newhudson

I don't disagree with you. You can certainly do that. And if I were in NYC, I might. On the other hand, if there were two or more providers that I was interested in equally, and the others had more in depth "Available For" Listings, then there's a good chance I wouldn't bother-especially when you consider a lot of guys these days don't really like long drawn out conversations from potential clients as they view them as time wasters.

 

Gman

but if I remember correctly, you don't hire at all anymore? or haven't in a long time at least (pre-covid). so why do you care so much? no other better hobbies?

While it's nice that he's gay and that he lists that he's versatile, I have to hope he gets into more than his list of "Available For"indicates as it's awfully restricted. If those are his actual limits, then, for example, it doesn't really matter if he's versatile or not as he doesn't list "Anal."

 

Gman

yes he does anal, is very versatile, and a huge cummer! I can confirm. Just ask the provider instead of jumping to conclusions based off a checklist on the profile that most providers probably didn't bother to fully fill out.

By the time the stay at home orders are lifted and gyms are reopened, most of the escorts and masseurs will not have seen a gym since they closed and will have been very limited in their working out, if they've done anything at all. If you're expecting them to match their pics, might need to wait a few weeks before that'll be the case, I would think. Anyone else thinking the same thing?

Perhaps escorts are thinking the same thing about you and other clients. Such a rude and ignorant “concern”.

I met him once. It was ok experience. I was thinking of giving it a second try. May I ask why it wasn’t great for you?

They never met. He's upset because HMJ is only into older men (over 35 at least -it says this on his ad and he's pretty firm about it when I finally met him) and DMICs is in his 20s. But DMICs believes it has something to do with race, which is BS because I see HMJ regularly and he's nothing but sweet and a ton of fun.

This one checks off all my boxes. Masculine,smooth muscular jock type. Haven’t found someone similar. Any suggestions?

Then hire him....lol

Highly recommend. I think I was one of his first hires but he knows what he’s doing and is just a genuine nice guy. Super handsome with a perfect ripped muscle body. He’s also a great kisser and a very heavy cummer

Is this craigslist missed connections now?

Is there a way to pay anonymously via PayPal, CashApp or Venmo? I’ve used Zelle with people I know and that app always includes the sender’s name.

Venmo can be anonymous. You can use a fake name and make all transactions private.

Just an observation, Joeflint in Nassau county NY unlocked his profile for me. I had not visited his profile before or even that location. I also checked to see "Who seen my profile" and he was not there. Anyway, it's a good marketing thing as I certainly didn't pass up the chance to look at them.

Providers can search for clients based on location the same way clients can search for providers. Maybe he was coming to the location you have as your home location and decided to "introduce" himself lol. Also you can hide your profile views, so that explains him not showing up.

Received an email from rentmen this morning changing location posted by providers

Does this mean I can track the provider on his way to my hotel?

If so that’s a nice change don’t you think?

Lol no it’s not like an Uber. Their current location updates when they share their gps when logged in. It doesn’t update in real time. That would be creepy.

I haven’t been following this thread so what I would like to see added may have already been suggested. I wish RM would provide more detail on the ”I am into” stuff. Let the escort indicate whether he’s top, bottom, or both for each item. Some of the European websites do this.

They already have this.

Yes, I've occasionally gotten mad. And sometimes there have been consequences.This is their consequence. But in the long run isn't really a major consequence. It might keep a few clients away, but it also might drive some people to see them.

 

And I'll repeat the same thing I said to your first post. I'm fine. I've let it go-so maybe I am Elsa after all. However although I've let it go, I still think people should see the interaction. Even if I had the money and were a bottom, they never really appealed to me. That doesn't mean I would never look at their photos. I'll look at a lot of guys I would never hire when I'm bored.

 

Gman

You are quite active on here yet you don't hire. There's plenty of free porn on the internet if you're bored and have no money.

Sooooo....had a great Sunday morning visit with this law school student. Gave him a modest allowance, made plans to see each other in a week’s time. Monday morning....ugh:

 

I told him my strict policy was not to send any funds before a meeting, especially since this was not a long standing arrangement. He won’t let go:

 

Lol. That’s what you get for using Grindr to hire.

Good practice wise words. I do that too. Interestingly, the provider who proactively insisted on a condom before I did was European.

That's because PREP isn't widely known and covered like it is in the US

I see this ALL THE TIME with traveling escorts on Rentmen. Very confusing to potential clients, and I would think very counter-productive.

It’s so that clients from NYC won’t flood their messages/texts thinking they are in NYC because they don’t look at the travel dates. If they don’t change their home location they will still show up in the NYC grid even when they have a travel date in La

I totally agree about those pics

That’s because you are reidreid in disguise

This morning I checked out the profile of an escort on Rentmen. A few minutes later (after I had left the site) the escort sent me email saying that he is having a special today. I went back just now to reply, but I find that his profile is marked as Inaccessible. Am I correct that that means the escort has blocked me? Very strange.

If you took quite a bit of time to respond then he prob saw you read the message and he didn’t get a response from you so he blocked.

I think Rick M submitted a review, but since the only name FutureMedDoc goes by is FutureMedDoc (a handle), rather than by an actual name (his real name or otherwise), Daddy won't post the review.

If that’s true then that logic is silly and defeats the purpose of discretion in this business.

I have who I call my Sunday boy who comes over each week and he often spends the night and I Uber him back to his parents house. It's not robbing the cradle if you put them back! (He's actually 23). Then there are maybe 1 or 2 others during the week.

 

I'm 51, executive level job, no debt, 1M+ in retirement accts, so I have a good amount of discretionary income.

 

My partner is actually older than me, we spend time in two houses, we have been together for 23 years and encourage each other's dalliances. We don't play together but we do sometimes have our regulars meet us for dinner somewhere so we have faces to place with names. We like different things - I like 18-23ish and he is more into guys 30's-40's.

TMI ?

I’m anxious to hire Cooper. Just my type and the posts on this thread confirm for me he’ll be a great hire. I am curious about one thing. He omits oral from the list in his ad? Any reason for that? A simple error of omission?

Uhhhh why don’t you just ask him yourself ???????

if youre not interested in 300 or plus an hour then I wouldn't try NYC lol

You’re looking at an hour drive give or take from NYC to Short Hills and then another hour back after. If you’re willing to pay for their travel time you might luck out. Otherwise most city providers wouldn’t see it worth it IMO

I am glad I passed. I did contact him and he quoted me 200 at first and then went down to 150 after I said that was too steep...even though that is very generous to lower his rate you can't help but think that he may put in less effort or something.

200 is too step for you? Wow ? that’s a bargain in NYC

You sound needy AF. Are you looking for an escort or a friend?

Hahaha yes this exactly.

Why did you respond to the bf's inquiries? There's an implicit agreement between an escort and the client to respect each other's privacy. How would you feel if the escort began making inquiries to your friends and family about your private affairs with escorts?

Couldn’t have said it better!