This is similar to my experience and outlook - except that I do think he’s gorgeous, and I did have sessions with real chemistry. I’ve always said that Shane in person was really nice, Shane leading up to the session was hit or miss (with tone). I am not someone who has ever hailed a racist card (only once or twice in my life have I suspected that that might really be going on), but I questioned with Shane if that was part of it, but can’t assert it. I’m just confused because the ghosting started after having several what I thought were great sessions, and not a single negative conversation or experience. I had started seeing him when he was relatively new on rentmasseur, and I witnessed first hand the difference in rates from session to session, and he would forget what he charged me for the same thing and get a little flustered (I always just gave what he asked and he was happy). When I referred some people to him from here (he didn’t know I referred them) he charged them completely different rates both from one another and to me. I kept going because when I went, I found him really nice and less awkward with the sensual part over time. When the flaking became regular, especially the day of a visit (and the lying became clear) I was discouraged, culminating in what I described in other posts.