woodworker
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woodworker got a reaction from + WilliamM in Do you forgive and forget or hold a grudge?
Carrying a grudge takes energy I would rather spend having fun.
I forgive the other guy, then I forgive myself for allowing him to hurt me.
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woodworker got a reaction from + Trebor in Who is this handsome model?
He looks familiar. Anybody know who the model is?
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woodworker got a reaction from + Reg in objects as size comparisons
When I see a cock wrapped in a buck, I think "ewww! I wouldn't put that in my mouth. Who knows where the money has been".
Do crisp bills make paper cuts?
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woodworker reacted to + Balthazar in LA recommendation? (list of #5)
I imagine that a masseur might target gay men for a variety of reasons. On a practical note, for example, men (particularly gay men) might be more likely to go to a male stranger's residence for a massage or invite him into their home than a woman. It might just be a business decision.
I think that many massages are inherently sensual on some level, as you're experiencing pleasure from someone touching your body. Although it has been my experience that many (maybe most) m4m masseurs offer some level of extras (nude, MT, HE), I don't think that these extras are necessarily implied. He just needs to be honest about his services. It is frustrating when a provider clearly uses sex to sell a strictly therapeutic massage. Nevertheless, I still think a client can have an emotional connection with a therapeutic masseur. Hugo, for example, was really friendly and gave fitness advice. By showing interest in the client beyond the massage, he's potentially fostering a connection.
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woodworker got a reaction from Cliff in Most awkward moments during massage
Table was in what I assumed was his daughter's bedroom because there were shelves full of dolls. During massage he talked and talked and talked about his passion for collectible dolls and before I left he introduced me to some of the dolls like he thought they were alive. I hope he was on drugs.
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woodworker got a reaction from Wanderoz in 411 gymnast
The man in the pictures has advertised in LA for a few years and his facebook says he still lives in LA. I think this is probably an honest ad and the guy is visiting Dayton. I don't know what the going rate is for "party favor". Read carefully and watch the videos. He doesn't hold anything back.
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woodworker reacted to Squick in 411 Boston Escorts
Great topic! Yeah, whatever happened to that Sean Cody model with the dark brown hair — Nick Parker at one point, then he changed his name...
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woodworker reacted to DavidMore in LA Bottoms
It’s hard to find a good top in LA. A good model looking bottom is never a problem there
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woodworker reacted to + beethoven in Massage Cock Position - the other one
I don't think it's a faux pas at all. If his cock is close enough for you to stroke it or even touch it, it's fair game. He knows what's what, and if he doesn't like what you do, he'll just move away and stay out of range -- or just tell you politely not to touch. I have never had the latter happen, though I've had many masseurs stay out of range of my hands -- even when I didn't "make a move."
Anyway, I always make it clear at the beginning that "I will respect any boundaries you have, but I don't have any. I like lots of body contact, including my sensitive areas, so feel free to let your hands massage every part of my body,."
As I said, this isn't their first rodeo.