Bluefin

I had a massage in a spa at a “gay destination” spot. They had a sign on the front desk that said something along the lines of “this is legitimate establishment and we take the well-being of our staff very seriously. No lewd behavior will be tolerated”. Which I was totally fine with. I wasn’t looking for anything more than something therapeutic anyway. I go into the room and it’s the usual spa set up. The masseur comes in - this cute ginger gay guy - asks me to undress, get under the sheet and he’ll be back. Throughout the course of the massage I kept thinking I was getting signals - grazing my balls/taint with a finger, adjusting the sheet so my crack was exposed, placing the palm of my hand on his chest when massaging my arm, massaging down into my pubic area, his bulge on my shoulder etc. But because of that sign I’m caught between thinking I’m misreading the signals and terrified to make a move and be embarrassed at best or at worst arrested. So I did nothing and he did nothing more. I’m still not completely sure what happened. I do know I would have signalled back if it hadn’t been for the fucking sign. That’s the closest I ever got to action at a legit spa.

Aside: such a good movie.

I usually book when I want/am ready for a massage not based on a particular guy. So if I want a massage for this weekend and the guy I booked cancels, I contact another provider. If it were me I’d tell this guy that I was looking forward to a massage this weekend and that I’m booking someone else and that I’ll be touch next time. But that’s just me. If you’re into him and you’re into waiting you might want to risk him canceling again.

In SF $120-$130/hr is the going rate for all the bells and whistles. For $170/hr it better be one of the best massage experiences you’ve had.

I saw him in January. Pics are accurate. Good shape with a bit of a belly. If you can get past that he gives a great technical massage, is playful, and a super nice guy. Reviews are positive for a reason.

This site never works for me. Not on my phone or my laptop.

I would have preferred that my parents and doctor had not mutilated my genitals without my consent.

Is it just me or do these not play (ads that won’t end)?

Therapeutic massage with erotic elements with someone either trained or with a lot of experience. Both nude with mutual touch and release. Open to more if there’s chemistry but not the goal of the session.

I would love to get one and I’m sure my repeat providers would love to give one but for me the risk is still too high.

I’m the same. I don’t get into specifics because there are so many variables with massage of this type and it’s definitely a “YMMV” situation - what happened during my session might not happen in your session and I wouldn’t want to create any expectations in the mind of a client that a provider may not want to live up to. I will give general info and whether I’d repeat or not.

Open showers have gone away like the trough urinal. The kids nowadays are such prudes.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-julianmasseur-in-sf.138606/

$300 for a YMMV massage? Gurl, bye.

https://rentmasseur.com/benmendes/ His pics aren’t real either. I turned up and he looked nothing like the pics in his ad.

All joking aside that doesn’t seem like an unreasonable request when booking. “I like light scratching incorporated into the massage is that something you’d be willing to provide?”

Hey just curious if there were any precautions taken due to COVID. Wondering what providers are doing to help clients feel safe.

I’ve seen Ben a couple of times. He gives a good Thai style massage and an overall good experience. Nice guy too.

I’d say being verse plays into why my success rate is on the higher side.

Does anyone subscribe to this site and if so would you say it’s worth it?

Oh! Do you have the username for the OnlyFans? Cheers!

Not hot but not bad looking. Mostly good at selecting providers that match up with what I’m looking for.

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I see a guy regularly who I get a premassage table salt scrub from. He joins me in the shower to rinse the scrub from all my nooks and crannies before we start the massage.

I see someone semi regularly who gives a happy middle. Nice change of pace. The trick is finding provider who doesn't think that the faster he can get you to blow the faster he can end the massage.