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I'm not obsessing. And while I've known it wasn't a good idea to meet, it was just re-impressed on me two days ago when he signed off 'Love you.' However when sex is concerned the body and good intentions can be weak. Not that it's really a (good) defense-but how many people on here have met escorts that they knew they shouldn't have or endured a session when they knew they should have left. But you are def right JJK-the meeting is a no-go. Gman

He shore is pretty, Ma. Gman

I know it's weird. But with my prospects being so dismal, I'm flattered that he's chosen me. I actually think he's sincere in wanting to meet me. I don't thinks this is a scam. But the entire situation with his history of a severe car wreck, being in a coma, there being most likely some personality changes due to brain injury (plus other changes -he told me it had affected his libido-he's frequently horny and takes him 45+ minutes to orgasm-on the hand he's only 25-the accident was at 17-but the libido could be totally him and have nothing to do with the accident), and saying things in correspondence - like the way he signed off last night with 'love you' when we haven't even met yet make me certain that at least as regards relationships, he's probably not stable. I have to admit that I've had brief houghts of Glenn Close from Fatal Attraction pass thru my mind. All summer he's been 50 miles away-I'm assuming living at home and unable to meet. I'm glad when at school he'll be 100 miles away as it will prevent my little head from overriding my big head's decision not to meet no matter how sexless my life is. And really it's better for both of us. Since I can't see a boyfriend relationship with him, he won't be giving up sex in hopes that I'll change my mind. Gman

My sex tends to be luke warm and yawn inducing. But I'm glad you two had fun. Gman

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school. From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?" He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there. The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards. He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased. In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met. On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself. But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.) Gman

Why am I asking? No specific reason. ? Gman

Why am I asking? No specific reason. ? Gman

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Aside possibly from Aqua Velva, I didn't know there were straight and gay colognes. I don't mind them on others if I like the scent. But I personally don't usually wear them because the lingering scent irritates my nostrils. Gman

Available now means he might be accepting clients right then, or he forgot to turn the 'Available Now' toggle off when he went to bed. I don't know anything about 'BuddyLists.' Gman

I am almost 58-7/12 of a year old and never really had a romantic relationship** For those of you either in relationships now or in the past, or those with a dating history consisting of continuity with a guy and not just one night stands, and before you really got to know the guy, was there something physical that first attracted you to him? Or in a related question-have any of you ever had a significant relationship with someone-who at least initially you weren't physically attracted to-but were drawn to because of their intellect/personality/something other than their physical features? Thanking all of you in advance. Gman

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Not to say you are wrong in your opinion of him as an escort, but I've followed his ad a lot over the years because he advertised in Seattle frequently, and until a year and a half ago, I had lived in Tacoma for most of the preceding 9 years. I always thought he was really handsome. When I told him what I was looking for, he told me he didn't kiss. So I have to give him props for being truthful and telling me we wouldn't be a match. The pictures in his ad show the same guy I've always seen although I think at one point he had a boyfriend whom he sometimes duoed with. And the only picture I recognize as being old is the third of 5. The others are new to me. And in my opinion he looks slightly older in pictures 1,2,4, and 5 than he does in picture 3. Gman

Actually I'm fine with that description-well I'd be fine if it said "Lightly Hairy." Gman

Is it possible that we are talking about two different Bens here I'm fairly sure @mike carey is talking about @Benjamin_Nicholas in Dallas. Please correct me if I'm wrong. But I have a sneaking suspicion that you might be talking about Ben Kieran in Boston. Gman

We aim to please. Gman

I've never met him. But you might be in a minority. He has a cadre or devoted admirers. Gman

Tell you what, if you'll throw any such "distorted" gay versatile/bottoms my way, I will gladly do the same for you if I come across any overly coiffed so thin they look like you could break them easily in half over your knee model types. Gman

When he first started advertising, didn't he say or imply he was really more straight? Gman

I maybe should have been more specific in my post above. The main things that kept me from hiring him more often were #1 you could never tell exactly what shape he was in because he would keep pictures that were way out of date up on his ad. And even more importantly #2 he wasn't really into kissing-or at least not with me. I did get him to kiss deeply/passionately occasionally but it wasn't anything you could count on. Gman

I'm not good at story problems. I'm having trouble envisioning this. It seems to me if you've lost weight, the big jeans would be even looser, and the tight jeans loose or just right? ? Gman

Did someone do that to you, or was it a hypothetical? Gman