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MidwestCoastal

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  1. Good day all-

     

    Any recommendations for guys not found in the usual big city locales? I'm in RURAL North Carolina for the time being and thinking about trying out a few cities on the east coast since I can work from anywhere.... Would rather not fly.....prefer to drive.

     

    Been thinking Raleigh for a week, Charleston, SC, Savannah, GA, maybe Columbus, OH.... Anywhere else? Tennessee? Kentucky? Never been to Atlanta....

     

    I like HUNG tops who love to FUCK. Ripped bods are OK, but decent/average is fine too. Guys not on RM or other sites are fine too if you can hook me up. Saving on rent so I can pay for quality!

     

    THANKS!!!

  2. Woot woot! I got a shout out!!!! Not to derail the thread but do you have a suggestion for how to improve this?

     

    Say what now? Like how to create chemistry? Feel free to PM me, but overall I find there is one huge factor in getting 'sexual chemistry' - getting to know one another - physically and mentally.

     

    I only tend to hire providers who, once we get through the basics and 'administrative' discussions, spend 10-30 text exchanges discussing what I like about sex. I also get more into a provider that can share openly 'what gets him off' because for me, as a sub bottom, pleasing a top gets me off mentally as well as physically. (Side note - I LOVE talking about sex, but find many providers don't, maybe because they think of it as a 'time waster'; totally valid point, but you may be losing out on a long term regular client.)

     

    As a recent example, when getting fucked doggie or on my stomach, I've noticed a.... feeling.... that if I can zero in on, I may be able to shoot a load without touching myself..... A regular fuck bud and I have started exploring that. Its all about communication and setting up expectations.... If I get that feeling, I want to pursue it with focus, even it means the fucking only lasts 10 minutes.....but we also edge for 30 minutes before we start fucking. Again, we communicated.

     

    Chemistry is not a mystery. Like any science, it just takes study, but that means investing time, and possibly money to pursue your desired areas of study!

  3. I know its a persons right to to be who they are sexually. But, my concern is, there seems to be a glut of tops on RM most recently. You can go through pages upon pages and you will see the rare verse top. I have even seen guys who were previously verse now exclusively Tops.

     

    Yes, I am a top only, but I just can’t picture myself giving away Benjamins just to get on all fours. A dildo and some free porn would be more cost effective. Why I say this too, those who are saying they are top only, come across as potentially the the bare minimum type: no actual interaction with the client, probably texting his next bottom client while screwing you.

     

    Wow.... Are you high Clairee?

     

    I find the 'skill level' in tops varies WILDLY. Some can't find the hole, some don't know how to treat a hole, some don't know how to pound, some don't know what to do with their hands, some don't know how to get the bottom in the best position so they both experience pleasure..... I mean I could go on for hours..... Bottoms can just 'lay there'....grunt, groan, and moan....and easier for a bottom to fake an orgasm. And why can't a bottom provider be texting his next client..... face down, ass up, head under a pillow.... he could be texting his next pounding!

     

    My personal preference is to be total bottom and I like finding people who can be 'total tops' with skills to match. The sexual chemistry can be out of this world if you both know what you are doing.

  4. The other thing that bothers me about OnlyFans and their similar sites, Xtube and PornHub are turning into advertising sites for OnlyFans. I want free porn, not my search results clogged up with 'previews' for OnlyFans stuff. I understand that people are trying to make a buck, but at least put some free videos on Xtube if you are going to use it for advertising.....

     

    I feel the same way about the 'Amateur' videos on Xtube by the way. I rarely, if ever buy/video, if the member doesn't have some quality free stuff.

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