I’ve only had an experience once that I ended early. His place was filthy and he was wearing a stained shirt. After chatting for like 5 min I told him that I was sorry but it wasn’t going to work out but offered him 1/3 of the agreed price. for his time.
It’s scary to confront sometimes but if you don’t then it’s on you.
I think the reason why so many people say “YMMV” is because a masseur is not an escort. If you want a guarantee for more than the standard HE then hire an escort.
I’ve had sessions with “sensual only “ providers which became what I and most people would consider erotic and vice versa.
I like going into a session knowing that we will both be nude, and there will be mutual touching and release. I always confirm that with a provider before booking. Anything more is based on chemistry. For me that’s part of the turn on.
1. Know your status. Get tested regularly - every 3-6 mos
2. Use whatever “safe sex” methods are best for you - condoms, prep, or both condoms and prep.
3. Communicate with your sex partners.
4. You’re responsible for keeping yourself protected.