Rick M

The sexual desert otherwise known as Washington, DC.

Yes, but if I can't finagle one provider, how will I accomplish two? (Doubling up doesn't appeal to me, either.)

I suppose it's the "covidity" at work, but come on! I see there are gentlemen out there making a living, or pretending to. I had reserved a substantial budget for "entertainment" this month, but I can't land a date. Either travel plans get screwed, or texts go unanswered. Yes, I am picky, but in more normal times I could find relief here and there. (Sometimes, too much in too short a time for me to handle.) I'm sick of so-called sheltering... It's a prison term!

I suppose it's the "covidity" at work, but come on! I see there are gentlemen out there making a living, or pretending to. I had reserved a substantial budget for "entertainment" this month, but I can't land a date. Either travel plans get screwed, or texts go unanswered. Yes, I am picky, but in more normal times I could find relief here and there. (Sometimes, too much in too short a time for me to handle.) I'm sick of so-called sheltering... It's a prison term!

He just contacted me to say he was out of town. Why didn't he tell me that up front? Ah well, the mood has passed...

I opened negotiations with Mr. Longhill about a week ago, and they have yet to conclude. I was hoping to report something concrete by now, but the dialogue broke down right where we were about to establish time and place. He simply stopped talking to me for 3 days. I know texting can lapse at times, perhaps for a long stretch, but this seems to be a case of deliberate apathy toward commitment. I'm going to disengage from him.

This thread is kind of old, but the guy is still advertising, and there was a review submitted under his listing on RM recently. I've tried to contact him several times on and off, but he never responds. Oh well...

Update: I saw he was coming to my locale so I made an inquiry on RM. He replied in a timely manner with a canned response that included a request for a deposit to secure a reservation. I wrote back declining the prepay option, but asked a few more questions relevant to a meeting. That was weeks ago, and haven't heard a word from him since. Make of this interaction what you will.

Bluechews are Viagra clones that seem to direct much of their marketing to gay sites.

Without the meds, even in his company, I felt nothing.

I know there have been discussions here before about enhancement drugs, including Blewchew, but I threw together this summary of my first experiences with it for another Internet denizen, and I thought I'd post it here as well in case anyone is interested. I'm approaching 60 and have had ED issues for the last 10 years or so... My initial order of Bluechews was 6 pills. They only come in 25mg doses. For trial #1 I chewed 2 = 50mg. Nothing. Trial #2, I swallowed 3 (= 75mg) on an empty stomach, and 45 minutes later, I felt a little flush. I met my date 1 hour after dosing, and perhaps because I knew him already and there's a strong attraction... Voila! The magic happened. Might go with 3 and a third next time (max recommend dose is 100mg) just to make sure, but 75-100 appears to be my optimum range.

He's affable, energetic, more on the skinny side than muscular, likes to talk as well as ****, sometimes does both at the same time. Only travels, never hosts.

I have just set up an appointment for later this week. Seems to be an accessible, easy-going guy. I'll post a follow-up to let you know how it goes.

I should hope that if you are suddenly "called away" from a negotiation for whatever reason that you politely wrap it up, even in a superficial manner, with an excuse like "I just remembered--I have a dinner date tonight" or "Excuse me, gotta run, the cat's on fire" rather than leave the other person dangling.

One reason I rely on professionals vs. "normal" dating or hookups is because no one online seems to be sincerely interested in meeting another human in the flesh. Choose any dating/social app or site (ANY--they are all the same as far as I can tell) and I can attest to receiving there strongly worded appeals to get together. There is some back and forth as terms are refined, but at some mystical moment--usually at the fixing of an appointed place and time--the perpetrator vanishes. Such an instigator is like a (pretend) golfer who whacks the ball on the first tee and then declares "I'm done!" without ever getting near (ahem!) a hole. This isn't flirtation; this is psychological abuse. WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? Apologies for my vehemence.

My eternal caveat is YMMV. Sorry the planets didn't align as well as when I met him.

However the provider has to invent one he wants to use, and Dallas was only vaguely aware of Daddy's and its purpose. I told him I would initiate the process, but he hasn't responded yet...

I can answer my own question now: met him, and I have no complaints. A very relaxed, easy-going fellow who is new to DC, and yes, formerly a resident of Dallas. Kind of new to providership, too. I'll post a review on Daddy's site if he creates an identity there.

I'll post reviews to Daddys and Rentmen, but I had to express my pleasure in the unbridled fun I experienced with Bo. We started with one program in mind and switched to another... Unexpected and more than welcome. https://rent.men/BoFo x

I searched the forum but found no useful threads on this provider: https://rent.men/DallasLegit/ He's in DC and I was able to contact him and successfully book an engagement for next week. Seemed pleasant enough, too. He has a series of positive reviews on RM. Anyone have a personal take? Thanks.

Currently of Washington DC. Only 2 RM reviews so far. Anyone know him? https://rent.men/KaineWoodXXX

Or, more precisely, an 11-month summary, as it begins when I joined the modern age of telephony (don't ask!) last March. The numbers here represent individuals, not sessions. To enumerate: 3 great guys. None of them local, but 2 of them do visit regularly. All worthy of repeat business. 1 other great guy, but not my type, so it's unlikely I'll book him if ever he does show up again. 1 good guy whose performance was hampered by a cold. 2 so-so guys, not repeated. 2 low-priced amateurs--1 decent, 1 not yet ready for prime time. 2 washouts, uncompensated--they refused to engage me upon meeting. 3 disappointments, compensated--misrepresentations or otherwise not meeting my expectations. 1 total ass who kept me waiting 6 hours (via progressive texts) and then disappeared. We never met, and I suspect some substance was addling his brain. There you have it: out of 15, 6 decent, 3 moderately good, 6 awful. Rather a boring bar graph, I'm afraid.

I did not realize until this week that reviews cannot be submitted to rent.men unless there is evidence of recent communication... Either an email or (I suppose) a glance at contact info. Although I had done so for this one provider in the past, and I used the site to confirm travel dates, those actions are not sufficient. I shall endeavor to jump through all hoops properly in the future.

Thanks to Arvaguy for organizing a most pleasant brunch. Hope to reconnect sometime in the future. (In a year, at most!)

Since the whole loan affair was kind of controversial, and personal, I'd rather not mention his name. He's not hurting for positive reviews... He likes to boast he has well over 100 on rent.men, and so he does.