After years of dont ask dont tell i have found thst alot of military guys(sspecially marines) are extremely open minded. Alot of the young grunts essentially get minimum wage but all housing and benefits covered so not alot of cash on hand if they like nice things. Also these men are naturally discreet and cant afford to be visible. Ill say best regions are southern california and the lower half of the east coast. Dont judge a book by its cover some of these hardcore tatted up types walking around with machine guns will let you polish theirs.