Mark you are soooooooo wrong! Alot of ppl loooooooooove straight men because they represent the ultimate prize of forbidden lust.
Also in the gay world there is alot of pageantry. Ppl learn to filter,edit and camoflauge. Everyone online is a masc jock bro(very often bu). After a while you feel like everyone was produced in the same factory.
When dealing with real straight men(from the street not gay sites) there is a magic to the courtship many gay men will never know. Have you ever put your hand on a straight guys thigh and seen the look of equal parts wonder and confusion? Straight men have no play book to follow(once again not talking about your fave fake straight on rentmen); they were often socialized that being who they were was good enough so you often gwt raw matter of fact emotion and feedback. That for me is the wonder and the magic.
Honestly ask yourself if Rob Gronkowski , or the Rock or (insert a hot straight celeb we all know) was broke and open minded do you think gay men would not be running to the atm machines? I can literally hear the money being counted.