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Exigent can also ( I looked it up) mean demanding. We've heard complaints before from escorts about overly demanding clients. But I'm not sure that's a particularly good thing for an escort to be either. Gman

Let me add that the reason I say this is mostly due to accountability issues. But it's an accountability issue on both sides. If there was a ? way to insure escorts lived up to their ads, and a ? sure way to sure all clients were decent guys, then maybe deposits would make more sense. But as things stand, deposits don't. Gman

But in general I'd say no escort is. Gman

I can remember at least three or four times not getting much satisfaction from an escort. Strangely enough three were from guys represented by Man to Man and once was a guy from Maximum escorts. Gman

I have no problems believing what you say happened. My question is -are you just having a run of bad luck with the providers you pick-or is it something else? Is it possible it's due to the type of guys you are attracted to? For example are the guys you are choosing well-known people either here on the Message Center or on Daddy's Reviews, or are they more unknown? If more unknown, maybe you should try someone who has been (well) vetted here on the MC or Daddy's Reviews? Gman

I haven't hired in many years. But I've never been much on porn. So I window shop Rentmen. And a vast majority of ads list "BFE." As for my suggestion about the shirt, that's what I did when I hired. Gman

When you consider that probably 90% of the escorts list "boyfriend experience," you have to think that at this point it's just words and may not mean anything. And as a suggestion to some newbies on here, at some point, esp if things seem to be moving slow, I'll usually ask a guy if I can unbutton his shirt. That usually leads to something. Gman

@RJD, you probably already know this. But if not, and I'm not saying it's the case here, but it's pretty easy to get fake Rentmen Reviews. There are apparently even 'standard' fake review profile names. I don't know how people on the Message Center found out. But people have pointed out the names of several fake profiles on RM that have reviewed lots of different guys. Gman

So-just be sure I understand-he didnt let you or the guy prior to you top him? Gman

There's one picture (or at least there used to be if not there now) of him wearing nail polish. Not that there's anything wrong with that-except for me-it gives me the heeby-jeebies. Gman

I have to think it's due to the stereotype of women making a fuss and complaining/b-tching or feeling more hurt than a man would. A man would, stereotypically, "suck it up," not let anyone see his pain, and any suffering, if the man was affected by the circumstances at all, would be done in silence. Because we men are TOUGH HOMBRES- not whiny women. Gman

I had forgotten today was your day!! Gman

Is there some reason not to use the phone apps? There are other sites-but I think they are more of the dating type -they have websites and might have phone apps too. 1. There's Plenty of Fish https://www.pof.com/ 2. OkCupid https://www.okcupid.com/ Okcupid if it hasn't changed from when I tried it years ago, this site will ask you a lot of questions and then will match you up. The problem being that I'm fairly unattractive. Just because I might match someone else's interests, if they didn't like the way I looked, they weren't interested in meeting. I'm assuming that's why no one was ever interested in me during the several months I was on it. 3. Match.com Interesting fact-initially it didn't cover same sex relationships. I believe the founder was a therapist who supposedly had done testing on compatibility. His stated reason for not including same sex matches was that he didn't have the data. At some point I think there was a lawsuit, and they were forced to include same sex matches. Going back to the gay sites, there's 4. adam4adam.com 5. Manhunt-I haven't looked at this site in probably 7 years. https://www.manhunt.net/signup Another site to try might be. Depending on where you live, there may be gay groups. MEETUP- meetup.com Gman

Why would he say "Top Only" in his ad copy, but then put "Ask Me" in the Position location? Gman

The problem is -and obviously it's not just with gay men-but he's too handsome. There are many gay men who would do anything to be with this guy. I'm sure all the adulation porn stars get has a tendency to go to their heads. Years ago I hired one of the handsomest guys to ever advertise. He's now retired. He was an incredibly nice guy. But you knew from the way he looked that he could have just about any guy he wanted. And it probably didn't hurt that he was well-hung and endurant to the point that he probably had trouble cumming when jerking off. (In case anyone is getting ideas about why I hired him, he was also versatile). And as nice as the guy was, there was an attitude. It probably wasn't as bad that being described about Riley. But it was still there. Human nature doesn't take well to being adulated. Gman

Wow-I hadn't thought of Rentafriend in a long time. Back when I had a career and money I thought about using them. When you are searching for friends on their website, there is an option to say you are a gay male and and are looking for gay males. I'm trying to remember if I actually sent an email to a few of them or not. I have a vague memory that I might have. But I don't think I ever got a response from the guy I was interested in. But then maybe I only thought about sending an email. In any case I don't think this is what you are looking for. I think I finally decided that it wasn't for me. I wondered what would happen if I really liked the guy but was only a client to him. That wouldn't have been really good for my ego. I found the same thing with hiring escorts-the only thing that really allowed me to go thru with hiring was that I needed sex, and hiring was the only way I was going to get it. Also Rentafriend is not a sex site. I have no idea how often sex occurs between people on there. But it's not Rentmen. Gman

Two things come to mind -a statement and a question -- 1) What exactly did you want shaved? 2) You must be hot if Cade wanted you. Gman

Two things come to mind -a statement and a question -- 1) What exactly did you want shaved? 2) You must be hot if Cade wanted you. Gman

I'm not @arlinguy, but I'm willing to share my long ago experiences with you from my vague remembrances of 7 to 12 years ago ( I lived in Dallas twice before -actually four times before. But I didn't hire the first two times, and I can't remember if I met him during Dallas Sojourn 3 or 4. Although the more I think about it, it was probably during Sojourn #3 ) I met him at least twice. If he didn't kiss, I doubt I would have met him a second time. For the massage, I was satisfied but I'm not an expert massagee. I'm pretty sure he had a table as I think we moved to the bed for the after massage part. He was a fine bottom. Personality-wise there seemed a distance between us. I know when I met him he pretty much wanted all the communication to be by text. While that's not so unusual now- it wasn't that common for everything to be by text back then. I attribute all of this to language difficulties. When we met, I don't think there was really any difficulty understanding each other. But I think he feels, or at least felt back then, that he communicates better by text unless it's in person. Gman

I've only figured out 20. I'm not sure I'll be able to get anymore. Gman

While they work, th weren't included on the official list of words for the day. Per the offices rules, the words have to be longer than three letters You subscribed because of this thread, or had you already subscribed? Today's is a toughie for me. Gman

Here's a teaser of Palmer's solo. https://www.waybig.com/video/palmers-solo-406626.html He only did the one video for Sean Cody. It's dated January 2019. I wonder if he's been on other sites. Gman

For me that was a generic link for Sean Cody. It didn't pull up Palmer specifically. This one worked better for me. http://gay.fleshbot.com/8468706/sean-cody-palmer/ Gman

He's not into oral? I don't see it listed. Gman

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