It's not a sign of disrespect. It's the English language. Had is the past tense of have. Maybe it's the idea of possessing him that you dislike? But he was mine for a brief moment of time. Grow up and stop being jealous. You're just trying to argue semantics with me because you have nothing better to do. Which verb would make you happy snowflake? Enjoyed, satisfied my thirst, experienced, rode, unloaded in, danced horizontally with. I doubt any descriptor of my experience would make you happy because I did it and you didn't.
Here's a thought, "if my opinion doesn't offer constructive feedback then why bother sharing my opinion?".
Do you really think that your snide comments are going to make any substantial change? Better yet tell me how I'm morally loose and a degenerate. We're all here for the same thing buddy.