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On 11/29/2023 at 8:13 PM, Capitano said:
These are escort rates, I wonder what's up with that 😉
His reviews have always indicated a broader range of experiences than just therapeutic. I’m glad he’s listing it officially. No one does “erotic massage” better!
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Hey, FLJock, no! I come here to learn as much as possible about other people’s experience. I find “YMMV” annoying, partly because it’s redundant. Every combination of people is going to be produce different experiences. Providers are not robots! More than that, though, I mostly see it used by people who have gotten “extras,” which implies that others might not. I don’t see any value in that comment. I hope my brothers on this site get everything they hope for!
BTW: Cristianok also only offers therapeutic massage on his RM page too. I’m not sure why. So much of the beautiful thing he does is sensual/erotic. I can’t picture him any other way.
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5 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:
I've had it happen and few times but I've never been "confused'. I simply apologize and claim to be confused and leave immediately.
There was only one occasion where I hired a young black man in London and the fellow who came to my hotel was a different person, but actually better looking than the photos he posted. In that instance, I was pleasantly surprised by the swap.
You’re right to have turned right around. You’ve got more poise than me! Two of the three were attractive enough to me (one of them had a standing ad on Rentmasseur at the same time!), but I’m hoping my present savvy will be enough to avoid this awkward social situation going forward. So far so good.
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On 11/22/2023 at 12:15 PM, FLJock said:
Lots of kids do OF and have a big social media presence...and also do massages on the side.
$200+ bucks cash and you get off if you're horny, sounds like a win-win.
Out of curiosity, how often do people show up for massages and it's someone obviously, completely different? Because in all my years, it's happened once, and I walked away.
Three times in my career I’ve showed up and the provider was a different person than in the ad. It was flabbergasting, but it “worked,” I guess, since each time, I was so confused that I just went through with it and never came back.
I’ve figured out now how (such as using this site) to reduce the chance of that happening again, but, wow! This profession has enough challenges for providers already. You gotta nerves of steel to greet someone at the door that you’ve catfished!
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On 11/23/2023 at 1:18 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:
Sensual may mean that extra senses are involved, such as the use of aromatherapy and music during the massage.
Erotic may mean that someone might get aroused.
Honestly... Don't put too much weight into the type of massage offered. I've had penetrative sex during a massage with "Therapeutic only" providers. On the other hand, I've had "Erotic" massages without any touching of the genitals and the masseur remained clothed. I still kept going back to that "Erotic" masseur because he gave a damn good therapeutic massage and his rate was reasonable. When I asked him outright for an "Erotic" massage during a repeat visit, he replied that it was Erotic because I was naked and he worked my glutes and thighs.
So, yeah, I don't really pay attention to those categories. If I'm looking for guaranteed sex, I just hire an escort.
I think one should definitely pay attention to how providers advertise. That’s a basic professional courtesy.
This is not to say that many (most?) providers of private massage aren’t open to more intimacy than they advertise. Reading their Rentmasseur reviews or posts about them here, checking out the text and photos in their ads can give you additional information about the latitude of their services, but there’s no need to go to someone who is only offering therapeutic massage, if you want something more. There are lots of options out there.
For what it’s worth—and from considerable personal experience—here’s how I see these categories:
Therapeutic: massage intended for health, both physical and mental. These guys are often professionally trained and just prefer the independence of not working in a “legit” spa. The only consistent difference I have seen from the health spa experience is that there is, mercifully, no prudish draping.
Sensual: massage focused on pleasure, without introducing more conventional aspects of sexual expression. These guys tend to be self-taught and have recognized a market for men who will pay for the luxury of being touched by another, usually handsome man.
Erotic: massage incorporating the interactive and more explicitly sexual possibilities of massage. I would be disappointed if I hired someone for an erotic massage and he stayed fully clothed throughout, sent signals that he did not want me to touch him, and that HE was not available. I’ve had rare instances where this happened, but I just didn’t hire them again.
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I’ve posted a reply about Cristianok before, but as I just saw him last Saturday, I thought I’d throw in again that he still is one of the very best private masseurs I’ve ever had. Besides being shockingly good-looking, he’s a kind soul and intensely focused on providing a pleasurable experience. I didn’t get a tiered pricing message when I first starting seeing him when he visited NYC about 5 years ago, so we’ve got a long understood payment arrangement. One other thing: I don’t really get or like the use of “YMMV” (like above) on this site. I don’t see its value in these communications. Since it’s only ever used, from what I’ve seen, to describe extras beyond what I understand to be the generally understood expectations of “erotic” massage (masseur naked (at some point), MT, and HE), I feel like it’s a given that one can’t predict if the masseur will offer more. That’s an aspect of humanity and individuality that’s beyond legitimate expectations for this job. I really only want to hear what guys on this site did or didn’t experience with a masseur. It’s genuinely unhelpful to tell me that I might not get the extras that others got. I know that already!
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I can’t find any information on this guy (just one review on his page). Is he real?
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Met Liam and wanted to report back a really good experience. He is the guy in the ad (some repliers seemed to express doubt about this) and a genuinely nice man. The first half hour (of 90 min) of the massage included such a good conversation that I almost forgot what I had come there for. He was easing me into a very blissful and, finally, intense massage experience, however. Given this thread (all that I could find in him) and the scanty reviews on his ad, I had kept my expectations low, but, honestly, it couldn’t have been better.
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Anybody taken the plunge with this guy?:
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My all-time favorite, any city:
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3 hours ago, RBENJI said:
Clearly you don’t or you would’ve known from the first session that he wouldn’t be too interactive with YOU.
You can’t say your goal isn’t sex or a happy ending but then come on here to complain about his lack of interaction. If the eroticism wasn’t your goal, his lack of interaction wouldn’t even matter.
Make it make sense.
There’s no need for that. Let’s be kind here. I like Louis a lot and enjoyed our time together. He wasn’t responsive to my small hints for a more erotic experience, and that’s fine. I respect his boundaries.
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11 hours ago, eyeppft said:
Met Paulo. At best, the pics are from a 15-less-years cousin. I wouldn't have minded if he wasn't also... A bit occupied by his phone the whole time.
Couldn’t disagree more. I met Paulo, and his pictures and age are accurate. His FB and Instagram both reflect that. I really liked his massage and sweet personality as well.
I always hate to hear that providers look at phones during the massage, but, fortunately, that was not my experience. The only downside was that neither of us could host, and renting a room adds too much to a rate that is already high.
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7 hours ago, tuxedomasc said:
Does anyone have any 411 on Louis? Thinking about booking a massage with him.
I love Louis. He’s a sweet, interesting person, and gives a great massage without his shirt on—what a pretty body🥰—but I’m always a little frustrated by the lack of interactivity. My general goal is not sex or even a happy ending, but I moved to private massage for a less passive experience.
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On Rentmen too:
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On Rentmen too:
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Any experiences with this handsome masseur?:
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He’s on Rentmasseur as well: https://rentmasseur.com/DarioEnzo
Any experiences?
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3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:
Thanks.
He looks mighty fine in those photos.
Good to know some of these guys on Rentmen arent just Photoshop beautiful.
He quoted me $350 for an in call. That doesn't sound expensive in today's weak-dollar economy.
He quoted me (and I paid) $450!
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Lucas NYC Masseur
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Always happy to report a positive experience! I just saw Lucas, and it was just about the perfect erotic massage. He’s got actual massage skills and uses them in a detailed and firm/deep way. He’s unbelievably good-looking in the altogether, so it’s a mystery to me why he doesn’t share more revealing pictures in his ad. Finally, maybe best of all, he’s really sweet.