CuriousByNature

Very well put. Stay well ?

I'm curious, what is considered 'smallish'? As much as some people overestimate their size, others tend to underestimate. I find relative terms to be potentially depressing I guess.

Wow, you're not kidding. Are those matts? I feel like I should buy the guy a comb and some beard oil.

I have read that there is a genetic reason why it tastes soapy to some people. My siblings can't stand it but I don't mind it. Not my favourite herb but also not something I would avoid. I tell them this goes to support my personal theory that I was adopted.

I was once told I could be an escort in a world where everyone was blind. Thanks a lot, mom. ?

I received a similar request today, but have no idea which post it's about. Will have to wait to hear back from the individual, I suppose.

I think the only thing that was wrong was that you weren't able to get a video of the incident to post here for all of our enjoyment...?

I was there for a week, and I don't think it ever got below 85 before I went to bed, usually around 10pm. It was beautiful.

Just be prepared that some outdoor activities may not be super comfortable in July due to the heat. I was there last year and it was 115 degrees in the shade, which I didnt mind because I love dry heat. But many people find it opressive even sitting by the pool. If you take the gondola up the mountain its a good 15 or 20 degrees cooler.

And maybe by next week there'll be a profile for a 6'5" 270lb 53-year old advertising as a twink... ?

I would think if someone is serious about the work they are doing they would reply to you in a way that reflects that. But maybe Im an old fashioned 40-something. Well, not maybe, its definitely. Anyhoo if a reply is flakey, standoffish, arrogant, dismissive or just bizarre, it might be providing you a glimpse of what you'll encounter if you meet in person.

And at the other end of the intelligence spectrum, I was the only kid in grade 7 driving to school in his own car. JK...LOL

Im not a super politically-correct person at the best of times, and everyone is absolutely free to use whichever terms they wish. That may be part of freedom of expression I suppose. But I think it is important for people to realize that certain terms have a meaning that is far deeper and more painful for some than for others. And a lot of people probably wouldn't mind using an alternate term if it helps prevent triggering someone else. The OP was clear that he did not chastise the client in any way, and I take it he doesn't expect people to not use the word 'rape'. I didn't get the impression at all that there was an expectation for anyone to conform to his understanding and change their behaviour accordingly. I do think he gave all of us useful food for thought, as you have in your comment. You mentioned the term 'slave' as well, and this could also be a term that is hurtful to some but is used in a widespread manner. People will continue to use such terminology without meaning any harm, but it is good for us to be reminded that it can be harmful even if it wasn't intended to be.

A bit off topic, but when I used to go on cruises I noticed how the daily program often had meetings and receptions for 'Friends of Dorothy'. On my third cruise I was shaking my head at the bizarre coincidence of being on yet another cruise with this Dorothy. Who the heck is this woman, and why is she getting so much attention? So I went to the Purser's Desk and asked the staff there. It was difficult to understand the answer amidst all of their laughter. I think one may have even snorted.

The British Museum is one of my favourite places. I could spend weeks in there.

Thanks! I was mistaken... the slave trade was abolished in 1807, and slavery itself in 1833 according to Wikipedia.

You were vulnerable, but please dont ever confuse that with being weak. Those who took advantage of you were the true weak ones. Thank you for sharing such personal details - that takes courage. Blessings and peace to you ?

Three's Company....lol

Interesting that the last execution for sodomy was 1835 - still horrendous, but I would have expected it to be later in the 19th century. The 1830s seemed to be a period of social change, after the death of George III in 1820, followed by George IV and William IV before Victoria ascended in 1837. I think Britain abolished the slave trade around that time too... like 1833 or 1834.

Forgive me if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any opinions about how differences in height can either enhance or detract from an experience? Im not asking about a person's preference for taller or shorter, but more about the 'mechanical' implications. Are things generally better when two people are the same height? Are there advantages or challenges when one is 5-foot-6 and the other is 6-foot-5? For those who find that kissing is important during the activities I imagine height differences can affect how things 'line up' so to speak... and I fully realize I am revealing profound ignorance by even asking ?.

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I know your post is not seeking sympathy, but I just want to say Im really sorry that happened to you. I happen to agree that the term should be avoided. Rape isnt about sex, its about violence - which is more than simple dominance or control, though those are certainly aspects of it. The thing is that some people, for whatever reason, are turned on by violence - a tiny minority even to the point of murder. And there are people use the term 'rape' even though violence doesnt turn them on but without fully appreciating how it might affect others. They aren't looking to trigger anyone, but that is invariably what can happen.

There's such a thing? Please let me know where I can get one so I can put away the paper bag I normally wear...?

There's such a thing? Please let me know where I can get one so I can put away the paper bag I normally wear...?

So her rescues may survive drowning only to die from blood loss.