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Although I do find Nixon cute. He does nothing for me. You all can have him. LOL!!!
 
Of the small number of Sean Cody men I've met for bedroom pleasure, without a doubt Ashton is at the top of the list (which I've stated many times lol). He was one of the best sexual experiences I've had in this hobby. Personality-wise, I'd say Johnny Ryder (Sander on SC). He's fun in the sack too.
 
There are a few Sean Cody guys who I would have loved to meet who never escorted as far as I know. I think of those bunch Calvin is the one I most wanted to have wild sweaty passionate sex with. Followed by Daniel and then Patrick.
 
Of those who are currently escorting... the one I want to meet most is Manny.

Sometimes a person’s first experience could be a non-consensual or predatory type of experience, so just be prepared that this question can put someone in a slightly weird or bad headspace. Even asking the question like “what was your first consensual or first good sex experience?” is thoughtful and intentional and caring and can go a long way in helping keep things in a better frame of mind. It’s subtle but something I try to be mindful of

Okay, I didn't know that about Chicago! I haven't set anything concrete with him yet, so I'll look into them too. Thank you for the perspective. I think I'd benefit listening to more of y'alls advice!

Hey guys!! So I decided to pass on Ethan (we hadn't set any plans anyway, so no harm no foul). He travels a lot, so we might cross paths again. I'm gonna follow y'alls sage advice and book some time with a guy a bit more seasoned. Which I think I would benefit from anyway. And a special shout out to @Gar1eth and his advice! I'm looking at Brad Hunt, if you're curious lol. I DO appreciate the help and the effort to calm my nerves. Once I get over this hurdle I'm sure I'll be enjoying myself with all the other selections available. Thanks again guys!

I didn't think so either! Catfishing has become way too common on Grindr, so I think a healthy bit of paranoia is sound. I'm gonna take the plunge anyway. I'll either get a funny story out of this or a very hot one. Cast your votes y'all.

Hey guys!! So I decided to pass on Ethan (we hadn't set any plans anyway, so no harm no foul). He travels a lot, so we might cross paths again. I'm gonna follow y'alls sage advice and book some time with a guy a bit more seasoned. Which I think I would benefit from anyway. And a special shout out to @Gar1eth and his advice! I'm looking at Brad Hunt, if you're curious lol. I DO appreciate the help and the effort to calm my nerves. Once I get over this hurdle I'm sure I'll be enjoying myself with all the other selections available. Thanks again guys!

I believe the consensus on the forum is that unless you are the non-jitters type, you should choose a well known and well regarded guy for your first time.
 

 
The gold standard for confirming someone is real is quick video call. Not only does this confirm the person in the pics, you can get a sense if they might not be a good fit. Emphasis on quick, you shouldn't come across as a time waster. With that in mind, if someone asks for money to do this, I would recommend walking away.
 
I'll put in a pitch here for the school series, if you haven't already read it, from our very own @latbear4blk
 
https://ilikepinga.com/?s=the+school+series

I think all the points you made are valid. I think his pictures look a bit too professional. There is a way to check them if they are posted elsewhere (like on Instagram or Facebook) but I don't know how to do that and that information isn't always a red flag (for example, it could be from the escort's own Instragram).
 
You could definitely have him send a photo with today's date. Or you could just go for an escort you know is real by choosing one that is on DaddyReviews or has been mentioned on this forum. It's tricky...I do think most escorts are real, but there are some fakers out there for sure. Good luck and enjoy the hobby.