bendable2019

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended. I thank y’all for the constructive comments herein... I am blessed to be in this forum to hear y’all and take in all the suggestions and advice...I was just seeking advice and I am glad I got it. I offered my client a shower yday but he didn’t really reach down there to clean the backyard properly so I had a hard time breathing in whilst massaging. In this instance and as some have suggested, I would have to take a shower with him and soap him down to ensure all the hard to reach places for him are attended to. I do not have any qualms with size but hygiene is. Thanks for all your advice. Love y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

Just an aside:
 
I worked with someone in an office. She was a woman of a very generous physique ( like over 400 pounds), and we shared an office. The initial odor was overwhelming, but thankfully our noses get accustomed relatively rapidly.
 
That I remember this some 48 years later is telling.

Have you just recently started doing massage? Most masseurs and escorts find that anyone (heavy, skinny, tall, short) who shower at 7:00 a.m and then come for massage/escort at 2:00 p.m. are going to have a bit of odor. If you are sensitive to odor make it a rule for everyone to shower.

I think this is Den Wok (sp?).....google that and also search that in this forum.....if I'm wrong, please let me know and I'll delete this to avoid confusion.....if it is him, he hates us talking about him!

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended. I thank y’all for the constructive comments herein... I am blessed to be in this forum to hear y’all and take in all the suggestions and advice...I was just seeking advice and I am glad I got it. I offered my client a shower yday but he didn’t really reach down there to clean the backyard properly so I had a hard time breathing in whilst massaging. In this instance and as some have suggested, I would have to take a shower with him and soap him down to ensure all the hard to reach places for him are attended to. I do not have any qualms with size but hygiene is. Thanks for all your advice. Love y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended. I thank y’all for the constructive comments herein... I am blessed to be in this forum to hear y’all and take in all the suggestions and advice...I was just seeking advice and I am glad I got it. I offered my client a shower yday but he didn’t really reach down there to clean the backyard properly so I had a hard time breathing in whilst massaging. In this instance and as some have suggested, I would have to take a shower with him and soap him down to ensure all the hard to reach places for him are attended to. I do not have any qualms with size but hygiene is. Thanks for all your advice. Love y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

Although I’m not overweight,
I’m uncomfortable with the idea that people are correlating weight with hygiene.
 
The two are mutually exclusive.
There are guys who are in fantastic physical shape who smell bad and are dirty “down there”, front and back.
 
To resolve this issue overall, I’d suggest The following:
1.) starting the session with all clients with an erotic shower, to ensure cleanliness, or
 
2.) informing all clients that you will be showered and ready prior to meeting and you expect the same of them
 
3.) If when getting “down to business”, there is a “sign”, that no pre-meeting bathing took place, stop work, explain why and reference item # 2

Welcome to the forum, @bendable2019 Based on your posts, I wonder if you're both a provider and a client. Just curious. Thanks

So, is it only "heavy" clients that have the front and back odor? I as a heavy client am extremely clean and smell fresh, often complimented. I've had some men I've invited over that have a heavy body odor smell, I tell them to hop in the shower. Just like someone who smokes, I do the same.

Take a shower with your client, he will probably appreciate the the indulgence. Communicate with your client, they'll help you figure it out.
 

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended. I thank y’all for the constructive comments herein... I am blessed to be in this forum to hear y’all and take in all the suggestions and advice...I was just seeking advice and I am glad I got it. I offered my client a shower yday but he didn’t really reach down there to clean the backyard properly so I had a hard time breathing in whilst massaging. In this instance and as some have suggested, I would have to take a shower with him and soap him down to ensure all the hard to reach places for him are attended to. I do not have any qualms with size but hygiene is. Thanks for all your advice. Love y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you Monarchy79 and @rocky, I am a heavy guy myself and go out of my way to be squeaky clean and smell nice. [uSER=20442]
 
@bendable2019[/uSER] I am unclear if you only have issues with heavy people who aren't clean or, as suggested by the thread title, heavy guys period. If it's the former, I think what Monarchy79 and others suggested is good advice regarding taken a shower together. If it's heavy people in general, which I can't help but feel it might be, then maybe put something in your ads hinting at the fact that you're looking for guys who are in shape. As a heavy client, I am annoyed by those words in an ad but I'd be a lot more angry if I hired you and I could tell you weren't into it.
 
Finally, a bit of unsolicited advice that was told to me by a very wise and very successful escort: The best escorts can find something attractive in every single client. It might be thier looks, it might be their personality or it might be a tiny little detail that they can concentrate on but they find something to make the client feel like the escort is really into it. If you can't do that, then it'll show, both in your reviews and in the number of repeat customers. Just my 2¢

That’s just stupid n ridiculous for 200.00 to get his spouts. Getouttahere ?