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Dude - Rich bank account... isn’t that obvious from what the post was implying?

Well he’s coming to DC and we better get ready for this sexy guy...

Bush forest shrubs - love em

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oh hellll nooooo! helllllllllllll nooooooooo!!!!!!

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I love uncut cock and its natural smell. But as @liubit pointed out, it can be highly erotic or disgusting in the case of poor hygiene. Also, the smell can be stronger depending on a number of factors such as diet, ethnicity, age, or genetics. I've had guys of the same culture, similar age, and ethnicity both uncut, one had no smell at all and the other one would keep a pungent smell lingering under his foreskin even if I thoroughly washed with stringent soap for 5 minutes. I would still suck that prick to the last drop because I liked him so much. If you are hiring uncut and you don't know the guy and his hygiene habits, tell him you want him freshly showered. And if even that fails, take the advice you have already received.

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Good morning. I do not like it when I am the only one that cums. That makes me piss off. I love to see my escort cum first then me right after that.

Once this guy said, oh I can’t cum and if you want me to cum, pay more... WTF was that? This is why the conditions need to be spelt out from the very beginning before any meeting. Then again some would say, let’s go with the flow... flow my ass! You couldn’t keep it up biatch!! LOL

Let's take a shower.

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Hmmmm.... Sounds like this may have happened to you. Would you be willing to share with who? Just asking for a friend......Really!!! ?

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This is assuming you don't like that smell (some guys do, lol).

 

If things have been going well up to that point, I think you have the ability to stop and gently ask if it would be a problem for him to wash up down there. Maybe you could even offer to help, lol - make it part of the sensual fun. Don't otherwise make a huge deal about it. If he seems put off by the request, maybe things weren't worth it after all.

thanks for the advice. I am more into squeaky clean and sweet-smelling stuff... fragrant And edible body oils, etc

define smell

Like smells bad

Has a positive review but there’s only one. Good looking guy but I will pass.

Say "thank you."

Hahaha and?

If you’re heading down his dick for a good head and on your way down, his groin area smells, do you just suck him or what do you do?

Yeah it's best practice to not pay upfront. And most professional escorts know and expect this. Technically, this is where it can even be legally problematic, because you are paying before you spend any time with the individual so it can appear that you are paying for sex instead of providing a donation for the person's time. I appreciated this being explained by a real great professional on my first session when I tried to pay him before we did anything. Anyone that asks up front, you should just politely say, "Sorry, but I am not comfortable doing that and have not done that in any previous situations like this." It usually happens only when the guy is new at the business.

Awesome clarification... thank you.

Yup, also this. I always book morning or early afternoon appointments to help avoid that. Only my 1st hire was a late night session but that was with a pro (Nigel March), who says he only does 1 booking a day, so that went fine.

 

 

 

That's why I never reward upfront. Before finalizing and setting up an appointment I ask if its fine that their reward is given at the end of the session. Providers who say they only take rewards upfront I don't book. I only had one session where I compromised that rule and gave half upfront.

Great advice. Thank you.

I saw him twice about 10 years ago. He gave a good massage and both times were very sexually charged. And yes - he is very endowed.....that's 100% accurate! (I also am endowed and that really turned him on) The first time I sensed he was a bit off. The second time I saw the cray cray side of him and never went back. I have no idea if it's drug related - nor do I care. I run away from crazy people.

Hahaha the cray cray side... I would not allow such people beside me..: thanks for the heads up ... love this site more and more for sharing critical info such as this.

Woooah

Haven’t tried and he’s not my kinda go-to guy... Just sayin

Yes, it’s happened to me more than once. One guy tried to use a cock ring to keep it up (didn’t work), and others just couldn’t keep it hard. A couple of them looked like they were doing too many drugs, but others were probably more straight, or I wasn’t hot enough for them. I found other ways to get off, but never asked for any kind of refund. I just never repeated.

I guess I no repeat is the best solution without kicking a big fuss at the scene... lol..

Had it happen once with a guy I was seeing about every month. My guess is that he’d spent his load earlier in the day and just couldn’t keep it up. The funny part? I remember him saying that he was sorry, but that my oral foreplay had overstimulated him too much. Overstimulated? He blew me to completion and announced “no charge”.

Thanks for that

What about those who demand money upfront and when you’re in sesh, they can’t get it up? By then you have already transferred them money.

on the reverse side over the years i hired 2 separate gay escorts that had amazing asses. im a top. both had picture after picture of their asses and loved showing them off. in their ads they both stated being bottoms, listed anal etc. one escort said he wasnt into bottoming that day when i approached it in the session and the other said he had a movie shoot the next day and didnt want to be sore for the scene. hmmph!

 

my bad. i learned. on both occasions i did not discuss ahead of time what my expectations were for the session. i assumed what was going to happen. now when i hire i communicate exactly what i am looking for, what the minimum is i want out of the session and then let anything above and beyond that just happen. i hire mostly "straight" guys and man... ive had more sessions go from my minimum expectations into topping these studs than with theses so called gay "power bottoms". go figure.

 

not to get off the topic but my point is to make sure you agree on before the session exactly what your minimums are for the session. i have had regulars that for whatever reason they have an off day. i get it. they are not machines. i then leave on the dresser what i feel they earned for that session and not the usual agreed upon rate. i have never had a problem with any of them and they fully understand why.

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As a client I don't find any possible excuse and I personally, as a bottom client, would be so mad that I'd probably recognize zero or perhaps less than the half of the rate, only because I always make sure to express in advance what I want. If a guy gets into this business knowing he can't get/keep it hard - with or without help, I don't care - or for whatever reason, and he knows he's going to fail to his client, he better looks for another way of living. And yes, PNP = limp dick even for the hardest top, avoid at all costs.

Thank you.