appointment to understand what they are looking for, to get a sense of their personality and/or flakiness, and to give them a general positive feeling that meeting you will be both fun and nonthreatening, don't you? Or do you accept appointments based solely on a half dozen lines of texting?