AceHardware

And now he's 27.

Ah, memories: I did that as a teenager once, and got a raging hard-on, hidden in baggy jeans. (Rugged, str8 dentist kept moving his fingers in and out of my mouth to show things to an observant dental student; I couldn't help but suck on him, and he didn't seem to notice.)

https://www.thebestflex.com/meetup/in/United-States/New-York Only showed 8 guys for NY (including Justin Herring), so not as rich a site as RM.

That sounds like a happier ending with better closure than many breakups are. The benefits of being a nice guy.

I only know you via this forum, and your posts here are always temperate and thoughtful, so I doubt you wrote anything extreme or inappropriate on SA worthy of perma-banning you. That site's staff must be a little kooky and/or stupid.

Exactly my interpretation. It's not that you're too honest & nice (please stay that way!), it's that he's worried that a bad person might take advantage of you. You don't need to change; he's just being protective of you in his own way.

The difference between a human touch and monotony. I've had the same experience with a vibrator and am not sure why they sell so well. Mine got boring in about 10 minutes.

Dildo is regular-sized, anatomically correct. I'm a reality kinda guy. I'm sure there are varieties of ball parachutes, but the sensation just wasn't as thrilling as my imagination made it out to be. Long-term ball stretching doesn't appeal to me. Flogger: I'm not kinky all the time, and not that extreme when I am, so "the right hands" know my limits and preferred flogging spots.

Favorite = dildo. In the right hands, 2nd favorite is a flogger. Disappointments that seemed exciting until I got them: anal beads (felt like a bowel movement in a totally non-sexual way), and ball parachute, which was made of a rough leather that seriously scraped up my skin once weights were attached. It looked much better when used on other people in kinky porn.

Don't forget male nurses. I was in the ER a few months ago which led to surgery, and there was a small parade of nurses in and out of my room and as part of the surgical team. Three of them were young, tan, gym-bodied guys with thick arms that I couldn't keep my eyes off of. I don't remember saying anything flirty, just that I eyed them like slabs of sexual meat. (They weren't interested in return. But I had a hot dream later about one of them.)

Looks like there's info here from last month, and positive: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/where-are-the-ginger-guys.142319/page-3#post-1815691

So they won't like it when I say I stopped hiring providers in Moscow. They always finished too soon and it felt like they were russian through everything. [OK, that's the last one, promise.]

I promise to get new material, then. Have you had sex with Brazilians? It's amazon. [At what point do we get banned for bad puns?]

You can't always control the situation. Remember Ty Fox? As I recall, he had a job as a school PE teacher. Someone spotted him on the cover of a tape in an adult video store, and he lost his job. That could/would still happen today, I think. OTOH, it didn't hurt Carlo Masi as he was teaching at a university and getting his PhD in math. Situations vary.

I do have to wonder how many homophobes and pranksters set up RM profiles, eagerly text about meetings & what you'll do together, etc, and then laugh with their buds about how they faked out another fag. Even if it costs them a little money.

He even keeps his enjoyment of sex a closely guarded secret.

So, can RM start listing providers' rates in terms of how many Arby's gift cards they want per hour? (And do they want curly cheese fries with that?)

Oh, now I get it--thanks. Well, when you're having feelings of de-nile, you just naturally seek out Egyptians, whatever they're selling.

Italian pizza and sub sandwiches. Shop owned and run by Egyptians.

I'd never heard of postimage before, and it's nice they don't require an account or login (though it's a little confusing that their URL has an "s" on the end, and their official name doesn't). Thx.

I thought this would never happen to me, but it just did, only role reversal: I'm mid-50s, and a 20ish guy (Egyptian, and very handsome) working in a local pizza shop that I frequent hit on me. 1st time I thought I was imagining it, 2nd time it was beyond doubt, but the rub is it's family-owned and a small space, and I couldn't think of any way to flirt back with him without his uncles, brothers, cousins, etc all hearing every word and seeing everything (and they all seem pretty str8, so I wasn't expecting a sympathetic crowd--I guess I feared being thrown out by them if I was too obvious, and that he'd get in trouble too). Well, damn, I kept going back after that, but they rotate between a few shops they own, so didn't see him again for awhile, and now he's just polite and professional again. Not sure what the moral is, except that if there's chemistry, act on it while you can, and always be more prepared than I was.

And the ad is gone. Funny it took me months to find this site, but providers are all over it.

I'm somewhere between your options: I want the focus on my needs, but I want the provider to enjoy himself too, and I wouldn't ignore his needs. Maybe it's better to say I want to set the agenda.

The reviewers themselves look suspicious to me, such as https://rent.men/Bottommanpk, who joined RM in Aug 2019 and had 3 reviews in Sept, 4 in Oct (in the same week), and 6 in Nov, with 1 so far in Dec. Just a little hard to believe.

I had a rude awakening to this reality many years ago. Friend from college became a detective. We reconnected after a decade, talked about our jobs, I asked about his, he told me about busting a drug dealer by bringing the dealer's wife in for questioning and telling her they'd been monitoring the dealer, and he'd been having an affair. Would she like to testify against him? She was furious and gave them testimony right there. But, he told me, they invented the affair. I was horrified, but he said it was business as usual. I'm not anti-police, but I really have an ethical problem with that and still do. (Yes, we're still friends.)