BeefyDude

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Every time I have seen his ad, his price has always been the same ($120 - which is a BARGAIN for any type of massage) I would say to anyone, reach out to him/make an effort at least WAIT a minute back up - BEEP BEEP!!! With this post I just picked up that his number changed. I had him saved in my phone as his other number. So NO wonder why he didn't get back to me. However, still would have been nice to proactively reach out as he always did in the past saying he wouldd be in my city.

Odd... I have had many great sessions with him. He always texts me when he is back. Several times in a row he would message me. If he is here during a weekday I simply cannot book with my schedule and I politely let him know, which he seems to be cool with. However on the last 1 maybe 2 trips here, no proactive msg that he is coming (I saw his ad). I reached out to him letting him know I could meet as they were weekends. NO response. Not sure what is going on, but seems to be similar to what @Tristatedude mentioned

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How did you get that unless you have seen both before it would be nice when masseurs advertise 4-hands they would include name or link

There is a mention of 4-hand. Does the other guy have a link here?

Being on this site for many years now, I have seen many posts that: 1. Ask about multiple masseurs in a single post 2. Ask for recommendations in a city (without sharing what they are looking for) 3. Replies referencing a masseur not even mentioned in the original post IMHO it would probably easier and better if you stuck to 1 masseur per post. The reason being: with multiple people mentioned it can be difficult to know who someone is commenting about. I have seen replies where no name is mentioned - so which one are they responding about? When posting an open ended question about a city you are visiting, include some interests/what you are looking for. This might help get better/more responses I'm NOT calling anyone out. These are just helpful hints based on what I have seen over the years. The intent is to help others get more (and helpful) responses. I'm not sure if there is a section or post here for newbies and/or how to get the best results when posting (if not maybe a good idea)?

I had an appt with him over the weekend. I CANNOT recommend him enough. He is a super nice friendly knowledgable and professional masseur with great techniques and pressure. He will not go nude or partaking in anything more than some sensual components - just being honest. But if you are looking for a truly amazing massage with some sensual aspects, he is your man hands down. I will be a repeat customer from this point onward. p.s. his pants never came off so I cannot comment on the above mentioned comment Of course as always YMMV

Hey at least he spells it out so there is no miscommunication

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EXACTLY Few weeks ago I met a provider who was NIGHT and DAY from his pictures. If I had reached out ahead of time, this would have been good info to know. I doubt the provider would have said No ive put on alot of weight since these pics and don't look anything like them now Look i'm not trying to get into a battle with anyone here. I was simply expressing my opinions, which every seems to have I have ZERO problems doing my home work on a provider, even if that includes asking someone who has been with them. It's called due diligence. I don't understand why this is causing such a controversy or getting people worked up - if that is the case then i'm sorry i brought it up. Geez, not worth all this aggrevation. I LOVE this site until SHT like this happens and I feel attacked for expressing my opinions.

I get (and respect) your (and hu.len) response But how is doing research/asking questions considered bad or ODD. As mentioned if there is NO or VAUGE info on a provider, why is it bad to reach out and ask some basic questions (if done in a friendly professional manner vs. tacky or inappropriate)? Do you just run out and buy a new appliance without doing some researching (I KNOW they are not the same but still). I don't have money to throw out the window, so yes doing your homework is ok IMHO. The person can always NOT respond to the message or delete it. I think this site is amazing (helping each other out). It has helped me avoid some bad characters. I'm always happy to share info if I have been with that provider. Not everyone thinks the same or has same opinion. I was merely expressing my opinion. Thanks for listening

Hello all, First off, apologize for this rant, so bear with me please. When I am thinking about seeing a new masseur, my first place to check around is here to get more info. However, if there is no posts here, I will reach out to those who posted reviews. I have found that some reviews are not totally accurate or missing details, so I reach out to the person on RM with a very friendly message. All I'm trying to do is find out more to see if it's a good match. After all the new "normal" price seems to be $200+ I don't want to waste their time or mine if it's not a good fit (nor my money). Also we all know here there are some masseurs whose pic is lets say not very accurate I just got one back that said: "I'm always surprised when people reach out to other people on RM for information. My suggestion is reach out to him and ask him your questions". I do reach out to the masseur for questions. I find I often get vague responses to my questions I also had a masseur reach out to me blasting me for asking questions about him followed by blocking me I do not understand why doing your homework is a bad thing??? Let's help each other out here !!!!!

HIGHLY recommend this man. Amazing body and exceptional massage skills. Might be more on the therapeutic side but WORTH IT