I actually dont find your position as helpful as you would like to think. You are completely right for pointing out the risks of oral sex but it still seems your falsely equivocating and/or putting them in the same boat. Almost every std will be easier to transmit via anal and yes the big one hiv is almost always transferred that way as it pertains to sex. That for me matters and as i said before there has been a long tradition of reckless self destructive behavior amongst gay men that still bewilders me to this day. Gay men were literally having unprotected anal sex during an era when they knew what caused hiv/aids and it was a death sentence. I know this is a touchy subject but it evokes anger in me because it affected alot of ppl. With a few degrees of separation its easy to see how alot of communities outside the gay community(women, children) could have been infected unknowingly. Lets also not forget from time to tike we hear about strains of hiv that are resistant to prep and resistant to medication. No one should be having bareback sex with a provider who is having bareback sex unless you guys are both infected and have reached a point where a few moments of pleasure is the paramount concern in your life.