Oh, no. I did see your reviews on rentmasseur and here (and I envy the good experiences you had! He's sexy and his massage skills were good), but I understand that masseurs are just like all of us: they respond differently to each person. I've been amazed to read that a masseur who turned a massage session into all out sex with me wouldn't even take his shirt off for someone else. The flip side of the beautifully intimate experience of massage, however, is the vulnerability it produces. My pet peeve (sorry to be a broken record) is the false advertising dimension. If a masseur is advertising sensual/erotic massage on a site like rentmasseur, it's just too demeaning to have to say in words, "Please touch my butt, please let me touch you." And if he is acting like it's unpleasant to be with me, there's no way I'm going to reach out and touch him.