big dale

Is it this Mason? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/21755/

I'm confused about why this thread is in The Spa. It seems this guys is basically an escort. Maybe I'm missing something.

Share more about your experience?

I'm excited to see these reviews because I met this provider in a non-service situation, (socially) and they act like they are 23, have a body like they are a fit 43, and a face like 63.

I don’t about other clients, but... Don’t post on the message board and make it all about what potential customers shouldn't do. That’s an immediate red flag. You also just ruined any income you might have had, and we're less inclined to even respond. “Will you book me?” Well... not now. Ever.

WHERE?

Trust me, I don't pay any mind to the COVIDiots out there. I just wanted to contextualize that this was a thread that caused controversy and I appreciate the admins allowing a brave discussion.

*Cough* *Cough* traveling and providing bodywork (and likely sexual) services during a pandemic? I guess we can figure out what those coughs may be.

I want to express thanks to the admins of the site who have not locked down or deleted this thread. I know that not everyone agrees with my viewpoint, I have received a bunch of hate notes, someone tried to dox me (LOL), and a few guys had enough guts to message their opposing viewpoints on the thread. Regardless of whether we agree or not, I am grateful this forum exists and we can have discussions that are meaningful and productive. It serves as a resource, and the admins have shown that they understand that purpose. So- thanks for this safe space to have these kind of chats, as well as a place to find out which hot masseur gives the best HE. LOL, again.

Was it a chair massage in an outdoor space? That seems pretty safe, TBH.

PM the details!

OMG LOVE IT.

Some providers seem to be working on a "flexible, dynamic pricing method" where they charge what they think they can make depending on time of the month, business volume, mood, weather, horoscope, or whatever else strikes their mood. This is not wrong, per se- but does require a potential client to come to the table ready to ask questions, negotiate pricing if needed, and confirm what's being delivered. This is where many of the providers fall down, they refuse to engage in those chats, and for clients not used to having these chats they generally just cough up whatever the guy is asking for on that day. However as many have pointed out, it's a turn-off for a lot of potential clients.

Heck yeah. Going through that thread I am like a teenager again, knocking out load after load after load. =)

Grindr = app Grinder = sandwich I thought there was a sandwich massage. I may be hungry.

@Jim_n_NYC: "I don't care that much about Big Dale" Also @Jim_n_NYC: *spends 7 hours reviewing threads, compiling notes, making links and quoting passages to prove absolutely nothing while he rants to nobody in particular*

I'm not deflecting, you're just acting like an annoying little sister, and I call it as I see it. Whatever this Quixotic shenanigan is you're foisting upon the forum, there are literally dozens of guys sending me PMs to support the POV I have offered. They are intelligent enough to understand one can keep a viewpoint that we should not be getting massages right now, AND still be able to intellectually process new information about providers. Did you ever stop to think part of the reason I ask about guys is that I want to understand what they were doing during the pandemic, so I can make a good choice on where to spend my cash after?

I'm not deflecting, you're just acting like an annoying little sister, and I call it as I see it. Whatever this Quixotic shenanigan is you're foisting upon the forum, there are literally dozens of guys sending me PMs to support the POV I have offered. They are intelligent enough to understand one can keep a viewpoint that we should not be getting massages right now, AND still be able to intellectually process new information about providers. Did you ever stop to think part of the reason I ask about guys is that I want to understand what they were doing during the pandemic, so I can make a good choice on where to spend my cash after?

You keep using the word "bully" while displaying similar behaviors. I wonder why you're projecting. What insecurity and vulnerability have I exposed in you? Why do you find yourself so inferior to me that you need to cast yourself as a victim in a conversation that had literally nothing to do with you? The same laws and freedoms that allow you to continue to carry on behaviors that endanger the rest of us also allow me to comment on it. What failings within yourself are causing you to be so triggered?

You keep using the word "bully" while displaying similar behaviors. I wonder why you're projecting. What insecurity and vulnerability have I exposed in you? Why do you find yourself so inferior to me that you need to cast yourself as a victim in a conversation that had literally nothing to do with you? The same laws and freedoms that allow you to continue to carry on behaviors that endanger the rest of us also allow me to comment on it. What failings within yourself are causing you to be so triggered?

You're really struggling to be seen as relevant. I'm sorry you're not getting the attention you seem to desperately need.

You're really struggling to be seen as relevant. I'm sorry you're not getting the attention you seem to desperately need.

It's piqued, not peaked - at least come correct if you're gonna try it, sis.