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Well baste my steaming pudding!

Well sprinkle me with brown sugar and call me breakfast....

Any minute now, we're going to start talking about walking uphill to school (both directions) in waist deep snow, butt naked, with only a scrap of leather to chew on for lunch....
 
Pardon me while I go yell at some kids to get off of my lawn.

I've seen so many variations on what "BFE" means that the phrase doesn't seem to have much meaning (in an objective sense), though...and if that's what it means to you, then I can understand why you (and some others) might find it appealing.
 
Personally, it doesn't interest me, though. Different strokes for different folks.

Gee. That doesn't make me feel old at all. *chuckle*

Being naked for SOMEONE has always been different to me than being naked for EVERYONE. I could escort in a heartbeat....but I could NEVER have been a stripper.

LOL. Beepers! I had one for a short while as an experiment.
 
One evening there was a car accident right in front of me. I stopped to see if anyone was hurt, and I had to argue for several minutes with a couple of people people that just because I had a beeper didn't mean that I was a doctor. I came very close to yelling at the people "I'm a hooker, all right?!" but thought better of it.

*chuckle*
 
However, if your dick is the width of a conductor's baton.....

First, a brief introduction....and then some questions for discussion...
 
I was myself an escort years ago (as in the 1990s) in New England. I was moderately successful for several years, not needing any other supplemental source of income. I eventually found a steady job outside of sex work and left it a couple of decades ago.
 
These were, of course, the days before there were well-known websites where you would advertise your wares. (Hell, AOL was sending floppy discs and CD-ROMs in the mail every month to just about everyone in the US in those days.) This was before Craigslist, adam4adam, rentmen, etc. You had to find other ways to make yourself known and keep yourself safe.
 
While there aren't many people who continue escorting for decades at a time, I was wondering how some of the long-timers would compare escorting today (in 2018) as opposed to when they started years ago. Is there anything about the "old days" that they wish they could bring back? Have things changed for the better in the age of smartphones, etc.? What were things like when you started vs. how you do business today?

Being naked for SOMEONE has always been different to me than being naked for EVERYONE. I could escort in a heartbeat....but I could NEVER have been a stripper.

I don't know that it's necessarily a youth thing. I'm in my mid-40s, have been to a couple of nude beaches in my day....and have always felt nervous and reluctant to strip down completely naked. I've ended up doing so, but it has always taken me a little while after being naked before I didn't feel "exposed," as it were.
 
That said, a normal person would have had their bathing suit on under their pants in that situation. In that context, I would wonder if they were trying to draw attention to themselves (with their contortions, etc.) for whatever reason.