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Good experience with them?

I am actually messaging with them. We'll see how it goes.

Watch out for https://rent.men/Rawchocolatedrop and https://rent.men/Dreylong While browsing in NYC, I noticed a guy with identical photos as a guy in Denver. Probably unlikely that the guy is in two places at the same time. Interestingly they have slightly different stats and different phone numbers. The guy in Denver actually has a NYC number, while the NYC guy has a Miami number. ?‍♂️ The NYC guy does have a review from a guy who has reviewed a few escorts so maybe there is some guy who looks like the photos around. The guy in Denver has no reviews despite having the older profile (from Feb 2018 instead of Jan 2019 from the guy currently in NYC). Anyway, I have no idea what's going on...could be one guy stealing photos off the other or they're one guy trying to scam. Not sure, but I'm definitely staying away from both.

100 percent. And actually the BFE is what I am often after. I've had a lot of good times going to a new city and meeting a guy for an extended session where we maybe grab dinner or a drink after. Especially if I don't know anyone in the city It's nice to have a conversation..so yeah I definitely gauge compatibility/interest in that. But also I am sometimes after something a bit more kinky and that kinda needs to be looked at as well. It also comes down to budget. I can maybe spend $500-600 max for hiring per trip. That could mean one escort for a longer session or two escorts for shorter sessions but almost never more than 2. And it has also happened that I have specifically set up meetings with escorts and they are the ones that have cancelled on me. It just happened in my latest trip to LA. Twice actually, both great professional guys. One had a sudden illness and the other apparently had to move suddenly. So I ended up having to scramble and find someone else last minute. It sometimes pays to have that third guy you are thinking about to keep in the back pocket in case something happens. And I'll be honest about it. I've definitely said in a text: "I'm so sorry, but I've made an appointment with another guy. If I end up having to change my plans, I will definitely try to set something up when I'm in town." And lo and behold, they were the one I ended up meeting...haha.

I'm under-40 as well so sorry that us millennial clients are giving you a hard time. I have been good 80 percent of the time. My only problem is when I am traveling to a new city and put out feelers on like 5-6 guys that caught my attention when I only have the intention of seeing like 1-2 max. Often most of them clearly don't work out, but I feel bad when like there are 3 great guys and I have to choose. I am trying to do more research before contacting though...I know it sucks when your time gets wasted like that. I will say that when I definitively say I am going to meet with someone at a specific time/place I have always done so.

I messaged him when he came to Denver a few weeks ago but he saw my message and didn't respond for some reason. ?‍♂️

He's handsome..the chemsex thing is a big turn off, so that would be a no for me. Just FYI, the flag emoji he posts is from Venezuela, so that's where I assume he is from or at least has heritage from there.

I like Mike Gaite quite a lot. Also James Stevens is great..he's always been down for anything sexual. I honestly don't see how anyone could knock Mike Gaite...he is very professional, very hot and down for just about everything. He doesn't have the biggest dick around, but he certainly knows how to use it. Unless you're some big size queen, I don't see what the problem could be.

Nothing is without risk. Seeing an escort even before COVID certainly put you at risk of contracting many diseases, some of them just as bad as COVID. I view it as there are actually many activities that are potentially risky: Travel, going to a crowded bar/restaurant, socializing with friends, etc. If one is actually pretty careful generally by wearing a mask, avoiding large groups, etc. Then I actually think seeing an escort in your own home is in many ways less risky. Obviously that escort has likely seen many people but the chances of one escort having COVID versus 100 people at a bar is statistically much lower. But everyone has to make that choice for themselves.

In genetics, that is called aneuploidy. If he actually had the xxx chromosomes and three yyy chromosomes. It would be extremely rare, but apparently not fatal. Almost certainly he would be infertile and likely have significant cognitive impairments. Also probably some physical deformities including scoliosis, hypertelorism and clinodactylism. Usually men with this disorder also have delayed puberty and low testosterone resulting in things like little body hair, low muscle mass, development of male breasts and undescended testes. Not that this guy has that, but yeah that is what that means. Haha.

He's a dancer for money. Do what you want him to do. Any old music will do.

Yes..he used to live in Denver and I really regret not meeting him when he did. Definitely will make it a priority to meet if he ever returns around this way.

Yeah that's why I said "personally." Sorry you didn't have a good experience with him. My experience was good overall, though I would say we didn't connect on our personalities very well. I think it can be tricky with some escorts because if you don't have good chemistry, it kind of ends up being disappointing. I just recently had a massage that was supposed to be erotic, but I guess the guy wasn't feeling it so it ended up being a regular (but relaxing) therapeutic massage. I definitely was disappointed but at the same time I am not going to knock the guy too much because he still gave me something that I enjoyed overall. Though am I going to hire that masseur again? Definitely not. I think being an escort is hard...they are not always going to connect with a client and vice versa. I've kind of learned that myself over the years and if I find a guy I do connect with he becomes a regular. If not, then oh well..it's a one-off. But for another client, that same kind could be an amazing connection completely worth spending the time and money on.

Personally, I disagree that he was just"going through the motions" with me. He is a good escort and I had fun with him. He performed well, is very handsome and was a perfectly nice guy. Just didn't click with him for whatever reason. I would still recommend him though to others.

Yeah he is truly one of my favorite pornstars. I like his look and he kinda has an almost sarcastic personality in some of his videos, which I like. Curious about his reviews..he definitely seems to be saying they are not legit, but they definitely could be.

Have you tried finding someone renting out a condo a la Kevin Slater? That's my situation in Denver and am both getting a good rent price (probably about 20 percent below market) and my landlord is really nice. She decided to give me a rental break for two months after she found out I was sick with COVID, even though I actually didn't lose any income or anything. My building is nice too..solid 60s built with a nice rooftop deck in a really good area. The only downside is she can kind of be slow with getting things fixed, but otherwise no complaints. I think the way to find these apartments is Craigslist or Nextdoor. Specifically look for "condo for rent."

Sorry that happened to you. A good escort should've given you a discount or extended the session into the morning. This once happened to me with a regular. He drives down to Denver from Montana and then continues into New Mexico and sometimes Arizona to see clients. Last summer I hired him for an overnight experience and unfortunately he had some car troubles on the way and had to get his car fixed. He ended up being like four hours late as a result It was kind of a bummer because I actually had tickets for a play (we both enjoy watching live theater together) that we couldn't use and we also missed having dinner together. But he made it up by offering a significant discount and the next morning insisted on paying for breakfast and giving me a little bit of extra time back (though not much because he had to make it down to New Mexico for another client). The whole time he was very communicative and apologetic. These things happen of course and I am sure he also was upset that he lost some money on the battery and stuff. But even though I wasn't initially planning on hiring him on his return trip back to Denver, I did and gave him a nice tip so that kind of made up for it. If you treat regulars well, they will likely treat you well back in kind.

Yes..I met with him. I reviewed him on Daddy's (note that he changed his name and used to go by Jake instead of Steven). I am happy to provide details in PM.

I appreciate what you're saying. I had COVID myself back in April and it was definitely the most sick I have ever been. While I know immunity to the disease is debated, I also feel like it's likely I have some protection against getting a major infection. I am also going to NYC specifically because that area has many fewer cases recently than some other parts of the country. I am also going there because I have some good friends who live there who I haven't seen in many years. My flight and hotel are completely refundable at this point, so if things do start to look a bit worse there, I can always cancel my plans.

I would love to know who you are talking about just so I can avoid. Feel free to PM me if you'd like.

Do you have a link? I'm having trouble finding him on Rent.men. Thanks!

I don't know if I would've gotten the Jonah Slakes thing at first, but the Quench Your Thirst tagline with the whales' blowholes is a good touch. Makes that connection more obvious.

I'm sure this thread has been done before, but with COVID changing things around so much thought I'd ask it again. Going to the city Labor Day weekend and would love to meet with at least one or two handsome men. Any recommendations for me? I like all types really but am more of a bottom here so a great top guy would be perfect. Thanks for any suggestions.

Yeah I think it depends. I work in public education so I am definitely very middle of the middle class. Haha. I literally found out today we are getting a .5% raise this year because of budget cuts and will have to pay 2.5% more into our pension, so we effectively got a pay cut. Fortunately not enough to really effect me in a significant way and certainly I am glad to have a job at all. But yeah, not racking in the big bucks over here.

I'm not 100 percent but I think XYZ is saying that clients too are having to spend more of their money on rent, mortgages, other living costs, etc. So a client may have a harder time parting with $800 for an escort now than they would have in the early 00s or whenever.