MidwestCoastal

I feel like hiring has made me feel lonelier than usual lately.
 
47 and beginning to wonder if I will ever be able to be in a normal relationship.
 
Curious how many people feel loss of interest in hiring and loss of interest in life in general.

I feel like hiring has made me feel lonelier than usual lately.
 
47 and beginning to wonder if I will ever be able to be in a normal relationship.
 
Curious how many people feel loss of interest in hiring and loss of interest in life in general.

I feel like hiring has made me feel lonelier than usual lately.
 
47 and beginning to wonder if I will ever be able to be in a normal relationship.
 
Curious how many people feel loss of interest in hiring and loss of interest in life in general.

Totally need to re-watch 1st episode!

If you want the Peter Luger from its heyday, I highly recommend Wolfgang's Steakhouse (and no, its not Wolfgang Puck).
 
Wolfgang Zwiener was head waiter at Peter Luger's for over a decade back in the day.
 
Greats steaks, great sides, great drinks. Several locations in NYC (and elsewhere). Even though it is now a global 'chain', it doesn't feel like it!
 
http://wolfgangssteakhouse.net/
 
I went to Peter Luger's like seven years ago... Worse expensive steak dinner I have ever had.... Rude waiters, cash only, rust stained drop down ceiling.... Gross.

Speechless.
 
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5d8d6d221c76c

Daaaaaaamn...

People have likes and dislikes. It's called 'freedom'. Just because someone is getting paid for sex doesn't mean they give up their own freedom.
 
I don't understand your point - someone should be forced into doing something just because its what you are willing to pay for?

People have likes and dislikes. It's called 'freedom'. Just because someone is getting paid for sex doesn't mean they give up their own freedom.
 
I don't understand your point - someone should be forced into doing something just because its what you are willing to pay for?

WOW.... TGTBT?

If he's 26, I'm 36.... (I'm 46)

One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy.
 
What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'.
 
One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile.

bump.... in philly

Can we just close all these discussions about CJ and move any other questions to private messages?
 
To Goosh's point... some people had good experiences, some people have had bad experiences, CJ has plead his case, others have shared their POVs.... this back and forth just seems pointless now especially across MULTIPLE threads. This thread provides plenty of background to those that are interested.....
 
Moving on...

I'm somewhat puzzled by the 'what if escort or client get disinterested'.... that can happen now in a relationship whether its personal or business.... it's called life. My current regular knows, if I eventually end up in a relationship of my own, it may mean the end of ours. We're adults. We're cool with that. I would hope know one goes in blind to any relationship whether its for a night, a weekend, or a month.
 
I think I could make this work. If you can't, to each his own!

Earlier this year, my weekend 'regular' told me he had a BF that was a former client. In these modern times, I find myself wondering, why can't a group of clients get together and share one guy? My regular and I don't click on the BF level, more like FwB, but the sex is some of the best of my life. I'm not wealthy by all means, but beyond income, I have definitive perks to my job.... discounts on technology, travel, etc.... that I could share with a group. I can see this working for a provider that wants to build a career in a field or do something they are passionate about without worrying about income/lifestyle.
 
Has this ever been pondered or discussed?
 
Providers - Would you ever trade 'open' for 'closed with steady income/support'?

Earlier this year, my weekend 'regular' told me he had a BF that was a former client. In these modern times, I find myself wondering, why can't a group of clients get together and share one guy? My regular and I don't click on the BF level, more like FwB, but the sex is some of the best of my life. I'm not wealthy by all means, but beyond income, I have definitive perks to my job.... discounts on technology, travel, etc.... that I could share with a group. I can see this working for a provider that wants to build a career in a field or do something they are passionate about without worrying about income/lifestyle.
 
Has this ever been pondered or discussed?
 
Providers - Would you ever trade 'open' for 'closed with steady income/support'?

I'm sorry.... I'm the one who asked. I should have asked for PVT but just need advice.
 
Not many friends know I 'do' this....really enjoy the community here. Please private me instead of posting here.
 
Sorry and thanks.

One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy.
 
What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'.
 
One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile.

Damn.... Just.... Damn.... how did I miss this one?
 
Any experiences?
 
https://rent.men/RugbyNineInch

Ugh... hate seeing guys using penis pumps.

https://rent.men/alaindeberry

...and aging VERY WELL! Very sexy Daddy!

<blush>
 
I'm usually searching 'All Locations' with a size requirement....it doesn't seem to pick up all the qualifying candidates.

I have noticed quite a few guys that other people post here that never show up in my searches on RM.
 
Has anyone else had this issue?